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WTF Times: 'schoolboys die in cliff fall'

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Nowisthemonthofmaying · 09/05/2019 06:54

How about: schoolboys AND THEIR MOTHER are brutally murdered by violent man?

I am so sick of the way this stuff is reported. If murdering your family is a valid response to 'not being able to see a way forward' then why aren't people doing it all the time?
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Lumene · 10/05/2019 00:30

I wrote a letter (email) of complaint to editor and reporter.

The Editor is the person to target. The reporter will have no control over the headline picked

I still do not understand why newspapers do this with domestic violence stories. The truth is more newsworthy sounding, it’s normally hard to find headlines turned down and not up.

ErrolTheDragon · 09/05/2019 23:41

Um, why can I no longer access the Times website? I’m a subscriber!

Maybe you've cleared cookies or something like that and need to log in again? I find I need to re-login to the app occasionally for no apparent reason.

AspergersMum · 09/05/2019 22:42

The journalist tweeted someone, I'm assuming Venezuelan press, earlier today, asking for more info on Laura. I think the article will develop or hopefully be replaced by a victim-friendly version.

Loopytiles · 09/05/2019 20:18

The headline was shit, so is the content of the article.

Erythronium · 09/05/2019 19:57

It probably wasn't the reporter who chose the headline. The copy editor usually does that.

WeepingWillowWeepingWino · 09/05/2019 19:38

Um, why can I no longer access the Times website? I’m a subscriber!

oatmilk4breakfast · 09/05/2019 18:57

I wrote a letter (email) of complaint to editor and reporter.

Lasttobepickedatgames · 09/05/2019 18:50

"Inexplicable puzzle" I can explain it . . . The male in the relationship murdered his wife and children then killed himself. His reasons for doing so are a complete insignificance because they provide no defence for what he did. Isn't there now some regulation regarding press reporting on criminals who commit murders of this particular MO? That title is appalling it reads like an accident.

KTara · 09/05/2019 18:26

I know I had the same reaction when I read this - the mother was brutally stabbed and the boys were drugged and thrown to their deaths.

RuffleCrow · 09/05/2019 18:23

They really are the lowest of the low

Erythronium · 09/05/2019 18:23

It's a the ultimate outcome of domestic violence. The result of misogyny. If they started recording DV and men's murders of their female partners and children as hate crimes, the statistics on hate crime would go through the roof. That's why they are left unanalysed because It wouldn't do to see how much women are hated in our world.

ArchieTheRegalDog · 09/05/2019 18:22

Ffs, they were murdered Sad

ThumbWitchesAbroad · 09/05/2019 18:18

I loathe family annihilators. I think half the time they only commit suicide to avoid retribution for the murders they've committed, because they're fucking cowards.
But yes, it's all about power and control - they have the power to take the lives of the people linked to them, so they do it because they have to be "in control".

Fuck all of that.

RuffleCrow · 09/05/2019 18:17

The police couldn't find 'one specific reason for what happened'.

Allow me to help:

it's MALE VIOLENCE !!!!! Angry

BumblingAlongNow · 09/05/2019 18:11

What the fuck is it with men like this. Take your own life if you must (and it is of course tragic for anyone to even consider such a thing) but your children and wife’s lives are not yours to take. Monsters they truly are.

Erythronium · 09/05/2019 18:06

Women have killed their children but it's vanishingly rare for a woman to kill her male partner and her children. Family annihilation is a male crime. It's about male belief in ownership of their wives and families, to do with as they will.

The Indpendent article linked upthread describes what is going on in the mind of a man who does this:

"typically escape routes are blocked, and a time chosen when the family are near-at-hand, sleeping or watching TV. Keys are hidden. Those who rush upstairs are pursued. And those who rush downstairs are trapped. Elaborate precautions are taken that a getaway car is not to hand – except for the killer’s use. Also, that killer needs to be faster down the street were one of his intended victims to achieve temporary freedom."

It's an execution. Nobody is to escape.

Sagradafamiliar · 09/05/2019 17:17

Its alarmingly common amongst men, Goose. Ultimate male violence. Significantly rarer for women and usually linked to postnatal psychosis or other genuine mental problems.
Women aren't statistically violent. I don't believe men do this because they lose control, they do it to demonstrate control. Bastards.

Loopytiles · 09/05/2019 17:16

A bit more than “somewhat” more common.

Goosefoot · 09/05/2019 17:02

My understanding is that it is somewhat more common for fathers to kill families like this, but it's not at all unheard of for women either. There are a variety of reasons but mental illness is a significant one.

AspergersMum · 09/05/2019 16:59

Hugely disappointing response from The Times. They should have removed the article instead of the comments.

Taswama · 09/05/2019 16:57

I’ve been reading the Times a lot more recently thanks to Janice Turner and others, so I’m really disappointed by this.

WeepingWillowWeepingWino · 09/05/2019 14:42

They’ve deleted all the comments and switched off commenting!

Bit not altered the headline or edited the report in any way.

Silence the critics and pretend it’s not happened, that’s the way to do it, right, Mr Punch?

thelastgoldeneagle · 09/05/2019 13:49

Level up have picked up on it now
I emailed them this morning about it.

ErrolTheDragon · 09/05/2019 13:33

My reading is that the killer was heavily implied and perfectly obvious, but perhaps not explicitly named. But that wouldn't imo excuse the times report cf bbc.

This piece was highlighted via the 'best of news' section in the app version ... I had to scroll a long way down the midday web version to find it, wonder where it was earlier?

Myusernameismud · 09/05/2019 13:24

Level up have picked up on it now, I can't imagine they'll let it go so expect the headline, and hopefully the article, to be edited at some point!