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"Women are stupid"

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sakura184 · 11/07/2019 01:21

There was a recent scandal in Japan where it was discovered that the top medical university there had been faking test scores. Basically women had been outperforming men in the tests for years but the university had been altering women's scores so that men received university places instead of women.

Anyway, I was just reading up about another case where 5 Japanese students attacked a female student and the justification of one of the attackers was that "women are stupid"

One of the accused said in court that he had looked down on women because they are “stupid.”

www.japantimes.co.jp/news/2019/07/02/national/social-issues/japans-gender-problem-human-disaster-says-award-winning-scholar-chizuko-ueno/#.XSZ-bCUo_Dt

I've had a lot of experience of being treated like I was stupid, by both men and women, but mainly by men. It's like I go through life being seen as "a stupid person". But I loved university, because I loved not feeling stupid when I got essay or test results back.
Anyway this idea that women are stupid has definitely affected me.
Only after i discovered feminism did I learn how amazingly unstupid women actually are and how deep of a lie it is to say women are stupid

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Chickenish · 11/07/2019 07:20

I have never heard that women are stupid. I don’t know if this is cultural, coming from a long line of strong women.

BluebonicPlague · 11/07/2019 01:51

I should add, because it's important, that I ignored my mother and aunt because I believed the doctrine that women are stupid. It took me years to come round to appreciating what they had to teach me.
(Yeah, I guess I was stupid. Or the doctrine made me stupid.)

Coyoacan · 11/07/2019 01:45

Indeed. It's supposed to be feminine to be stupid.

My mother read "Gone with the Wind" and was impressed by how the Southern Belles had to act stupid while behind the scenes they had huge responsabilities (albeit immoral responsabilities).

BluebonicPlague · 11/07/2019 01:38

Sakura, I suspect I am older than you, but I grew up surrounded by people (apart from my mother and aunt) who insisted that men were more intelligent than women. I believed it. The teachers at school repeatedly said there must have been something in the water when we were born because that was the only way to explain how the girls always came top in exams. Oh yes, women might have a sort of soft wisdom, but it was worldly and not logical and possibly even a bit woo so didn’t count. It wasn’t until long after I got my degree, having met some astonishingly bright women along the way, that it dawned on me that all this ‘men are more intelligent than women’ schtick was actually bullshit.
Meanwhile, the 'women are stupid' doctrine had done untold damage to countless
other people, and I don't think I escaped unscathed even now.

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