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Why can’t transgender lesbians just date each other?

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Hithere12 · 17/06/2019 01:41

I keep seeing online transgender women so angry a female lesbian doesn’t want to date someone trans, but it begs the question why can’t they just date each other?

If they genuinely believe a trans woman is without question a woman and they are attracted to women then surely this would solve all their problems in terms of finding a partner? They could just date each other? Unless they don’t want to date trans women because they don’t see trans women as real women? Hmm Confused

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2BthatUnnoticed · 17/06/2019 02:08

Many do, as I understand it. And some are male-attracted and happily settled. Seems wrong to make a sweeping statement about an entire demographic.

Hithere12 · 17/06/2019 02:06

maybe they don't know any trans women who are lesbians

60% of trans women identify as lesbians so how could they not?

i'm not sure what point you're trying to make Hmm

The point I am making is that female lesbians are facing abuse from trans activists because they don’t want to date someone with a penis. I’m just saying they could date other women like them and this would solve all their problems finding someone. Is lesbians being attacked over this something you’re unaware of?

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mumofwantwomany · 17/06/2019 01:52

maybe they don't know any trans women who are lesbians.

maybe they do, but they're not attracted physically or emotionally to the person - not because they're trans, but because physically or otherwise they're not their type.

i'm not sure what point you're trying to make Hmm

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