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Issues facing woman and girls worldwide

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Earlywalker · 10/08/2019 09:02

Thought it could be useful to raise awareness of issues facing woman and girls worldwide and discuss what we can do to help them.

Please do feel free to add to the list also as there will be loads that I’ve missed.

It made me very angry writing and researching this:

FGM - ‘the ritual cutting or removal of some or all of the external female genitalia. The practice is found in Africa, Asia and the Middle East, and within communities from countries in which FGM is common’

FGM is still practiced within the UK and is of course illegal here, we have only had one successful prosecution since it was made illegal and it was February this year - www.bbc.co.uk/news/amp/uk-england-47094707

Girls are encouraged to not tell anyone about it, awareness for the communities and those around them is the only way we can end FGM here. With wider efforts needed accords the globe.

Safe access to abortion - this is not just something that happens in third world countries, this is happening on our very doorstep in the UK! Northern Ireland has still not updated its abortion laws. Woman are being forced to continue pregnancies, even if they are raped, even if it was through incest and this needs to change.

Child brides - 140 million girls will become child brides between 2011 and 2020 . Girls who marry before age 18 are typically denied an education, at risk of complications related to premature childbearing, and more vulnerable to intimate partner violence.

Maternal health - The World Health Organization estimates that 800 women die every day from preventable, pregnancy related causes. That’s nearly 300,000 lives per year needlessly lost during what is fundamentally a life-creating event.

Sex based violence 1 in 3 woman Experience physical or sexual abuse in their lifetime. I’m not sure what more I can say on this than attitudes need to change.

Access to education A 2013 report by UNESCO found that 31 million girls of primary school age were not in school, and about one out of every four young women in developing countries had never completed their primary school education. That number represents a huge pool of untapped girl power: that same report suggests that educated women are more likely to get married later, survive childbirth, raise healthy kids, find work, and earn more money, among other positives.

Trafficking of woman and children This is the fastest growing crime in the world, it pulls in an estimated $99billion per year and there’s an estimated 25 million people trapped in forced labour, with an estimated 71% being woman and girls.

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dancingcamper · 10/08/2019 16:53

I know it doesn't fall into activism politically but the support women get on mumsnet is amazing.

Having loads of women pointing out when relationships are damaging to women is incredibly useful.

NeurotrashWarrior · 10/08/2019 16:36

Grass roots activism is the first and best antidote. It makes women feel less alone and helpless. It banishes Sleeping Beauty syndrome and learned helplessness. It provides a role model for women who are facing similar problems and gives hope to others.
When we are active, we work to create the society we want to live in.

Yes!

Earlywalker · 10/08/2019 16:29

The coercive control one you raise is an issue very close to my heart. Awful that trump wants to decriminalise it. Although the UK’s now progressed in making it a crime, the conviction rates are shocking.

You can have all the evidence you think is needed, testimonials etc and they will still likely drop the case because they don’t think there’s enough. Because someone can destroy you and your life for years but there’s no bruises right?

More awareness for coercive control and
Better training for police is a cause worth fighting for closer to home!

(All of your points were, just putting my 2pence in on that.)

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truthisarevolutionaryact · 10/08/2019 16:23

An inspiring post TheInebriati .

Grass roots activism - women supporting and inspiring women.

TheInebriati · 10/08/2019 16:18

This isn't how I approach research into the threats women face, its a bit of a haphazard list.
I usually tackle them by type (eg VAWG, autonomy, healthcare, contraception) or by country.

For example currently in the US;
Children can be forced to marry their rapist, more than 200,000 children have been married over the last 15 years.
www.independent.co.uk/news/world/americas/200000-children-married-us-15-years-child-marriage-child-brides-new-jersey-chris-christie-a7830266.html

FGM is not illegal in some States;
www.equalitynow.org/us_laws_against_fgm_state_by_state

Trump is rolling back rights for victims of domestic violence, by removing coercive control as a crime.
resist.org/news/trump-administration-‘rolling-back-women’s-rights-50-years’-changing-definitions-domestic

Under so-called “nuisance” laws, women can lose their housing if they report domestic violence too often;
www.citylab.com/equity/2015/11/get-abused-call-911-get-evicted/402709/

www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/modern-day-slavery/201810/how-nuisance-laws-perpetuate-the-cycle-domestic-violence

Women can lose their housing or job if they take the pill;
www.newyorker.com/news/daily-comment/birth-control-in-the-trump-era

When women allege DV, they tend to lose custody;
www.washingtonpost.com/local/social-issues/a-gendered-trap-when-mothers-allege-child-abuse-by-fathers-the-mothers-often-lose-custody-study-shows/2019/07/28/8f811220-af1d-11e9-bc5c-e73b603e7f38_story.html

What can we do about it? We can't do anything if we can't name the problem, or are banned from using accurate language.

Grass roots activism is the first and best antidote. It makes women feel less alone and helpless. It banishes Sleeping Beauty syndrome and learned helplessness. It provides a role model for women who are facing similar problems and gives hope to others.
When we are active, we work to create the society we want to live in.

Earlywalker · 10/08/2019 16:15

Incase it wasn’t clear that I’m not talking about one singular woman:

I am not talking about one single woman without access to abortion, but the 24 million women who have to have unsafe abortions each year.

I’m not talking about one single woman or girl that’s been a victim of FGM but the 200 million women and girls who are alive today that are victims and the more that will face it.

I’m not talking about one single girl who is forced into child marriage but the 15.5million each year.

Not talking about one single woman who Experianced sexual or physical abuse but 1 in 3 of all women, that’s over 1 billion women.

31million girls who don’t even finish primary school.

17.75 million women and girls that are victims of human trafficking.

800 women a day dying from preventable pregnancy related issues.

214 million women without access to contraception.

1 in 10 girls in Africa, missing school because of period poverty. In Kenya, 50% of girls do not have any access to any period products. In the uk, 10% of girls can’t afford sanitary products.

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dancingcamper · 10/08/2019 15:27

Okay, I think it must be a cultural thing then, as woman (singular) and women (plural) sound very different to me, so it really jumps out.

BernardBlacksWineIceLolly · 10/08/2019 15:24

nit picking is ridiculous given the nature of the thread

Shock

One to be stored away and quoted later

LangCleg · 10/08/2019 15:17

If you have something to contribute, please do so, but the nit picking is ridiculous given the nature of the thread.

My advice would be not to filibuster your own thread by taking endless offence when people say things you don't like.

Helmetbymidnight · 10/08/2019 15:15

It really stood out for me, given the thread is about: Issues facing ...'women'

Earlywalker · 10/08/2019 15:13

Woman and women sound very similar when speaking and when typing.

I assure you there was no insult intended there.

If you have something to contribute, please do so, but the nit picking is ridiculous given the nature of the thread.

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Helmetbymidnight · 10/08/2019 15:11

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Earlywalker · 10/08/2019 15:07

Seriously what is your point?

That because I’ve made the mistake of saying woman’s instead of women’s that I don’t care about them or what?

Please clarify what point you are trying to make?

Is ‘woman’ some huge insult I’m unaware of?

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dancingcamper · 10/08/2019 14:38

At first I thought the use of woman was a mistake, but Early, you use it consistently to refer to women when you understand the correct plural. For some reason you don't say man when you mean men.

woman’s rights is everyone’s issue to solve and a lot of the time, men’s causing.

Bespin · 10/08/2019 14:36

exellent list of recourse and links to importent issues.

NewName19 · 10/08/2019 14:07

What about period poverty? I know in the grand scheme of things it’s not as terrible as the things mentioned up thread but to be without these products when you are in need is horrendous and shouldn’t happen

NeurotrashWarrior · 10/08/2019 14:06

This is a great thread!

Women's hour had a hard hitting programme on how black women in the uk are enormously disadvantaged in terms of maternity care recently. Not sure exactly which charity is working in this though.

Can I also just clarify why woman and not women is being used?

LangCleg · 10/08/2019 13:44

It is a shame that most woman’s charity’s also employ men but I think, for me at least, I can look past that if it means helping more woman and girls where it’s needed.

I can't and don't. Inclusion of men inevitably results in at best imposition of saviourism and at worst, activism that works against women or even abuses them. Hello Oxfam. Hello Save the Children.

Inclusion of women service users in decision making is also vital. Otherwise we get the laughable Woke Saviour women parachuted into exec positions and ignoring service user needs, as we've seen of late in DV charities.

Women centred. Vital.

SuperLoudPoppingAction · 10/08/2019 13:42

Kwisa is a good organization in Scotland raising awareness of fgm

SuperLoudPoppingAction · 10/08/2019 13:41

I think it's hard to balance between avoiding white saviour attitudes and avoiding fear of intervention by white people eg teachers/social workers who could prevent harm.

One thing that helps is addressing implicit racist bias among those people who could help so they can be more reflective about their motives.

It can sometimes help avoid 'othering' type attitudes to remember that fgm has been perpetrated against women of many cultures. So has forced marriage.

I have Mormon and Christian friends who are white who had forced marriages.

There are white women (especially lesbians) who had clitoridectomies.

Women in the West are pressured to consider labiaplasty very young (see Embarrassing Bodies).

When women get together and talk across difference (as recommended by Audre Lorde) we can share experiences and see how to help one another.

Rather than acting on behalf of someone we don't really understand.

I think that's one reason women only space is so crucial for me.

Earlywalker · 10/08/2019 13:37

Men as leaders that should read, I have no issue with Male volunteers etc, woman’s rights is everyone’s issue to solve and a lot of the time, men’s causing.

Do any of the charities listed above ‘not centre biological woman in their decision making processes’ wurzel I’m confused about what you mean Confused

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SuperLoudPoppingAction · 10/08/2019 13:35

www.gov.uk/female-genital-mutilation-protection-order

The consultation is to provide legislation similar to that in England and Wales.

Earlywalker · 10/08/2019 13:29

It is a shame that most woman’s charity’s also employ men but I think, for me at least, I can look past that if it means helping more woman and girls where it’s needed.

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OvaHere · 10/08/2019 13:27

This is an excellent twitter thread to read and contribute to.

twitter.com/ariana_erbon/status/1158794046275543040

Earlywalker · 10/08/2019 13:26

Agree, FOWARD is another great charity! Appears their founder was at the forefront of the campaign to make FGM a prosecutable offence in the UK and a human rights violation by the UN.

I didn’t say communities can’t help lang, just that professionals need to get involved in the UK also and FORWARD appear to be helping to advise those professionals which is great.

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