There were a couple of threads on the feminism boards, around getting partners to understand the realities of the trans "debate" for women's rights (pointing in direction of good articles etc) but cant seem to find them on search - probably because I'm doing do ineffectively. Can anyone help? DH is becoming almost unbearably woke on the subject but I find myself not able to adequately articulate what it all will actually mean for our kids! When I told him about some of the ideology being taught as fact in schools he scoffed and said of course that wasn't happening 
Help me de-woke him!