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Someone I have never heard of has announced they are transgender and it's really upset the community

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Doyoumind · 08/10/2019 09:35

This is trending on Twitter.

A youtuber called Trisha Paytas (female), who is very feminine has announced they are trans but more like a drag queen. So, they feel like a man but like they are like a man dressing as a woman but they are female Confused, as far as I can tell because I don't have the time or the energy to watch their announcement video.

This gender identity thing is moving to extremes very quickly at the moment.

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CuriousaboutSamphire · 08/10/2019 15:29

Huh? Is it time of this one again?

neonglow · 08/10/2019 13:44

But ‘if somebody says they are trans then they are trans’ and gender identity has nothing to do with gender stereotypes apparently- women can have beards, men can be feminine and so on. So what are they getting angry about? Surely they have to accept that TP is transgender as there is no criteria beyond saying you identify one way or another.

KatvonHostileExtremist · 08/10/2019 13:37

CHAT CHAT CHAT hooray!

I thought the first bit of their video (pronoun check) was interesting actually. That IS what many teenage girls feel.

I think really they are talking about gender. It is all bollocks after all! Anyone gender free (like many of us) are trans by the stonewall definition.

I think the transphobia shown against them is horrific.

Doyoumind · 08/10/2019 13:32

What a weird comment Therarestone. I haven't heard of them but they have 4 million subscribers and they have pissed off the trans community by making a statement which questions the ideology. That's the point of the thread. It's fascinating and revealing. Does it therefore meet your criteria for discussion?

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BernardBlacksWineIceLolly · 08/10/2019 13:00

There’s this thing called ‘chatting’ Theresa

Some people like to do it on chat sites

Does that help?

Therarestone · 08/10/2019 12:55

'someone I don't know' doesn't affect you in any way.... Point of thread?

BanKittenHeels · 08/10/2019 12:43

TP is a well known wind up merchant. I can see why TRAs are angry but also acceptance without exception and all that.

stillathing · 08/10/2019 12:39

Wasn't there a thing where straight women wrote/read a lot of gay fan fiction on the internet? The attraction being, for a hetero female, all of the sexy man stuff without the misogyny. A respite from women being depicted as objects for male consumption, rarely allowed to have their own agency or desires.

Whilst being hetero is undoubtedly still more acceptable in society, for women there is something of a paradox in being attracted to members of the class which oppresses us.

OvaHere · 08/10/2019 12:13

There's no discernible difference between 'T' and someone like Danielle Muscato other than we are all clearly expected to take individuals with a Y chromosome a lot more seriously. No change there really.

nauticant · 08/10/2019 11:58

My favourite of this identity flipping is the male opera singer who has transitioned to being a transwoman and now breaks barriers as a woman getting and performing male operatic roles.

www.classicfm.com/music-news/first-transgender-woman-us-opera/

In other words, a male opera singer performing male roles.

If that's not brave and stunning I don't know what is.

ShesDressedInBlackAgain · 08/10/2019 11:50

What a lovely guy. Do haddock and LOJ know he is now available for relationship purposes? I do hope so.

Sagradafamiliar · 08/10/2019 11:40

She identifies as a gay man (this week). She is a man because she only puts full-on makeup on when she wants to 'put on a show', like drag queens do. Good lord. She's confused. Fallen victim to her own stereotypes.
I do sympathise with her though, I can see that she's struggling with the 'female experience', where women struggle so much- thanks to men- that she's trying to identify out of being a woman rather than aligning herself with feminism and realising there is so much more to being a woman than dressing up as a male's interpretation of one. What a mess.

Datun · 08/10/2019 11:35

Makes perfect sense according to the ideology.

Apparently none of it is stereotypes. So her identifying as a man is a completely normal inner feeling. Her identifying as a man who likes to dress as a woman, is also completely normal. Lots of men like to dress as women.

In fact right now, I'm exactly the same. I'm a woman, identifying as a man, identifying as a woman. As any fule can tell.

AryaStarkWolf · 08/10/2019 11:28

Someone commented :

“i’m trans because i’ve always loved having short hair” like what...? um anyway...

Isn't that what trans is? Like stereotypes etc because it isn't Biology apparently hhhmm

Ereshkigal · 08/10/2019 11:22

She has every bit as much right to say she is trans as any of them.

NellieEllie · 08/10/2019 11:18

I’d assumed she was taking the pee. After all if that guy with a beard can be a woman because he “feels like one”, then logical conclusion is that a woman with long blond hair, face full of make up and ultra “feminine” risqué clothing can be a man.

Justhadathought · 08/10/2019 11:17

It’s fine for manly men to say they are a woman, but a woman saying they feel like a man who dresses as a woman is not allowed.It’s moving beyond parody

When I was younger I used to imagine that if I was a man I'd be gay. Human beings are complex and feelings about the self are too. There is nothing new in this; except now the TRANS movement thinks it has invented the wheel, and in doing so takes itself far too seriously, and literally.

AryaStarkWolf · 08/10/2019 11:16

It’s fine for manly men to say they are a woman, but a woman saying they feel like a man who dresses as a woman is not allowed.

Exactly what I thought aswell. Now I'm not saying I "believe" her however men seem to be believed without question or else anyone saying otherwise is transphobic but these same people can say she's lying for attention? interesting indeed...not surprising of course, just kind of cements the fact that this is all about men stamping on women

Ladyfat · 08/10/2019 11:12

Double standards, they all love a “woman” with a beard and penis.

2BthatUnnoticed · 08/10/2019 11:12

Why are people mad about it (genuine question)? Many TW continue to look more manly, than this person looks womanly.

As long as women who need female-only spaces can access them, I cannot see any reason to criticise or judge.

Sicario · 08/10/2019 11:11

What I want to know is where all the gay kids have gone. Statistics in the UK suggest that 6-7% of people are gay, so 6-7 pupils out of every 100. Where are they? All being shuttled along on the trans-train?

Didactylos · 08/10/2019 11:10

She may be taking the piss, but the piss really needs to be taken

CharlieParley · 08/10/2019 11:06

This is simply taking the advice one of the old-fashioned TS once gave to test this ludicrous transgender nonsense - for a woman to identify as a man who identifies as a woman.

Acceptance without exception means questioning that is transphobic.

No less transphobic btw than trans privilege activists being apoplectic about Charlie saying she is a detransitioner without ever medically transitioning.

As if they've never heard about social transitions. Apparently a big deal. Apparently one does not have to medically transition to be trans. Apparently one does not even have to have gender dysphoria to be trans.

But when someone comes along who has GD and who has socially transitioned who then stops doing that, then it turns out they're not trans after all. Not without medically transitioning.

That community polices itself a lot harder than we do. Maybe they should get some acceptance training from Stonewall.

Doyoumind · 08/10/2019 10:15

I'm perfectly happy for her to say whatever she wants. I don't think she's doing it to create debate. She's just self promoting but if people get themselves tied up in knots defining what being trans means it works for me.

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Melroses · 08/10/2019 10:11

She's not circumgender then?