This whole idea that upsetting anyone, anywhere, with words written on the internet (that are not specific violent threats) constitutes a "hate incident" that requires police intervention...it's just madness, isn't it? And enforced very, very, very unequally. We all know whose hurt feelings matter to the police investigating "hate incidents," and it's not those of female people. Just ask the women murdered after reporting their partners' legitimate violence--oh wait, we can't, because they are dead.
These are some deeply messed up policing priorities.