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female leads for toddler

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BonnyE · 20/09/2019 20:42

Hi. Not sure if posting in right place, but felt appropriate. Any suggestions for tv and books with female leads suitable for toddlers (DD is 21 months).
Currently loves Bob the Builder* and it was DH who questioned if we should try and find other programmes with females in centre roles (to complement Bob, not replace of course). Also loves books so thought I'd broaden the question.

  • not intended to be debate about screen time. She watches CBeebies very occasionally and I'm very selective! Grateful for any suggestions Thanks
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CunningOperative · 21/09/2019 19:07

Moana and Spirit - riding free (on Netflix) are DD’s favourites

BonnyE · 21/09/2019 18:57

Thanks everyone. Loads of great inspiration here looking forward to exploring with DD. She's such a strong character I really want to encourage her as much as I can X

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Phalarope · 21/09/2019 15:36

Rebecca Patterson - My Big Shouting Day.
Shirley Hughes - Moving Molly, plus Dogger features an excellent big sister

LordProfFekkoThePenguinPhD · 21/09/2019 15:29

Do children still like Charlie and Lola? She was definitely in charge!

Slappadabass · 21/09/2019 15:28

Netflix have a 'girls take the lead' section.

Kittywampus · 21/09/2019 15:25

Moana is another film with a strong female lead character

MrsKCastle · 21/09/2019 11:17

A Mighty Girl preschool list

MrsKCastle · 21/09/2019 11:16

Check out the A Mighty Girl website and FB page. They have excellent lists of books for all ages on all sorts of different topics, but all promoting strong females. Really helpful.

InvisibleWomenMustBeRead · 21/09/2019 10:59

Frozen is also a fab film for strong Disney princesses!

Aroundtheworldin80moves · 21/09/2019 10:57

Another option is Barbie films. Barbie is a very strong character in many of them, and doesn't need a male character to save her, she saved the day. They are a bit pink and glittery.

DuMondeB · 21/09/2019 10:51

Peppa pig is a little shit though. Just pointing that out.

My littlest is a bit older and we haven’t had a proper telly since before she was born but she loves these books, most of which are about women who did marvellous things:

www.waterstones.com/booklist/377114/little-people-big-dreams-series

Some titles come in board books for toddlers.

FusionChefGeoff · 21/09/2019 08:38

If you are reading 'gender neutral' stories eg about animals, you can just turn the lead into a female using pronouns and perhaps changing the name.

You've really got to concentrate as you read which can feel like a step too far if it's been a busy day (!) but it suddenly a) opens up loads more options and b) makes the patriarchy surrounding us depressingly obvious.

HeyDuggeesCakeBadge · 21/09/2019 08:29

Also, I've read goodnight stories for rebel girls to my kids since they were little they love it (apart from one story in it which I avoid)

HeyDuggeesCakeBadge · 21/09/2019 08:27

Nella the princess knight
Do you know
Caties amazing machines
Bitz and bobs
Cbeebies have loads of great programmes with female leads....

CreatedBySombra · 21/09/2019 07:50

Another vote for Doc McStuffins. The little girl is a toy doctor and her mother is an actual doctor rather than a toy one generally speaking all the strong roles in this are female.

Thinking about it I'm surprised men haven't maligned it for being male critical.

teawamutu · 21/09/2019 07:44

Another vote for Emily Brown books, we loved them.

Zone4flaneur · 21/09/2019 06:32

I don't know why that crossed out! You get the idea.

Zone4flaneur · 21/09/2019 06:31

Cbeebies has made quite an effort with this (with a few exceptions, looking at you Peter Rabbit) add Do You Know to the list. For little ones Woolly and Tig? Second Sarah and Duck. Apple Tree House has 2 out of 3 of leads as female although good for slightly older kids. Let's Play is also good as they are sharp on not corresponding to gender stereotypes so Sid will be a ballerina and Rebecca a builder. The lead in Yakka Dee is a girl.

Books-the Mighty Girl website has a massive list, although quite American in flavour. Some of our favourites are-
Handa's Surprise/Hen
My Big Shouting Day
The Grace books (older kids really)
Rosie Revere engineer and the others in that series
Maisy books
My 3yo still loves The Baby Catalogue--really about families and so you can have a chat about different things mummies and daddies do (eg some go to work, some stay at home)
Some of the Babette Cole books
Come away from the water, Shirley
The way to the Zoo

Some to go on with!

DarkLikeVader · 20/09/2019 23:02

Puffin Rock is lovely. Masha and the bear as mentioned, Dino Dana perhaps?

DoctorAllcome · 20/09/2019 22:21

Lauren child’s books are really good.
Clarice Bean that’s me
I will not ever never eat a tomato
Pesky rat
Etc

powershowerforanhour · 20/09/2019 22:15

Another vote for Katie Morag.

FannyCann · 20/09/2019 22:14

For tv/dvd my girls loved Balamory and Come Outside which was quite educational and I don't recall any obvious sexism in either programme.

I fact DD1 loved Come Outside with Auntie Mabel, her dog Pippin and her plane so much....one day I accidentally locked myself outside - I called in through the letter box - get a chair...climb up...open the door...but we'd been waiting for Come Outside to come on and she heard the music and plonked herself down in front of the TV oblivious to my entreaties. Ended up very embarrassed, as local fire station regarded an unsupervised toddler as an emergency and deployed a team to break in...Blush

Also much loved, the Chatter Happy Ponies, they had a very droll sense of humour - programmes featuring animals don't tend to be sexist as far as I can remember. I assume all these are available as dvd these days.

Books - love Katie Morag. And lots of books by Debbie Gliori - not particular female roll models but again, animal neutrality on the whole.

StealthPolarBear · 20/09/2019 21:58

Everything's Rosie

3mks · 20/09/2019 21:58

Little miss books

Guess with Jess has a mix of characters, and was science based but is not on now.
Alphablocks also mixed.
Older kids:
I can cook
Nina and the neurons

I often change the characters to my kids name tho so at that age any book could be about either sex.

StealthPolarBear · 20/09/2019 21:57

Is the thing with raggles the rabbit still on?
Also when she's a bit older, brave