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New NHS guidance on same sex accommodation

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LukewarmCustard · 30/09/2019 17:29

The guidance starts out well. '1.2 Guidance statement: Providers of NHS-funded care are expected to have a zero-tolerance approach to mixed-sex accommodation, except where it is in the overall best interest of all patients affected.'

But then there is Annex B, which says 'Trans people should be accommodated according to their presentation: the way they dress, and the name and pronouns they currently use. This may not always accord with the physical sex appearance of the chest or genitalia. It does not depend on their having a gender recognition certificate (GRC) or legal name change. It applies to toilet and bathing facilities (except, for instance, that preoperative trans people should not share open shower facilities).' Annex B was apparently written with input from the Government Equalities Office.

NHS accommodation is now mixed sex accommodation with allocations based on pronouns.

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LordProfFekkoThePenguinPhD · 30/09/2019 19:49

What about religious women? I’d have a hard enough time in my PJs in front of strangers let alone men in nighties - especially the types who really really want to be ‘in with the girls’. I wouldn’t sleep.

Drizzzle · 30/09/2019 19:49

'1.2 Guidance statement: Providers of NHS-funded care are expected to have a zero-tolerance approach to mixed-sex accommodation, except where it is in the overall best interest of all patients affected.'

I can't see how it could be in the "best interest of ALL parients affected"
to share a room with someone of a sifferent sex unless there'a an emergency, complete lack of beds or staff etc. So it shouldn't happen on normal wards.

PhonicTheHedgehog · 30/09/2019 19:42

My elderly mum woke up to find another elderly lady in her hospital bed with her. They were both very frightened.

Mum is incredibly anxious and correct. She’d have been traumatized if that woman had been a confused male.

Sparklywolf · 30/09/2019 19:41

My Dad is currently on a Male hospital ward, along with another chap who adamantly refuses to wear hospital trousers or get under the covers. Today on visit I was greeted with his testicle coming out the edge of his incontinence pad/not pants.

I had dignity issues about this anyway but would be starting WW3 if that view was opposite my Mum's hospital bed instead

WhereAreWeNow · 30/09/2019 19:37

Yes needmoresleep I had exactly the same thought about dementia having seen this for myself in care homes. Terrifying. I actually believe there would be a market for single sex care homes.

Yubaba · 30/09/2019 19:34

My dad is in a mixed sex dementia ward at the moment, the women are at one end of the ward and the men at the other but there is nothing to stop them wandering into each other’s rooms

Needmoresleep · 30/09/2019 19:26

disinhibited sexuality in elderly people with dementia is far from uncommon and a sensible and experience management will build protection into their active safeguarding provisions.

But no, the woke bros with their friends in PN know better. In reality they don't know anything.

Lamahaha · 30/09/2019 19:25

How many people usually share a ward in UK hospitals?

Ereshkigal · 30/09/2019 19:21

The only way we’re going to stop this is by being more fucking awkward and louder than the narc men who are driving it.

This this this.

GrinitchSpinach · 30/09/2019 19:19

The only way we’re going to stop this is by being more fucking awkward and louder than the narc men who are driving it.

Damn straight, AnyOldPrion. At the same time, aggressive gender activists and those abusive people for whom they open these doors RELY on the fact that women are socialized to be kind, not to make a fuss, and also for very good reason to be frightened of male people --- particularly male people who act aggressively and unreasonably right off the bat.

Popchyk · 30/09/2019 19:17

They've got the front to talk about "zero tolerance for mixed-sex" and then talk about "well if any bloke wants to be in with the women, then we'll facilitate that".

Load of bollocks.

They won't have done an impact assessment on women. Nor will they have considered how religious women who cannot undress in front of men will be affected.

Women will be refusing to to go hospital. And will be discharging themselves rather than risk having to share with men.

Expect private health insurance to cash in with their guarantees of a private room. For those who can afford it only.

Ereshkigal · 30/09/2019 19:15

Is it just the usual creeps having regulatory captured the NHS

Pretty sure you don't have to look any further.

LordProfFekkoThePenguinPhD · 30/09/2019 19:14

So the NHS treats not bodies but airy fairy feels?

Thank god that wasn’t my mum on that ward - she would have thrown the mother and father of all fits. It would make the papers. My grandmother would have been worse...

JellySlice · 30/09/2019 19:12

The NHS knows perfectly well the difference between male and female - but it clearly only matters in a clinical sense, not in any sense relating to safety, dignity or emotional well-being of patients or staff.

New NHS guidance on same sex accommodation
AnyOldPrion · 30/09/2019 19:12

MIL recently spent a week in a ward with a 'lady' who had a penis, stubble and chest hair. This lady loudly farted at will and scratched her scrotum whilst she wore pink floral pyjama bottoms, no top but open pink gown make up

Think if this ever happens to a relative of mine, I will complain loud and long to whoever is in charge. The only way we’re going to stop this is by being more fucking awkward and louder than the narc men who are driving it.

WhereAreWeNow · 30/09/2019 19:11

This is fucking outrageous. Just thinking of how vulnerable I've felt whenever I've had to stay in hospital. How can we complain? Did NHS consult on this?

AnyOldPrion · 30/09/2019 19:07

New guidance. Even worse than the old guidance. Even though it was produced in response to objections.

LordProfFekkoThePenguinPhD · 30/09/2019 18:59

Sorry but ‘she - her - lady - penis’ reminds me of a kids tv song I half remember -‘3 of these words all go together, 3 of these words mean kind of the same, One of these words...’

NewNameGuy · 30/09/2019 18:56

I'm glad the NHS's money is being well spent on this guidance.
Labour will give us more of this "compassionate wokeness"

wildhairdontcare · 30/09/2019 18:52

MIL recently spent a week in a ward with a 'lady' who had a penis, stubble and chest hair. This lady loudly farted at will and scratched her scrotum whilst she wore pink floral pyjama bottoms, no top but open pink gown make up.

This lady's manner was verbally aggressive to staff who were treating her as best they could. Their stand off attitude was more to do with her vile behaviour than her penis!

LukewarmCustard · 30/09/2019 18:46

The Foreword to the guidance says: 'There are some clinical circumstances where mixed sex accommodation can be justified. These are few, and mainly confined to patients who need highly specialised care, such as that delivered in critical care units.'

Its complete cognitive dissonance.

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truthisarevolutionaryact · 30/09/2019 18:43

If the Equality Act allows for sex segregated spaces then why aren't hospital wards where women are often undressed, receiving treatment and vulnerable included in this? Is it just the usual creeps having regulatory captured the NHS or is there are actual legal arguments?

Doyoumind · 30/09/2019 18:41

Surely there aren't even suitable facilities in or close to some wards though. Are there men's showers on a maternity ward for trans men giving birth to use? Do they now have to be introduced?

ErrolTheDragon · 30/09/2019 18:41

Several decades ago, mixed sex geriatric wards weren't uncommon. A great uncle was in one, along with a nun who apparently thought she'd gone to hell.

HumberElla · 30/09/2019 18:38

This is where enforced ideology and wearing rainbow badges gets you. It’s all lovely and nice and inclusive.

Nope.