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If you ever wanted proof that TRA is the same MRA check this out.

183 replies

TRAMRA · 12/08/2019 19:28

A man. A man who looks like a man, and identifies as a man,
isn't allowed in a women's changing room. How terribly transphobic and sexist. Read the comments and the way he ignores women's concerns, as even if 1 out of a 1000 men, (he kind of forgets who he is meant to be championing here) was bad you shouldn't be able to tar all of male kind with the same brush. one out of a thousand eh? Hmm.

It's all so thinly disguised isn't it?

Well done to the Primark staff who decided that a man demanding he be allowed in a changing room with a young girl, is the last man who should be allowed in.

medium.com/@RJameson/a-recent-experience-has-opened-my-eyes-to-transphobic-bigotry-f5005a4e6497

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Datun · 12/08/2019 22:41

Fictitious daughter? Sounds made up to support his creepy insistence on accessing the women's changing rooms.

And claiming women are 'sexist' for recognising male pattern behaviour.

Woman hating dick.

TeamUnicorn · 12/08/2019 22:33

His daughter is nothing more than a pawn in his game. All he wanted to do was help his daughter, right?

littlbrowndog · 12/08/2019 22:22

Why didn’t he go into the men’s changing room with his daughter.

What could have happened there. 🤷‍♀️

As he said it’s all curtains and he was there.
Why did he try to force his way into the women’s

nettie434 · 12/08/2019 22:19

At no time did I identify as a man Mr Outraged of Medium splutters. Maybe not, but this was a giveaway:

I asked the staff in the store why they were discriminating against dads in this way, but they had no sensible answer to offer.

Why on earth couldn't he have asked one of the women staff to help his daughter?

IdaBWells · 12/08/2019 22:18

This kind of writing and discussion he is having just makes me feel queasy. That's what "gaslighting" is right? The denial of reality? This idea that women working at Primark should "identify his gender" when I'm sure he is patently obviously male is so offensive. We 99.9% the time can tell what biological sex someone is no matter how they "identify" gender wise. It's very creepy and he doesn't take women's concerns seriously at all. He seems to want to get lots of woke points from the bros.

AntonsMumsTeeth · 12/08/2019 22:11

What an utter tool this guy is (and I've only read the first article). Very noticeable how he's all about transwomans rights but funny how there's no equivalent for transmen.

If there's cubicles are all so separate and give enough privacy then what's the problem with using the men's changing room anyway. "I didn't identify as a man" says biological man - humanity really has eaten itself.

He sounds like an entitled, whiney, woke, ill-mannered, obnoxious tool who is so insignificant in the scheme of things, I'm glad to say.

Voice0fReason · 12/08/2019 21:55

This guy is a dick. An utter arse wipingly bad dick. A racist dick. A woman hatingly sexist dick.
I think you've summed him up pretty well there.

Trohmaniac · 12/08/2019 21:50

I hope to god his daughter never experiences any kind of sexual assault because he is the exact type of guy to ask her 'what were you wearing/were you drinking/etc' and see nothing wrong with that.

truthisarevolutionaryact · 12/08/2019 21:43

His views would appear to enable predators. His poor daughter.

HeyDuggeesCakeBadge · 12/08/2019 21:41

This guy is a dick. An utter arse wipingly bad dick. A racist dick. A woman hatingly sexist dick.

I have no other words.

lionheart · 12/08/2019 21:40

From Pikapikachu's link:

'Isn’t it reasonable for a male, for example, to hunt for a fertile young woman to act as an incubator and mother to his offspring — and thus enable them both to continue their genetic lines? Is he taking advantage of the natural attraction the young female feels for him? In a sense, yes, but what’s wrong with that? That’s how the species is continued. That’s how the reproductive urge works. And so long as the courtship and ensuing relationship is conducted on a voluntary basis, that’s fine, isn’t it?'

TeamUnicorn · 12/08/2019 21:39

The latest article has made me feel very, very ill and makes the original article totally spine chillingly awful.

lilmishap · 12/08/2019 21:37

@pikapikachu Jesus christ on a bike! That article is chilling

lionheart · 12/08/2019 21:37

Doesn't appear to say anything about how his daughter reacted to the whole experience ...

ChateauMyself · 12/08/2019 21:33

Yup, yup Troh.

Ahhhh, those well fitting door curtains...

Loubot · 12/08/2019 21:30

Someone pass him his "opressed" sticker and tell him to fuck off. Maybe use the sticker to hide his blatant issues with women that the "dad and daughter" situation highlights, does he think mothers have a crisis when we take our sons? This has never been an issue. You take your kid into the changing room appropriate to your sex.

lilmishap · 12/08/2019 21:27

The argument he's currently having losing has him smugly announcing if his daughter was sent to an all male prison it would no longer be an all male prison.
So there!

Trohmaniac · 12/08/2019 21:24

That there’s no facilities for men to go in with daughters? Again good point that there should be a separate space as this can be an issue for many dads.

This is what it boils down to. He should be campaigning for parent & child spaces but instead he's whinging on about those pesky women and their sexism.

Myfoolishboatisleaning · 12/08/2019 21:23

Why couldn’t he take his daughter to the men’s? As he says NAMALT, so surely she would be safe in there anyway? Oh wait....

Earlywalker · 12/08/2019 21:22

What is his point with all the trans stuff?

Being annoyed that the changing rooms didn’t say female only and then they excluded him? Ok, fair enough, maybe clearer signs needed in future to avoid embarrassment.

That there’s no facilities for men to go in with daughters? Again good point that there should be a separate space as this can be an issue for many dads.

But all the trans stuff he’s Jabbering on about ‘I didn’t disclose my gender’ just seems, well odd and pretty irrelevant to his complaint Confused

GlitchStitch · 12/08/2019 21:21

So this is where we're at now- a man can claim victim status for being refused entry to a changing room filled with girls. Shit writer too.

Trohmaniac · 12/08/2019 21:19

He said the following when challenged on why women need separate spaces:

Some black people commit rapes, but I hope you wouldn’t say it was OK for women to treat all black people with suspicion and as likely sex attackers simply because of what some black people have done. Or do you think that would be OK?

Oh dear oh dear oh dear

Prawnofthepatriarchy · 12/08/2019 21:14

And well done to the staff at Primark!