terryleather: "Public sex as an expression of gay male culture that cannot be questioned, transgressing boundaries as a good in and of itself and no fucks given as to what effect that might have on anybody else , the centering of males and their sexual entitlement - it's all there. Gay men or straight men if we're not centering their cocks then we're not doing it right."
Very much this. Someone said yesterday "Mary Whitehouse was right" and I've been musing on this all day. I was a teenager when Mary Whitehouse was all over the media (as it then was - 3 TV channels, radio and the papers) and I saw her the way most other young people did, as a silly, uptight woman who wanted to kill everyone's fun.
I find myself now looking at where we are - when semingly large numbers of men are revelling in their "right" to be sexually active and explicit anywhere they choose and always at the expense of women's privacy and safety and - most sinister of all - children's privacy and safety.