Olives analogy: yes, exactly. And why this weird dressing up of the idea that you have some kind of social duty to override your feelings and like and eat olives properly, because it's a behavioural fault in you...
This just represents, yet again, how much of the ideology boils down to a need to control others. Their language, their perceptions, their behaviour, their bodies. This is seeing others as puppets, as inhuman props in ones' personal world, and is surrounded by careful language choices which dress it as acceptable and rational.
Who wants to have sex (note its sex. Never relationships, no emotion or connection involved here) with someone who gives not one fuck about how you feel or what you want or who you feel you are, and just wants you to shut up and force yourself to service them wholeheartedly?
Seriously, I'm increasingly thinking we need to organise a massive campaign aimed at teenaged girls, school packs, the lot, all about consent and what every female has a right to in their relationships and treatment by others.