Anal sex for 13 year olds? Warwickshire again...

Badger's sister has it. I can't imagine anyone not going "what pedo wrote this?" unless they've already been groomed themselves. And yes, think of the poor non-creep teachers being expected to deliver this shit to their classes. It would be a competition to see who'd be cringing harder, them or the students. And yet someone nobody at Warwickshire (which I automatically wrote as shite again, my subconscious is really insistent about this!) noticed anything wrong. Do they just not read anything before approving it?

Just bumping this thread in the hope it may reach more eyes. It is such an important topic.

I hear you.

Someone needs to make his dd focus of concern!

Such an important thread. Yet again we have schools and local authorities taking 'advice' from individuals with no child psychology / development / education / safeguarding experience. Nothing other than a gruesome fascination with extreme sexual acts that involve pain and humiliation and a sinister desire to present these acts to children as 'acceptable' and 'sex positive'.

I do hope that the relevant police forces have been contacted about individuals pushing this stuff at children and, as commented upthread, that a very close examination is made of their hard drives.

Thank you softday. I learn so much here on FWR.

I do wonder about the thought processes of men in general who have daughters and also know the sorts of things women are becoming expected to do in bed as standard. Doesn't it give them pause for thought at all? Are they okay with their daughters being asked for anal, being choked and having men ejaculate on them in ever more inventive ways? I realise some people's mental compartmentalising skills are impressive, but do they extend this far?

Yes, raise red flags about him being a parent full stop, I meant his dd as an individual should not be our focus, but he absolutely should.

Its entirely appropriate to raise red flags around this man, especially as he has a dd that he is even closwr to and has more power and control of.

Antibles, I am taking the liberty of pasting in your post of 8.57 a.m today because it is such an incisive, clear-sighted analysis of the mess we have got ourselves into with porn. There have been some brilliant contributions on this thread, which I have bookmarked. Thank you to the wonderful posters of FWR. Antibles's, in particular, is incredibly important.

Antibles said:

Yes. The damaging thing is that we already have a generation who have grown up with internet porn-addled men and have started having sex and think that degrading sex acts direct from porn are perfectly acceptable, as we see on threads arguing about porn on other boards. The age split in attitude is really obvious.

Psychologically, these young women are highly invested in not changing their minds about this because to admit they have been allowing men to degrade them throughout their sexual life would naturally be very painful mentally. So they continue to bat for the porn-positive team and prefer to think old gimmers like me are just behind the times prudes.

We badly need a new educational intervention for the next generation. Zero tolerance of this anti-women, child-endangering pornified shit. Letting girls know there was a time (all the rest of human history I daresay) when young men didn't have erectile dysfunction unless they were coming on your face or sticking it up your arse.

The concept of widely available pornography is incredibly new. The permanent photographic image is less than 200 years old. Men are showing us that, as a class, they can't control themselves when it comes to porn, they are like toddlers let loose in a new sweet shop: they are consuming, consuming, consuming and are making themselves sick. Then, to continue the metaphor somewhat distastefully, vomiting up the consequences all over women and children.

Yes, I agree Bernard, his daughter is an irrelevance, but it makes it that bit more shocking. I had assumed he was probably a gay, childless male tbh. No skin in the game. The fact he does have a child is pretty horrifying, given his beliefs, but it doesn’t need to go beyond knowing he is a parent.

Oh right, so anyone advocating particular masturbating practices to those barely out of nappies, and promoting the idea they are somehow wrong thinking to prefer a female do intimate exams on them, as girls, and that porn is empowering, doesnt raise massive red flags for the parent of a poor child of his???!!!

What is up with some unboundaried porn suppprters

He believes this stuff, of course he'll be forcing it on his own dd, and its abuse...plain and simple, right in front of your nose, in plain view.

If the country took a vote on the content of sex education, this would definitely not be the outcome. There needs to be aafeguards pit in place around any dc that have been exposed to this vile rot masquerading as 'education'. More aesopian language.

Jimmy saville hid behind charity mate whilst raping young girls and women whilst given free access to some of the most vulnerable (gosh that sounda familiar).

Wolf in sheep's clothing amongst the sheep.

I dunno SirVix

The point I was (clumsily) trying to make is that the pp about speaking to his daughter was inappropriate. Made me regret mentioning her

Birdsfoottrefoil
That is so true, it applies in all areas.

“I am sure Jonny is a good parent”
Really ? How can a man who find this stuff acceptable ever be a good parent ?

Oh I see, they have added an extra 'e'. Yeah you can't do ee in Japanese. As you were.

But there isn't a single 'k' sound in Japanese is there? So bukake would be made up of the sounds 'bu', 'ka' and 'ke'. Or have I forgotten summat vital?

I have watched with amazement in my council how a completely unqualified but very confident/arrogant person has managed to position herself as a spokesperson on a particular topic. Once on one committee they slip into another then use that to move onto a national committee. If you speak loudly enough and confidently enough whilst dismissing others it seems you can pretty much corner the market in terms of offering advice regardless of lack actual knowledge or lack of qualifications.

Did no teachers at least skim read it

People in groups tend to be really stupid, if it's given in a group situation to a whole load of teachers less are likely to act individual and air their complaints.

Seriously. I’ve got a 13 year old girl cousin and boy cousins who are 11, 14 and almost 16. I’m 100% sure they would all be dying inside if they had to sit through a session talking about weird niche sexual practices which, frankly, make me want to vomit and I’m a grown woman.

I’m still absolutely lost as to why or how anyone at Warwickshire CC thought this was a great idea. Did no teachers at least skim read it? Because I also can’t imagine my sister, who teaches in a secondary school, allowing this past her desk. Well I know she wouldn’t, because I asked her, and her reply was, “what the fuck? Which pedo wrote that then? Someone needs to operation Yewtree that council”. Which I think about sums it up for me.

EAT THE BISCUIT!

I know

Hopefully these things are circular and there will be a massive backlash - after all if panting middle aged men are promoting these practices that’s hardly appealing is it? The youth will go right off sex or go the way of Mary Whitehouse in response. They tend to do the opposite of the previous generation

I suspect that if they spend as much time on porn sites as Jonny assumes it will find them whether they were looking for it or not.

How are our kids supposed to find bukkake online if they spell it wrong?

Exactly. Good spelling is essential to sex positivity.

Any fucker who decides to yank on my hair is going to regret it, especially if he's stupid enough to do it while he's naked.

It should be. How are our kids supposed to find bukkake online if they spell it wrong?