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Writing to your MP

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Speakoutwoman · 22/09/2019 13:24

I wrote to my Tory MP about the toxic EHRC guidelines for trans pupils and for the first time got a horrified letter back talking about the safeguarding implications with a promise to follow this up with the Education minister.

This is the first time they have fallen off the fence about this so if you have't found the time to write, this is the issue where the silent MPs may speak out. Insisting on the boys and girls sharing changing rooms and showers is evidently a step too far. And the safeguarding implications of 11 year old girls having to change in front of 15 year old boys in after school clubs was not ignored.

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Patnotpending · 23/09/2019 10:10

I've been approaching my MP every few months, drip-dripping away. Check your MP's surgery schedule and do go for a face-to-face if you can. I think mine quite likes the chance for a chat about something other than Brexit and the state of the local roads and schools and I really do think that meeting them personally and proving that you are a rational, thoughtful, polite human being does help them 'get' the problem better than a letter. Don't assume they know anything about this issue. We think about it every day but some MPs appear to know nothing at all.

I'd suggest you read any material you send them or show them really carefully before you do so. I downloaded some stuff from one site because it contained a quote that I thought was a really useful way of summing up a certain aspect of the trans situation. Fortunately I took the time to read the entire article through carefully because on close inspection it was full of typos, badly written and became ranty and unreasonable. I give my MP a file of three or four articles each time I go. I use a highlighter pen to highlight a few good quotes so that their eye picks up instantly on something that makes them want to read more.

They have to read hundreds of pages of bumph a week – make it as easy as possible and only give them stuff that is well-thought-through and simple to understand. Sorry if I sound bossy but I know I and a couple of my friends have been our MP's main source of information and education on this subject and I think we are getting somewhere.

AlwaysTawnyOwl · 23/09/2019 09:33

I’ve written awaiting response. FPFW are great also there was a good thread with some very useful posts.

CaptainKirksSpikeyGhost · 23/09/2019 08:10

Bumping this up for you so it doesn't get lost.

Speakoutwoman · 22/09/2019 13:28

Towards the end of this thread there are some good links from Safe Schools Alliance to help with a letter:

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/3692358-Girls-must-bow-to-trans-rights-in-new-rules-for-schools

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