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Fascinating tweets about JY’s waxing case. Read here. (Thread title edited by MNHQ)

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Whackitupto200 · 08/07/2019 09:27

JY’s parent sounds like an absolute loon. It would explain a lot.

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happydappy2 · 09/07/2019 19:49

Interesting how JY is also pushing for mediation to come to a settlement for costs, JY is manipulating the system to gain access to women who don’t speak English as a first language......

drspouse · 09/07/2019 19:48

Anyone listen to the Archers? Eddie wants a makeover from Natasha and she says she doesn't do men... It's only a facial but she does oblige...

ahumanfemale · 09/07/2019 19:45

I just read that popchyck - ALL the defendants are South Asian immigrants speaking English as a second language! Holy fuck. I hope to hell they band together, whatever the outcome here is, and take JY to court for racism!

OhtheHillsareAlive · 09/07/2019 19:41

Or maybe offer their burly husbands to do the waxing for them

Brilliant solution! That would really validate JY as a woman - which is what he seems to be looking for.

LordProfFekkoThePenguinPhD · 09/07/2019 19:20

I guess he (for the most likely sex would be a he) would more likely to be dressed as a bear or a dog (fur and all that but would he be a bitch or female bear - not sure what that’s called) in which case the therapist could refuse to oblige on the basis of not attending to animals and.l the risk of bites/rabies.

Then again they may try their paw at the poodle parlour. Oh please god, let one try their paw at the poodle parlour!

sneakypinky · 09/07/2019 18:32

What about furries? If a mad cunt dressed as a rooster comes in wanting a bumhole wax?

Sorry to joke, but this whole thing is a joke.

Popchyk · 09/07/2019 17:52

Link to the May 30, 2019 decision by the Tribunal re JY vs. Mint Tanning. It provides further background on the history of JY's previous complaints.

www.canlii.org/en/bc/bchrt/doc/2019/2019bchrt106/2019bchrt106.html?autocompleteStr=17587&autocompletePos=1

LordProfFekkoThePenguinPhD · 09/07/2019 17:46

Will the judge need to look at photo ? Poor judge...

LordProfFekkoThePenguinPhD · 09/07/2019 17:45

So we can expect Canada to be changing it’s content for therapist training.

Brazilian wax class 101:
Female women’s waxing
Male women’s waxing
Dogs who think they are people waxing

Popchyk · 09/07/2019 17:45

The tweeter is back again.

This time she is going to give details of the second case.

twitter.com/goinglikeelsie

"Going to start tweeting my notes about JY BCHR Tribunal hearing for Case #2. Thread about Case #1 is here:

twitter.com/goinglikeelsie/status/1147905523347365888?s=21

This is second of three cases that have been grouped together and in which defendant is represented by @JCCFCanada lawyer.

There is background on first thread about the BC Human Rights Code and the Tribunal. JY has made 14-16 complaints about being denied waxing services. From info heard in last hearing, it appears that some have been settled in mediation.

Fieldofgreycorn · 09/07/2019 17:43

Not rtft but has anyone mentioned training? For insurance purposes therapists shouldn’t practice outside their training. Differences in genital skin?
Also it might not be picked up by a lot of media if it’s clear person has serious mental health issues.

ZuttZeVootEeeVro · 09/07/2019 17:43

Im actually concerned that this training issue is going to be turned on it's head somehow and the fact she didn't give it a go - because no training available being read as required - will bite her and the other women.

Maybe that's why they are talking about her religion? That's she's objecting on religious grounds, not because she isn't qualified. She can't say she isn't qualified if the qualification doesn't exist?

I'm surprised that there isn't a recognised qualification - who wants that done by a keen, or not so keen amateur?

ahumanfemale · 09/07/2019 17:24

I wonder what they would have said of the therapist said ‘no I only wax men’.

This is actually the way around it if the beautician thinks someone is with make genitalia identifying as a woman. Especially in Canada, where there's no training for cock and balls waxing but IS for vulva waxing.

Im actually concerned that this training issue is going to be turned on it's head somehow and the fact she didn't give it a go - because no training available being read as required - will bite her and the other women.

BatShite · 09/07/2019 17:18

she doesn't offer such services because she'd been asked to provide 'relief' when such happened and some men reacted with anger when she refused.

Sounds about right. First off, assuming that a professional woman doing her job would randomly wank you off because you asked, and two the violence when told no Hmm

Mitebiteatnite · 09/07/2019 17:13

OK, I genuinely had no idea who JY was but the very quickest of Google searches revealed all. JY is kidding themseld if they think the restrictions on reporting are actually going to conceal their identity.

The very first page I read actually nearly made me vomit, the screen shots of those messages about 'should I help her and show her where the tampon goes?'

WHAT THE ACTUAL FUCK? DH and I always talked about moving to Canada when the DCs leave home, I used to think it was a lovely, shiny, happy place to live but fuck me have I been educated.

LordProfFekkoThePenguinPhD · 09/07/2019 17:02

I wonder what they would have said of the therapist said ‘no I only wax men’.

timeforakinderworld · 09/07/2019 16:51

Really I think anyone who provides home services should be able to refuse anyone, no questions asked. I have massages with a female therapist and she only accepts men if they are partners/friends of women she knows - obviously she loses clients but experience has shown her that the risk of assault is too big if she accepts anyone. Laws really need to take into account the reality of male violence. It is ridiculous that this person is saying that gender equality is not being respected- women are greatly disadvantaged in this scenario.

LordProfFekkoThePenguinPhD · 09/07/2019 16:50

When I worked as a therapist I was in a small windowless room with my client. Of course I was watching them all the time but if I felt uneasy I’d leave the door open or say that I was having a trainee observe the session. I’d also say that I was recording the session for them.

This was pretty standard for the clinic - men and women - but the reasoning there was just in case they tried to attack you, or accuse you of something inappropriate. Not in case you literally tried to kill your client by calling someone by the wrong pronoun.

Michelleoftheresistance · 09/07/2019 16:39

I have asked the woman who does my laser treatments if she would treat a trans person or a man and she said no, she chooses not to treat a person with male genitalia.

I've worked with a local network of holistic therapists doing massage, Reiki, ear candling, reflexology etc, and most are women with a therapy room at home. All take women clients via phone or email contact, but have a policy of men only if they are known to them or known to a friend or a long term women client. Several have been sexually harassed or assaulted in the past by male clients. All have said if they are no longer allowed to clearly establish if someone is in reality female and state their own boundaries, then they will simply stop advertising and will pick up clients only through friends and acquaintances and personal recommendations.

Basically go underground like the lesbian groups and women's support groups etc.

JustAnotherWoman · 09/07/2019 16:32

Scandalous there's no media covering this case

arranbubonicplague · 09/07/2019 14:36

I have asked the woman who does my laser treatments if she would treat a trans person or a man and she said no, she chooses not to treat a person with male genitalia.

Cosmo, of course, has a piece where they asked 3 waxers if they've been asked to wax men and if it is different. They were, in true Cosmo style, totally cool and said that it was little different. And they talked the clients through how it was totally fine if they experienced a normal biological response and how they responded.

Oddly enough, I felt the Canada tribunal's expert witness testimony she is AB in the transcript) stating that she doesn't offer such services because she'd been asked to provide 'relief' when such happened and some men reacted with anger when she refused.

AB started out providing services from home - discusses risks involved.... AB discusses male wax clients. Must handle their genitals - shaft of penis,scrotum. Many men get erection - some embarrassed but substantial % ask for sex service
When refused, some may be embarrassed but some get angry. AB has been called bitch, slut, c@nt. AB works (or has worked ...at male only wax salon - says angry men very intimidating to staff at salon.

LordProfFekkoThePenguinPhD · 09/07/2019 14:16

What about the women who threw money at them to go away? Shame they can't have any comeback. Or maybe offer their burly husbands to do the waxing for them.

OhtheHillsareAlive · 09/07/2019 14:14

And it's scandalous that they ever let this get off the ground.

Datun I agree. But (desperately looking for a silver lining) as I said upthread, if this case is looked at carefully and with all due process and then chucked out with a fuck off to the far side of fuck and then fuck off some more, it may help to re-establish sanity. And women’s rights.

And maybe JY will be prosecuted for his racism.

And I hope the women whom JY is vexatiously litigating have good support.

LordProfFekkoThePenguinPhD · 09/07/2019 14:14

That's not the point though is it?

Did they ever get anyone to do the waxing? What would they have done if someone had said 'great come on it and get your frock off'?

OhtheHillsareAlive · 09/07/2019 14:09

There must be places where JY can get waxed, there is one place in Edinburgh that are happy to do those services for trans people, and that fine, they advertise as having those services.

But in JY’s world he’s not trans , he’s a woman.

Reminds me of those awful sketches by Williams and Lucas “I’m a Laydeeee” (I never liked those two).