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Birthing mother abused for refusing male nurse 2

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sakura184 · 17/07/2019 20:18

I was actually quite glad the thread reached 1k as I'm not really enjoying it at all, but I've started this on me just in case there is anything else to add.

It ended on the note of talking about the subject of baby centered care.

I think negligence, forced intervention and poor treatment in hospitals can be just as responsible for a damaged baby as a woman who decides to go it completely alone.

One thing I will say, is that we can't have it both ways. We can't insist women are listened to and then blame the hospital when/if it all goes wrong.

But it seems that some women are being overriden by doctors, mainly by arrogance , but perhaps also a fear that they may be sued or something, I don't know. the doctor knows best model still seems to be the norm in hospitals. Women need to be listened to and catered to a lot more

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loopsdefruit · 17/07/2019 20:51

RTB I can understand you saying that, but it is not what the policy documents say from any of the LSCBs I looked at. In fact it indicates that as soon as a concealed pregnancy is revealed a referral should be made to CSC. It might not be what Birthrights say, but they're not the ones making the guidelines.

After all, you can't know if there's a pattern of behaviour if you know nothing about a family and there has been no assessment done during pregnancy (by HCPs).

RosesAndRaindrops · 17/07/2019 20:44

Exactly Aargh, I started another thread because I didn't like the other one
WTF lol

RedToothBrush · 17/07/2019 20:43

Birthrights indicates in their factsheet that HCPs may make a referral if they believe there is a risk to the unborn baby. They also say that they shouldn't do it 'just' because a person has declined antenatal care.

Indeed refusal to engage with antenatal care or whilst giving birth CAN be PART of a referral if it helps to demonstrate a PATTERN of behaviour which gives cause for concern.

But as a singular reason, no.

loopsdefruit · 17/07/2019 20:38

At least I get to respond to Zebra who seems somewhat confused about the law and the way CSC works.

There are guidelines that govern how information must be shared to safeguard children. Local Safeguarding Children's Boards will have their own policy documents around how to handle a concealed pregnancy (what it is called when a person does not access antenatal care or does not tell health professionals she is pregnant). Every one I have looked at lists not accessing antenatal care as a reason for not only a referral but often a child-protection enquiry assessment.

This assessment would look at the health needs of the baby and how these are being met in pregnancy (or not) among other things.

These guidelines are based on legislation, they are legal.

Birthrights indicates in their factsheet that HCPs may make a referral if they believe there is a risk to the unborn baby. They also say that they shouldn't do it 'just' because a person has declined antenatal care.

However, there is no evidence on this factsheet to back up their claim and if the LSCB has that as their policy then the professionals in that area must follow those guidelines. Whether Birthrights want them to or not.

The woman is free to make a complaint to the healthcare setting or to the LA or even write to the LSCB and ask them to change the policy, but they are under no obligation to do so if they feel it is important to safeguard children.

They don't just pull these guidelines out of their ass.

Aaarrgghhh · 17/07/2019 20:35

You started another thread and in the same breath you are glad the other one filled up because you aren’t enjoying it? I think you’re lying again. I’m done, whatever.

sakura184 · 17/07/2019 20:22

The original article that was the reason for the thread

pjmedia.com/parenting/colorado-doula-and-assault-survivor-investigated-by-dhs-for-refusing-male-nurse-during-birth/

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