Astonishing thread from Jane Fae, Darvo at its finest.

Maybe try 'marshmallow balls' instead, Kittens?

Actual lol at 'painting as deviants' - on the internets, you can hardly move for their* own posts on the matter...

*general 'their'

1. Why do I get the feeling that "he had eggshell balls, your honor" would be far less likely to stand up in court?

So many questions:

1. How can I tell if I have an egg shell skull?
2. Is it my duty to inform someone hitting me of this condition that could lead to him being charged unfairly with murder?
3. Is it his duty to ask before he hits me?
4. If he sneaks up behind me is it still my fault as I should have been wearing a sign of some sort?
5. Why isn't the 'Humpty Dumpty defence' used more often in court?

So fae in a past life

Ok off to google this

Mind your eggshell skulls, wimmin! Might be best to don a hard hat.

And yes, I realize that men tend to forget this but the women who appear in porn are actual people who can be and often are harmed. They're not CGI.

At the risk of breaking those rules, I'd tend to assume that if someone has a strong enough interest in a particular porn category to campaign for keeping it legal they may also have an interest in enacting the same behavior irl.

The women being watched by those acting on their interests are being harmed.

If you're a woman? Fae wins by a mile.

I defer to your experience. It wasn't really a serious argument that Fae is less creepy, more an excuse to riff on your post with some other delightful TRA behaviour.

The Special Rules will not allow me to explain why.

MN talk rules? I think I understand your point.

Promoting extreme porn is not just a serious threat but also actual harm to the women that get caught in it's net.

Of course, I meant in terms of personally acting on their 'interests'.

yep. the idea of being alone with Fae?

the hair on my arms is standing up. really disturbing person.

Honestly, this is such a perfect example of why men need to step back and let women take the lead on this (and not try to turn conversations between women about serious stuff into an opportunity to be the Funniest Guy In The Room). It's obvious to any woman why Fae is a threat in a way that Harrop isn't.

Nah, number 5. Somewhat creepy manner and prurient interests, but no evidence of real threat.

Promoting extreme porn is not just a serious threat but also actual harm to the women that get caught in it's net.

It's worth noting here that paraphilias cluster (and again, special rules limit our ability to convey useful information).

I keep humming ‘my boy lollipop’ for some reason.

You're not seeing it because you're a man. If you're a woman? Fae wins by a mile. The Special Rules will not allow me to explain why.

Aw where’s wee lil?

Dropped out of the top 5, no recent hits.

Not convinced she's creepy enough to displace Fae anyway. Obviously still holding the number 2 slot in the UK 'most amusing TRA chart'.

Or should that be lil’ Lil?

Aw where’s wee lil?

Fae is by far the most sinister British TRA, imo.

Nah, number 5. Somewhat creepy manner and prurient interests, but no evidence of real threat.

Jane is knocked out of the 4 slot by Aimee Challenor's dead eyed stare and terrifying back story.

Holding at 3, with mad staring eyes and some seriously obsessive harassment of women, it's doctor misogyny himself: Adrian Harrop.

Down one place to number two it's an old favourite: Jess Bradley. Jess has already graduated to criminal self exposure and flaunting risky behaviour. With many years of escalation left there are bound to be more hits.

Which means a new number one this week. With a history of violence, criminal convictions, duets personally harassing women with Dr Harrop, creepy breathless manner and an unparalleled track record of malicious law suits against women: let's hear it for Stephanie Hayden.

We said we wanted to talk and they said "how fucking dare you", and then they tried to prevent us from talking.

Quite. The event at which Maria MacLachlan was assaulted was originally intended to have speakers from Stonewall as well as gender critical speakers. The Stonewall speakers pulled out. And after that, every single event held by Woman's Place and other groups has been subjected to violent threats and sometimes physical intimidation.

Fae is by far the most sinister British TRA, imo. The special rules for trans prevent me from saying any more but I'm pretty sure everyone who's seen Fae speaking sees it too, and googling Fae's "deadname" is also illuminating.

When someone makes the hair on the back of your neck stand up that's your subconscious trying to tell you something and you should listen.