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Women Only Mass Bike Ride

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Jeanhatchet · 14/06/2019 18:27

I know I'm not a favourite of this site but thought I would still drop this here for women who might be interested in joining us in riding for all the women murdered by men they knew since 2016. link.medium.com/H3c3ex9cwX

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BadgertheBodger · 15/06/2019 15:02

If anyone is planning to walk their bike anywhere in Lancashire or on the Manchester route please can you drop me a PM? I’d like to join in but too disabled to ride. Would be lovely to have some company so anyone who needs a slower/non riding route let me know!!

DanaPhoenix · 15/06/2019 15:02

Anyone? Huh ok. Well it’s almost midnight Saturday here. I’ve had a few couple of relaxing wines. I suspect I’m not the only one.

I don’t know what is causing the animosity here. But I do think you’re way out of line Venice. Don’t do this here.

Jeanhatchet · 15/06/2019 14:48

@VeniceAllan some of the women's families are going to see that comment Venice. It's a really disrespectful way to speak of their murdered relatives. I hope you have a little think on and request it is deleted.

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KatvonHostileExtremist · 15/06/2019 13:09

I think it sounds like a great thing to do jean
I will see if I can join you!

Jeanhatchet · 15/06/2019 13:02

@ZebrasAreBras thank you

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Jeanhatchet · 15/06/2019 12:59

@aliasundercover .... ah. Thanks for being honest and accepting this isn't for men. Cheers.

@VeniceAllan have you got a problem with this?

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aliasundercover · 15/06/2019 12:35

Please excuse me Jeanhatchet, I didn't mean to cause any confusion. As a man I'm (rightly) not invited on this ride.

ZebrasAreBras · 15/06/2019 12:23

Thinking of you, Jean, and Frances.

I'll be sending a donation your way this week Thanks

DanaPhoenix · 15/06/2019 12:14

81? Dear God. I'm lost for words. Thinking of her 😢

S1naidSucks · 15/06/2019 12:08

VeniceAllan, have I said something wrong? Confused

barelove · 15/06/2019 12:07

Right, I'm joining you both. Going out right now for a bike ride as a tribute to Frances Hubbard.

Thank you Jean for bringing these women's stories to our awareness and being the inspiration for us all to speak up about male violence. It can't be allowed to go unnoticed. Flowers

VeniceAllan · 15/06/2019 12:06
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S1naidSucks · 15/06/2019 12:01

Re Belfast ride ... no one has offered to organise one yet but I hope they will! Thanks for answering, Jean. I’m not ‘on’ twitter but I read it. I saw a couple of people ask, so I’ll see if I can sign up and contact them.

Jeanhatchet · 15/06/2019 11:57

@ShowOfHands someone has mentioned a Norfolk ride. All you need is to get your bikes - turn up at 1pm. Carry the name of a woman from a list I'll put out closer to the day on your back. Ride. x

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Jeanhatchet · 15/06/2019 11:55

@aliasundercover I'm just about to go out myself. I'm riding for Frances Hubbard. Her husband stabbed her multiple times - his attack was so violent he had to be shot with rubber bullets by police officers.

Excuses "mental health" "out of character"... "always seemed a lovely couple" "no risk to wider public"

Unless you're a woman living with a man of course. That's pretty risky given that a man murders woman once every 3 days on average.

Frances was 81. Ride for her with me? Think of her?

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sackrifice · 15/06/2019 11:41

Jean you are a favourite of mine.

Star Flowers

ZebrasAreBras · 15/06/2019 11:33

Jean, you're a favourite of mine - I think what you do is amazing.

ShowOfHands · 15/06/2019 11:25

I am in Norfolk and keeping everything crossed that a Norfolk ride is organised. I'll ride that day anyway and so will my dd but would like to be with other women if possible.

This is so important Jean and I'm sorry you've faced such criticism and attack.

DanaPhoenix · 15/06/2019 11:10

Well I have to say that I'm disappointed.....
disappointed that I will be travelling in Europe (ok I'm excited about that) when this is happening.

I got quite excited and fully intended to join in here down under and make use of my birthday gift (a retro bike with basket) that I'm ashamed to say I've still yet to ride. Then I saw the date Sad.

Still I will keep you all in my thoughts, for a safe and successful ride.

Don't let the haters get you down. Every day more and more people are seeing the reality behind the mask. xx

loveyouradvice · 15/06/2019 11:07

I am confused ... why is jeanhatchet not a favourite of these pages?

I have read only positive comments about you on here Jean - and this is how I first learnt of you and what you do. So so powerful.

And as a woman I am so grateful to you for keeping this so clear and present in people's minds

I have a disability but if I am well enough in September I will join your peloton. And meanwhile I am sharing it widely.

These women and how they died will not be forgotten

R0wantrees · 15/06/2019 10:53

So glad you did! Its such an important event.

I noticed that WPUK have posted your information about it
(for anyone like me who has maxed out their Medium article allowance)

(extract)
Women will also ride from exercise bikes in their own homes. Women will ride from around the world. Women will ride alone at the same time. Women will use wheelchairs, trikes or even push a bike if they cannot ride one. All will carry a murdered woman’s name with them. All will carry the weight of her death in their hearts. All will be women.

It is absolutely vital that this mass bike ride will be women-only. It is essential to the project that we acknowledge the sexed nature of this crime. It is vital that statistical integrity is attached to the figures. Men murder women because they are women.

In objection to the fact that I have said that only women will ride, today I had a man offer to strangle me. He negotiated his price openly with another man on the internet. The first man had stated he would pay for someone to shove my bike down my throat.

My crime? To say that a ride for murdered women would be attended only by other women. Women have to be allowed to self-organise. There are times when this is the right thing to do. " (continues)

womansplaceuk.org/2019/06/15/ride-for-murdered-women-a-female-peloton/

Jean its beyond appalling that you received violent threats by men over this. Speaks volumes about so much, especially how important the event is. Flowers

wrongsideofhistorymyarse · 15/06/2019 10:53

Looking forward to it. X

aliasundercover · 15/06/2019 10:53

I'll be thinking of this while I'm out on my bike today

Jeanhatchet · 15/06/2019 10:49

Thanks for kind comments women. I wasn't sure whether to post or not.

Re Belfast ride ... no one has offered to organise one yet but I hope they will!

Riding on exercise bikes is going to be a fab way to take part. X

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