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Found this in a lesbian facebook forum

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chillz · 13/07/2019 09:23

www.allure.com/story/guide-to-sex-with-trans-women-for-cis-women?fbclid=IwAR3ODpZ-vQMtwrH3uWwhry_GqAT-CUyYben322Yc7Ds__EOk5WfImtw_sTg

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Aspley · 13/07/2019 11:22

There is literally no respect for us.
Just self-entitled males disrespecting women and our boundaries.
Just like men have always done.

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chillz · 13/07/2019 11:06

Yah.

What seems to be lacking here is the concept of a natural and mutual attraction between two people. Or that lesbians may actually really only want to be with other lesbian or bi natal females - due to their wiring.

Lesbians aren't sexually naive women who need educating on how to satisy someone with a natal male penis. The whole world endorses men, and approves only of women in context to men. Most lesbians have tried to go with that model, but it is not a natural chain reaction attraction.

Bless. Thanks to mumsnet for providing some respect for our boundaries. We are someone's daughter also.

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Aspley · 13/07/2019 11:05

God I have actually read it now.

"That’s why I’m here today: to help you unlearn our society’s nasty transphobia and teach you how to have fun with the trans women in your love life. It’s a noble endeavor, I know. So let’s chat about trans women, how our bodies work, what feels good for us, and what you should know before we go home together."

Fuck right off then go fuck off some more. Unbelievable homophobia.
Seriously, give me a straight man over these creeps anyday.

Aspley · 13/07/2019 11:02

There is tonnes of this shit everywhere.
Autostraddle has a vomit inducing article telling lesbians how to give blowies.
Straight males must have their every whim catered for, lesbians just have to play along

LonginesPrime · 13/07/2019 10:46

most trans lesbian sex for me has consisted of mostly foreplay, there's hardly ever penetration

This reminds me of when men ask lesbians 'what we actually do for sex' and laugh as they see that as foreplay.

It betrays a very male-centric and heteronormative view of sex, which seems rather inappropriate in an article supposedly written for lesbians!