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Issues facing woman and girls worldwide

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Earlywalker · 10/08/2019 09:02

Thought it could be useful to raise awareness of issues facing woman and girls worldwide and discuss what we can do to help them.

Please do feel free to add to the list also as there will be loads that I’ve missed.

It made me very angry writing and researching this:

FGM - ‘the ritual cutting or removal of some or all of the external female genitalia. The practice is found in Africa, Asia and the Middle East, and within communities from countries in which FGM is common’

FGM is still practiced within the UK and is of course illegal here, we have only had one successful prosecution since it was made illegal and it was February this year - www.bbc.co.uk/news/amp/uk-england-47094707

Girls are encouraged to not tell anyone about it, awareness for the communities and those around them is the only way we can end FGM here. With wider efforts needed accords the globe.

Safe access to abortion - this is not just something that happens in third world countries, this is happening on our very doorstep in the UK! Northern Ireland has still not updated its abortion laws. Woman are being forced to continue pregnancies, even if they are raped, even if it was through incest and this needs to change.

Child brides - 140 million girls will become child brides between 2011 and 2020 . Girls who marry before age 18 are typically denied an education, at risk of complications related to premature childbearing, and more vulnerable to intimate partner violence.

Maternal health - The World Health Organization estimates that 800 women die every day from preventable, pregnancy related causes. That’s nearly 300,000 lives per year needlessly lost during what is fundamentally a life-creating event.

Sex based violence 1 in 3 woman Experience physical or sexual abuse in their lifetime. I’m not sure what more I can say on this than attitudes need to change.

Access to education A 2013 report by UNESCO found that 31 million girls of primary school age were not in school, and about one out of every four young women in developing countries had never completed their primary school education. That number represents a huge pool of untapped girl power: that same report suggests that educated women are more likely to get married later, survive childbirth, raise healthy kids, find work, and earn more money, among other positives.

Trafficking of woman and children This is the fastest growing crime in the world, it pulls in an estimated $99billion per year and there’s an estimated 25 million people trapped in forced labour, with an estimated 71% being woman and girls.

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Wurzelsnewhead · 10/08/2019 13:23

Thanks for the FORWARD link, I no longer donate to women’s organisations that don’t actually centre biological women in their decision making processes.

LangCleg · 10/08/2019 13:14

FORWARD (Foundation for Women’s Health Research and Development) is an excellent and unapologetically women-led, women-focused anti-FGM org. Lots of information and training for domestic initiatives and their website but also a great deal of international news and participation. I'm picky about donations to charities that purport to be for women but don't actually centre them, so have often donated to this one.

www.forwarduk.org.uk/

Regarding the FGM, communities can only educate each other so much. And if your church is mainly from the same reason that practice it, or your community then it can easily continue in cycles.

They would take some issue with this and certainly favour bottom-up activism rather than top-down imposition. Avoiding the Woke Saviour trope, as it were.

We’re led by African women for African women. This means our roots and our hearts are in the communities we work with. They set our agenda, guide our decisions and sustain the change we create together.

We believe that lasting change has to come from within. So we don’t do top-down transformations. We work with people and partners at a local level, building on their insights and sharing our expertise. So that when we’re gone, the change lives on.

Earlywalker · 10/08/2019 13:04

Agree with those above also.

Marie Stopes International are fighting for safe abortion and access to contraception wordwide - mariestopes.org/

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ItsAllGoingToBeFine · 10/08/2019 13:03

Issues around menstruation is defined a big one, whether it's girls being sent to menstruation guys, or unable to attend school.

Related is the issue with lack of single sex toilets available for women and girls. Wateraid (already mentioned) is doing some good work around this I believe.

And not to make it a trans thread, but it is notable that all of the issues listed in this thread impact women and girls due to their biology.

truthisarevolutionaryact · 10/08/2019 12:47

WaterAid is a charity that I actively support - they are very clear about the need for women to have access to clean water, safe toilets and washing facilities and up until now, seem to have avoided the usual capture by anti women groups.

www.wateraid.org/us/media/female-friendly-toilet-guide-wateraid-unicef

RoyalCorgi · 10/08/2019 12:43

You could probably add things like not having the vote in some countries or not having access to justice (e.g. in those countries where men's testimony is regarded as having higher value than women's).

RoyalCorgi · 10/08/2019 12:42

That's a pretty good list. I would add safe access to contraception and also access to toilets, as well as being forced into prostitution (ie not just being trafficked, but having to work as a prostitute for other reasons such as poverty).

There's lots of overlap between different issues, of course. There's a good article in today's Guardian about lack of toilets in some parts of the world (the piece was on Madagascar in particular) so people defecate outside. Girls and women are at risk of being raped if they walk alone to the area where people defecate, and when they are menstruating they will stay off school because of the lack of toilets.

Obviously child brides/being forced into prostitution/sexual violence/not having access to contraception or abortion/maternal injuries in childbirth all overlap.They're all to do with women's lack of bodily autonomy and men having control over women's bodies.

HollysTeflonSeptum · 10/08/2019 12:40

The plural of woman is women Early. 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

The amount of times I’ve seen this rudimentary mistake taking place on these boards of all places is distracting and depressing tbh.

How often do you see it with man/men? Hardly ever.

Cohle · 10/08/2019 12:37

I used to rely on organisations like Charity Navigator but their focus on financials and transparency in governance (whilst obviously important) doesn't capture the information on safeguarding and sexual exploitation that I'm particularly concerned about.

I'd love to know if anyone has any alternative resources where these sort of policies and procedures are taken into account when evaluating charities.

Cascade220 · 10/08/2019 12:28

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Earlywalker · 10/08/2019 11:57

smalls for all where you can donate your old underwear to help those that need it both abroad and in the UK- www.smallsforall.org/

Anti-Slavery ideas for fundraisers and how to be vigilant on spotting trafficked people - www.antislavery.org/

CAMFED supporting girls to get an education - camfed.org/

Fistula foundation supporting woman with birth injuries - www.fistulafoundation.org/

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FermatsTheorem · 10/08/2019 11:43

Cohle that's a very good point about Oxfam and Save the Children. I donate to MSF (not a feminist donation specifically, a general humanitarian one) partly because I'd heard that they had robust policies on aid workers not predating on vulnerable women - but it turns out even they have their problems Sad [angry']

The Fistula Foundation sound worth a look - do you have a link handy? I donate to women's shelters (my county is one of those where the local authority pulled all funding from women's shelters in favour of "safe rooms" which seem only have had the detrimental effect of leaving vulnerable women subject to the bedroom tax on top of being at risk from their violent exs.)

Earlywalker · 10/08/2019 11:40

Fistula foundation is another great one helping woman with birth injuries!

Another small thing we can do to help if you don’t have much physical cash is a charity called ‘smalls for all’ who I believe also help woman in Africa and other countries suffering fistula injuries as well as actually some woman in the UK. You can send them your old (or new) underwear to distribute.

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Cohle · 10/08/2019 11:31

God, this thread seems to have taken a bizarrely combative turn.

Given the recent revelations regarding NGOs such as Oxfam and Save the Children, I'm sure many of us have concerns about how to ensure our donations are actually helping women and girls.

I'm currently donating to the Fistula Foundation and Camfed, but I'd love to hear where others are giving or if there's anyone knowledgable about the sector who could share their thoughts.

Earlywalker · 10/08/2019 11:27

Spartacus apologies I didn’t realise it was an offensive term.

It’s fine Fermats, it can wear you down that the default here is always white but that’s my issue.

Regarding the FGM, communities can only educate each other so much. And if your church is mainly from the same reason that practice it, or your community then it can easily continue in cycles.

I do really believe this does need to be something social workers and teachers take an active role on.

I believe when a woman is in labour, Midwife’s now do have make note of weather the mother is ‘cut’ and report it but then what happens with this information? We know that girls with cut mothers are more at risk, but who is following this up throughout the primary years to ensure it does not happen to them? This is focusing solely on UK cases of course, further afield is a more difficult case to handle.

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FermatsTheorem · 10/08/2019 11:15

Apologies, Early (though I did say that I wasn't accusing you of having a "white saviour complex", just pointing out that unthinking calls for more prosecutions and targeted education often suffered from that).

MargueritaBlue · 10/08/2019 11:14

The plural of woman is women Early. So when you talk about "woman and girls" I think you really mean "women and girls".

I don't normally correct spelling or grammar errors online but I have noticed you make this mistake several times

How petty.

Cascade220 · 10/08/2019 11:10

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Earlywalker · 10/08/2019 11:09

For sure sparticus

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Earlywalker · 10/08/2019 11:05

Can we try just for once to not turn it into a trans thread?!

Anyone who says discussing things like FGM and matters affecting woman is transphobic is a moron. Shall we get that out of the way now?

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Earlywalker · 10/08/2019 11:04

I’m black so Im pretty sure I don’t have a ‘white saviour complex’ thanks though for your input.

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truthisarevolutionaryact · 10/08/2019 10:57

Well said Fermats.

Women have been repeatedly told that it's transphobic and exclusionary to discuss matters like fgm, our biology and bodies and so on. So that issue really needs to be the priority as if women are both silenced and our identity erased by including men, then nothing on this worthwhile list can ever be effectively addressed.

FermatsTheorem · 10/08/2019 10:49

I'm so glad you're finally interesting yourself in issues that affect women because of their biology. What a breath of fresh air.

But your "more prosecutions, more targeted approach aiming at parents/girls at risk" attitude could benefit from you maybe educating yourself about the issues campaigners like Nimco Ali and Daughters of Eve raise.

Prosecution alone isn't very helpful - you only catch a handful of cases, and you work after the fact. The key is in prevention, which can only be done by working with communities. Education is indeed the key, but not "white saviours rushing in to tell 'at risk' groups that what they're doing is wrong" (for a start, as many women from sub Saharan Africa will attest, "white saviours" have an annoying tendency to rush in and target the wrong groups because they have this mistaken blanket idea that "anyone brown and Muslim" is at risk, thus patronising Muslims from countries where FGM isn't practised, while missing out, for instance, Christian communities in countries where FGM is widely practised).

It's definitely a situation where (pace your comments about worrying too much about cultural abuse) well meaning would-be "white saviours" really should step back and listen to those from within the communities fighting these practices.

I'm not suggesting that you personally have a "white saviour complex" and I can see your heart's in the right place, but maybe this is an issue where you need to educate yourself.