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Anal sex for 13 year olds? Warwickshire again...

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Whatisthisfuckery · 25/09/2019 20:46

I’m offering this without comment, mainly because my jaw is still on the floor.

twitter.com/hubblevicky/status/1176758148721512448?s=21

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TruthOnTrial · 27/09/2019 12:51

....here here...

And...same to promoting sexting, eating shit, vomitting shit, fisting, felching, necrophilia, beastiality, strangling, and all the other fetishistic toxic sexual practices that defile women and girls every minute of every day.

LangCleg · 27/09/2019 12:40

Let's get some actual data about the reality on the ground for teen girls:

bmjopen.bmj.com/content/4/8/e004996

This study, Anal heterosex among young people and implications for health promotion: a qualitative study in the UK provides some.

The study participants were 16-18 year olds and the girls reported anal heterosex as "painful, risky and coercive", while the boys reported feeling pressured into persuading girls to do it, even though they didn't much like it.

The study bemoans the fact that anal heterosex is not in school curricula - but not because it's normal and natural, but because school curricula should be about enabling girls to assert their boundaries and boys to resist peer pressure about sexual activities.

SO FUCK OFF WARWICKSHIRE, YOU GROOMING FUCKWITS.

Cuntysnark · 27/09/2019 12:31

Can I suggest Jeremy Wright & Matt Weston are contacted? Anyone more linguistically talented me have any ideas for a template? Are safe schools alliance into this?

www.warwickdc.gov.uk/info/20007/your_council/457/local_mps_and_meps

North Warwickshire MP’s are Marcus Jones & Craig Tracy, I’m assuming their areas are covered by it.

MsTSwift · 27/09/2019 11:31

Hopefully young girls will vote with their feet. Our job as parents to empower them to be strong and sneer at this pervy abusive shit and see it for what it is.

poshme · 27/09/2019 11:02

I have just looked at the site. First page i read was about sexting. Mainly how embarrassing it might be if you accidentally sent a sexy pic to your parents by mistake.
It doesn't mention that taking sexy pics of under 18s is illegal, and sharing them is actually sharing child porn. Punishable by prison.

Shit. It's awful.

ArnoldWhatshisknickers · 27/09/2019 10:32

Poor girls indeed.

It really depresses me. I went through puberty at the height of the AIDS epidemic. We had good reason to be scared of sex but this stuff is appalling. It does not describe normal, healthy sexual relations at all. And yes, there is such a thing as normal and healthy. Why the hell schools can't manage to describe that is beyond me. They managed, for the most part, to protect us from fucking AIDS.

CTRL · 27/09/2019 10:27

This country make me sick sometimes. Only Britain could come up with something so pervert and stupid !

I’m sick of it.
ANAL SEX !?! At 13 !!! Angry

TheProdigalKittensReturn · 27/09/2019 10:21

If everything I was seeing about sex framed it as something to be endured rather than enjoyed I'd be having a lot less of it too. Those poor girls.

ArnoldWhatshisknickers · 27/09/2019 10:19

May also explain why younger people are having less sex than previous generations.

TheProdigalKittensReturn · 27/09/2019 10:06

It's either that or join a nunnery.

Antibles · 27/09/2019 00:55

I honestly couldn't blame any girl for identifying as a transman when she realises this is what sex has in store for her as a woman.

Ereshkigal · 26/09/2019 18:46

Ugh, if I'm venturing into AIBU with the sex industry cheerleaders I need a bloody drink.

More like casual cool girls on there. "I had anal sex at 16 and loved it". They're not as invested as the FWR kind of sex pos.

StopThePlanet · 26/09/2019 18:18

Mind blown 🤯

Felching, anal, fisting, shit play? Not wise decisions for adults... so market them to children like normal parts of sexuality?

Wtf has the world come to?

StealthPolarBear · 26/09/2019 13:27

Maybe my auto brain bleach works :)

Rachelover60 · 26/09/2019 13:24

That is absolutely dreadful!
Yeuch.

StealthPolarBear · 26/09/2019 13:23

None of the pages work for me, just purple and then the CEOP link at th e very bottom. Anyone else?

TheProdigalKittensReturn · 26/09/2019 13:15

Ugh, if I'm venturing into AIBU with the sex industry cheerleaders I need a bloody drink.

Datun · 26/09/2019 13:12

AIBU thread. Which could really do with some informed opinion/experience of concepts like the 'pornographic over sharing'

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/3701737-Teen-advice-makes-me-worried?msgid=90363045#90363045

TruthOnTrial · 26/09/2019 13:04

Its called pornographic oversharing, dc should not be privy to it at all.

No dc needs to know about playing with shit.

Some do this as part of distress, and will fuck up their heads being told its a sexual thing.

Its all so wrong.

TheProdigalKittensReturn · 26/09/2019 13:02

Maybe this is some covert ops thing to put teenagers off sex for years? Because "playing with shit! It's normal and fun!" had been my intro I might have been tempted to join a nunnery.

IfNot · 26/09/2019 13:00

Fucking hell Orchid.
What the Hell has this site attracted lately??

Here are some things my teen son has said to me regarding stuff learned in health studies/sex ed:

You shouldn't feel pressured to do anything sexual.
Sex with someone under 16 is illegal.
Someone a lot older having sex with a teen is ew and they shouldn't be doing that.
Porn is a big business and not everyone doing it wants to be. (I think he got that one from me..)
Sex should be about love and respect and it's fine to change your mind even if you are in the middle of it.
Sometimes boys have wet dreams and it's normal.
Sex sometimes leads to babies and babies are a lifetime commitment (also from me!)
It's fine to be gay and gay people love each other and have happy relationships just like straight people.

THAT'S appropriate for young teens.
I'm not a prude. I say openly that sex can be a beautiful thing WHEN you are ready. It's not a transaction or a performance or something to be "negotiated".
Don't these (literal) walkers realise that this kind of propaganda is actually quite scary for kids? I remember getting into an older crowd at 16 (not 13) and feeling out if my depth and scared by the stuff they talked about. I would be fucking traumatised if AN OFFICIAL SCHOOL SANCTIONED leaflet had made out that playing with shit was part of sex!?
(Still struggling to beleive it's real tbh).

TruthOnTrial · 26/09/2019 12:19

Bottom line, its illegal and the law is there to protect.

I do think there needs to be facts online to challenge the utter mysogynistic porn out there.

Ideally though,there wouldnt be any porn, that would also be a bottom line for me as it's, insofar as I've seen to this point, meeting male needs for dominance and objectivising.

Is there a link to the aibu anyone? I will go have a look anyway.

It's a runaway train. There needs to be a huge high profile campaign on this.

Sex education MNHQ - respecting yourself and others, burning the myths.

BeardedVulture · 26/09/2019 12:17

This is so disgusting. I have no words.

We really need proper feminist, age appropriate sex education resources that emphasise the right to say no, that it's okay to be gay or gender non-conforming, that porn is an abusive fiction, that many of the acts in porn are dangerous, and that sex shouldn't hurt or involve violence.

WHO THE FUCK thinks it's okay to tell 13 years olds, gay or straight, how to have anal sex?

SisterResister · 26/09/2019 12:16

Thanks for sharing my Twitter thread (yes I am @HubbleVicky)....and thanks for being so,horrified by it as I was. Shock

Pota2 · 26/09/2019 12:08

Kittens some of it is probably grown men writing that shit and getting off on it. Same as the fictional 12 year old watching porn and having lesbian fantasies about her teacher.

There are also some people who have very fucked up views, often as a result of trying to justify abuse that they suffered when younger to themselves. I mean it’s easier to pretend that you’re in control and powerful than admit that men abused you for their own ends.

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