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Furries & gimp masks at Surrey Pride

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wheresmymojo · 10/08/2019 17:46

It was Surrey's first Pride recently and yet again people with sexual fetishes are latching on.

I consider myself fairly liberal - I don't give a monkeys if people want to be Furries or wear gimp masks with their own consensual sexual partners.

But nobody is discriminated against on the basis of wearing a gimp mask in their own home Hmm

Why has this suddenly become a thing? What does it even have to do with Pride anyway?

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LobsterNapkin · 03/10/2021 01:21

@PurgatoryOfPotholes

Wouldn't it chafe?

Also, does he clean the pavement first? Typically pavements have dog excrement caked into them.

It wasn't just the pavement though. Holes in tables, sofas, a car exhaust.

He's going to end up with his willy getting squashed or burned off or something. It doesn't even sound like a fetish so much as a compulsion.

NiceGerbil · 03/10/2021 00:16

Essentially imo it's all about men being able to display any and all fetishises in public in front of women and girls.

Same motivation as flashing.

Imo.

NiceGerbil · 03/10/2021 00:15

'should be part of the alphabet soup because sadists experience negative reactions when they talk about it at work.'

Oh yes. Bring your whole self to work.

No one should be talking about the fact they're a sexual sadist at with for fucks sake.

And a male saying it to whoever including women? (I assume he's straight as otherwise he wouldn't say needs to be in LGBT+ etc for fetish).

Well that's just fucking terrifying.

Hi Dave

Hi Jane hello Martha

How was your weekend?

Great! I found a woman on the internet who is a masochist and we met this weekend! It was great! I had so much fun! She could take so much abuse so I went for it. Etc etc could get quite graphic. Why not? I listen when they talk about going to the garden centre!

Erm .. great! We've got to go now...

Hold on! Why don't the 3 of us go for a drink after work?

(Excuses)

Bigots! Phobes! It's because I'm LGBT isn't it. This is discrimination.

trancepants · 02/10/2021 21:10

@Ghislainedefeligonde

Well the furry /pup type perv linked above to his Twitter is trying to say it’s not a fetish it’s a lifestyle etc…exactly what earlier posters had predicted. Complete with the usual ‘educate yourself’ comments to those people calling him out on parading his fetishes in public. Says a lot about how utterly porn addled their brains are that they think a fetish is a lifestyle Confused
I suppose you could choose for your fetish to be your lifestyle. But so what? For some people fitness is a lifestyle, music is a lifestyle, religion is a lifestyle. But even if he lives his fetish as a lifestyle, how in holy fuck is that relevant to sexual orientation. Sexual orientation is absolutely not just a "lifestyle." His claim that he belongs there as a 'pup' because that's his lifestyle is belittling same sex attraction and turning it into something that is widely seen as a lifestyle. Something that actually destroys all of the hard work done in getting people to understand that it's not a fucking lifestyle.
Ghislainedefeligonde · 02/10/2021 19:59

Well the furry /pup type perv linked above to his Twitter is trying to say it’s not a fetish it’s a lifestyle etc…exactly what earlier posters had predicted. Complete with the usual ‘educate yourself’ comments to those people calling him out on parading his fetishes in public. Says a lot about how utterly porn addled their brains are that they think a fetish is a lifestyle Confused

JojobaFromOctober · 02/10/2021 19:51

I actually know a straight guy who has a sadism fetish (believe me, I wish I did not know this about him) and argues that it should be part of the alphabet soup because sadists experience negative reactions when they talk about it at work. He makes this argument like that would be the same thing as Jane experiencing homophobia when she mentions that she spent the weekend with her girlfriend.

NiceGerbil · 02/10/2021 17:59

[quote CBUK2K2]@NiceGerbil I’m a small c conservative so as long as it’s legal (under U.K. law) and between consenting adults it’s none of my business.

Lots of religious groups would object strongly to pride, I support their right to do it (despite it seeming quite bizarre and pointless to me) purely on the grounds of freedom of expression.

On the same basis, so long as it’s not indecent I support people’s rights to dress up as a teddy bear or whatever floats their boat.

None of it’s my brand of vodka but at the same time none of its my business.

That’s where conservatives differ form leftists/liberals. Conservatives are OK with diversity of opinion where are the other groups are not.[/quote]
I note that the whole post you were responding to was about paedophilia and how it's seen in queer theory as the most oppressed sexuality.

I find it very interesting that you have not said no, paedophilia is never ok.

But wiffled on about other things.

Deliriumoftheendless · 02/10/2021 15:11

That pavement guy.

Already basically covered in the Doctor Who episode with the Absorbalof.

NutellaEllaElla · 02/10/2021 14:31

^You said preference chum

Being homosexual isn’t a preference

Thats not an ideological belief…its a fucking fact^

Homophobes tend to say that sexual orientation is a preference, suiting their agenda that it is a choice etc. Maybe CB is a homophobe?

RufustheBadgeringReindeer · 02/10/2021 13:23

[quote CBUK2K2]@PurgatoryOfPotholes No, it just differs from your ideological beliefs.[/quote]
You said preference chum

Being homosexual isn’t a preference

Thats not an ideological belief…its a fucking fact

CreepingDeath · 02/10/2021 13:09

[quote Jaysmith71]This Guy:

The Currant Bun has a whole range of them:

(Not for the squemish)

bit.ly/3uwTVyZ[/quote]
It's like something out of Brass Eye Hmm.

Why do they use the term 'make love'...why not 'man defiles pavement' or similar. Gross.

PurgatoryOfPotholes · 02/10/2021 13:03

Wouldn't it chafe?

Also, does he clean the pavement first? Typically pavements have dog excrement caked into them.

trancepants · 02/10/2021 12:54

[quote CBUK2K2]@PurgatoryOfPotholes That’s your opinion on the matter, I disagree. One minority group should be in a good position to appreciate the struggles another group faces.

Personally it seems a fairly tenuous thing to attend a rally for either way to me, but then I guess people go to meetings because they have the same make or model of car.[/quote]
It's not an opinion. It's an actual subjective fact that sexual orientation and sexual kinks are totally different fucking things. Anyone claiming otherwise is either an utter moron or being deliberately disingenuous in order to use other people as a prop to their fetish without their informed consent.

NutellaEllaElla · 02/10/2021 12:39

[quote Jaysmith71]This Guy:

The Currant Bun has a whole range of them:

(Not for the squemish)

bit.ly/3uwTVyZ[/quote]
The mind truly boggles. What is going wrong with these men?

Jaysmith71 · 02/10/2021 11:38

Interesting that the person in the snap of the Sun front page has no links to his case. Seems to be a beneficiary of the EU's "Right To Be Forgotten" law, which is a worrying precedent.

AlfonsoTheDinosaur · 02/10/2021 11:36

@NutellaEllaElla

I'll also ignore your nonsensical post CBUK. I don't know why you think your fallacious argument should stand as legitimate in any way, but it doesn't and isn't worthy of further discussion.

This is a zombie thread. Why did you ressurect it? I wonder what googling led you to it...

I just point out logical fallacies and then not engage with the posts.
AdultHumanFemale · 02/10/2021 11:30

Haven't RTFT, but yep, Sn1aidSucks, absolutely this: If you can’t name the danger, because that makes you a ‘bigot’, then you can’t keep yourself safe.
As an educator, delivering PSHE curriculum content to children and young people, it is one of my most important objectives to ensure that pupils are able to recognise and name potential hazards and danger. This shit blurs boundaries and fogs vitally important instinct and judgement.

AlfonsoTheDinosaur · 02/10/2021 11:27

@S1naidSucks

It’s blurring the boundaries and teaching vulnerable adults and children that their feelings of discomfort in bad situations. If you can’t name the danger, because that makes you a ‘bigot’, then you can’t keep yourself safe.
That's well put. I agree.
Jaysmith71 · 02/10/2021 11:26

This Guy:

The Currant Bun has a whole range of them:

(Not for the squemish)

bit.ly/3uwTVyZ

Furries & gimp masks at Surrey Pride
CreepingDeath · 02/10/2021 11:13

@Jaysmith71

You’re seriously trying to argue that having a fetish means you are part of a minority group?

Do I have to link to pavement-fuckers again? Because it upset some people.

Oh dear, no thanks. Just the thought of it makes my brain hurt. I sometimes wish there was a puke emoji on this site.

It never fails to surprise me what lengths men will go to get their rocks off.

NutellaEllaElla · 02/10/2021 11:04

Pavement fuckers? I must have missed it when you linked before. Sorry but, I need to know Grin

Helleofabore · 02/10/2021 10:37

Or maybe there should be a float for the males with penises masturbating in female toilets so they can be ‘celebrated’ too. They are a minority but a growing one.

Jaysmith71 · 02/10/2021 09:34

You’re seriously trying to argue that having a fetish means you are part of a minority group?

Do I have to link to pavement-fuckers again? Because it upset some people.

CreepingDeath · 02/10/2021 09:30

[quote CBUK2K2]@PurgatoryOfPotholes That’s your opinion on the matter, I disagree. One minority group should be in a good position to appreciate the struggles another group faces.

Personally it seems a fairly tenuous thing to attend a rally for either way to me, but then I guess people go to meetings because they have the same make or model of car.[/quote]
You’re seriously trying to argue that having a fetish means you are part of a minority group? Really?

What ‘struggles’ do the foot fetish people face? Maybe we should do a fundraiser.

catzwhiskas · 02/10/2021 09:20

I call on lesbians, and mothers , and women to actively avoid Pride as long at it is in thrall to an ideology that is highly suspect from many points of view. The LGBTQI plus community does not exist. Forced teaming is not working.

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