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Ann Widdecombe on Marr - Gay conversion therapy is no different to changing sex

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lucasthecat · 02/06/2019 11:59

This morning on Marr - Ann Widdecombe - was being grilled on her previous support on research into gay conversion therapy - her response was interesting - She said it is now accepted that people can change sex - so it’s not that radical for science to explore changing sexual attraction (for those gay people that are unhappy). For the record I don’t think you can change sex or sexual attraction. However you can’t dispute her logic - if something’s are fluid and change - then surely everything is up for grabs - using chemical drugs and surgery - and a large dose of propaganda . Who’d of though Ann widdecombe is super woke

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FloralBunting · 03/06/2019 12:32

Esther McVey might be an amateur in comparison, but I'll wager is possibly more dangerous because she's photogenic and attractive and people don't make a point of discussing her ugly looks as though it makes more of a difference than the ugly views she has espoused while in positions of power.

MockerstheFeManist · 03/06/2019 12:28

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ThePurportedDoctoress · 03/06/2019 12:27

I think she knows this

I think you're right. In which case it would be interesting to hear what her preferred 'solution' is for young lesbians who are considering transitioning as a way to escape heteronormative pressure and become more acceptable in the eyes of people like her.

lucasthecat · 03/06/2019 12:20

The curious thing is AW belief that you can change sexual orientation - is jumped on as horrific homophobia . Whereas the belief you can change sex or can turn a Mans body into a Woman’s body through drugs, surgery or a bit of magic thinking - is seen as the most enlightened beautiful thing - by so many. I believe gay conversion therapy and TWAW - are both bullshit of the highest order - but they have a huge amount in common - al though both sides would claim they are a million miles apart

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CaptainKirksSpookyghost · 03/06/2019 11:52

Remember the GRC's became a thing to 'stop' same sex marriage, transing (converting) homosexuals has always been there as a goal.

Jaxhog · 03/06/2019 11:49

She's a Brexit MEP. Need I say more?

CaptainKirksSpookyghost · 03/06/2019 11:49

Once she realises that, she should be fully on board with it.

I think she knows this, which is why she answered as she did.

ThePurportedDoctoress · 03/06/2019 11:47

However you can’t dispute her logic - if something’s are fluid and change - then surely everything is up for grabs

Well yes, except Ann Widdecombe and her ilk talk about gay conversion therapy, not sexuality conversion therapy - I doubt she would advocate for such therapies to be available for heterosexuals who would rather be gay. People like her who believe that same-sex attraction is a problem that needs a solution have actually contributed to the rise of gender ideology. She can fuck off.
Transgenderism is the new gay conversion therapy. Once she realises that, she should be fully on board with it.

HumansCannotEverChangeSex · 03/06/2019 10:58

Meh, she has a point. If we can apparently change our sex, then why not our sexual preferences. We already trans away the gay so why not find a way to stop pedophiles being attracted to children.

FloralBunting · 02/06/2019 22:41

There's a whole lot of assumptions behind the idea that someone might want to change their orientation. As someone who went through it, I admit I do find it hard to think of a neutral reason.

Outanabout · 02/06/2019 22:27

Who was that gay jazz player, he was brought up to believe he was gay, it came as a shock to him as an adult when he realised that he wasn't.

LassOfFyvie · 02/06/2019 22:08

if some adult wanted to be straight, why restrict that, if it was possible to do it. There are reasons people might still think its not a good idea to allow it, but it's not a completely bizarre point of view

There was a Rod Liddle video interview in the Sunday Times a while back with a homosexual man saying exactly that. He did not want to be homosexual and felt he should be able to access help about that.

Goosefoot · 02/06/2019 22:02

Obviously I mean "not talked about because it isn't pc to do so"

Goosefoot · 02/06/2019 22:00

I've always been a little uncomfortable with some of the things people say about why conversion therapy should be banned.

It's one thing to say, well, why would someone need to be converted, that is pretty straightforward. The strongest argument to allow it would be if some adult wanted to be straight, why restrict that, if it was possible to do it. There are reasons people might still think its not a good idea to allow it, but it's not a completely bizarre point of view. But if that's the argument against it, I don't have an issue.

But the idea that it doesn't work - well, sure, it seems that what what we call conversion therapy doesn't work. But that doesn't mean it could never work, who knows maybe there could be some discovery that would allow it, or to affect foetal development. I can think of lots of good reasons we might not do those things, but I don't like tying the idea that it doesn't work to why we don't do it.

We've kind of seen how making "conversion therapy" an amporphous idea can be a problem when it comes to trans issues. But I have wondered as well about some cases that could really seem like gay conversion therapy. People here talk about the development of fetishes a lot, and I know of some young males who may or may not have been gay in the regular sense, who in my observation were exposed to an environment where certain involving sex with other men, and there seemed to be a fetish based sexuality that came out of it. I imagine, though I don't know, that its similar to what happens in cultures where pederasty is normative. But if one of these men, as an adult, were to seek therapy, I wonder if the course of it could begin to look at the attraction to other men, and if so, would that be considered conversion therapy?

I imagine that could be a sensitive topic for gay men, but I don't kow if its not talked about because it is too pc, or I am just talking about something so rare it doesn't matter, or what.

2rebecca · 02/06/2019 21:57

Agree re paedophiles. I have had a couple of paedophile patients wishing they could have their sexual preferences changed and wanting to suppress their libidos. I hope someone is doing research in to this although you'd never be allowed a control group and you couldn't trust them not to lie. Society hasn't a clue what to do with them at the moment.

Grimbles · 02/06/2019 21:25

Why is the focus on 'converting' gays?

If it was possible to 'convert' someone's sexuality why is it never centred around converting paedophiles?

FloralBunting · 02/06/2019 20:38

Yeah. Don't think anyone here would dispute that. I don't know any of the regular posters are for conversion therapy. Most of think it's abusive.

dwatsuts · 02/06/2019 20:37

Actually, I read over some of the responses in this thread, and I think some people have gotten the wrong end of the stick.

I think Ann Widdecombe is saying "why can't we have gay conversion therapy if we're going to accept that people can change sex?" I don't think she is advocating rights for transgender people, rather, she's just being a dick to rationalise her earlier comments about gay conversion therapy.

dwatsuts · 02/06/2019 20:34

She said it is now accepted that people can change sex - so it’s not that radical for science to explore changing sexual attraction (for those gay people that are unhappy).

Given the advances in knowledge with each century, then sure, it probably is possible. It would just be a colossal waste of time and resources. Being gay is not harmful to the person who is gay, nor anyone around them, so it makes no sense to try to change it.

FloralBunting · 02/06/2019 19:05

Oh, I'm sure. Frankly, I think her views on homosexuality are as much as they ever were - and tbh, her speaking of gay conversation therapy with approval in the same breath as mentioning transgenderism is exactly what is motivating a lot of those Mermaids-backed parents coaching their kids at the Tavistock.

Own your shit, Trans-Activists. Widdecombe is right on your side with this one, isn't she?

I'm reading a lot of my FB friends posting their wide eyed horror at her, and I cannot but help roll my eyes in contempt given that I know the disapproving lefties posting think that transing gay kids is tres progressive. Fucking idiots.

lucasthecat · 02/06/2019 18:29

Floral Bunting - I was being a bit facetious - when I suggested AW was woke. She clearly isn’t - I think she was quite smart in responding to Marr’s attempt to use her views on Gay conversion therapy - she put it in the context of the right on view you can change sex - against which changing sexual preference seems reasonable - I don’t think she for one minute believes you can Change sex but used it as a neat device . To stop Marr in his tracks which it did

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FloralBunting · 02/06/2019 16:55

I'd be interested to know if Widdecombe is actually woke, having had an epiphany after Willoughby insisted that Willoughby's 'woman-ness' penetrated, or if she is being rather canny and pointing out the entirely anti-homosexual nature of transgenderism.

She wouldn't be the first traditionally-minded Catholic to notice that Transgenderism is no different to what most people understand as 'Gay conversion therapy.'

Rufusthebewilderedreindeer · 02/06/2019 16:52

That thread was derailed by its stupid title

Yep, i misread it as the OP thought it was ILLOGICAL...so it took me a while to realise why people were upset

But if you exclude the stupid title....people STILL aren’t getting what the OP is trying to saying

Orchidoptic · 02/06/2019 16:43

Ooh I got lost on that thread, especially with people arguing about gender when they meant sex and talking about changing your entire physiology, as if it were possible.

donquixotedelamancha · 02/06/2019 16:38

That thread was derailed by its stupid title.

True, I don't think the OP was well explained at all.