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WTF Times: 'schoolboys die in cliff fall'

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Nowisthemonthofmaying · 09/05/2019 06:54

How about: schoolboys AND THEIR MOTHER are brutally murdered by violent man?

I am so sick of the way this stuff is reported. If murdering your family is a valid response to 'not being able to see a way forward' then why aren't people doing it all the time?
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CaledonianSleeper · 12/05/2019 21:39

@Loopytiles OK, maybe ‘root cause’ wasn’t the correct choice of words - what I meant was yes the reporting is dreadful, biased towards the male muderer, all the things that have been said in this thread, and of course the reporter and the newspaper should take responsibility for that. But what on earth was the coroner up to..??!! This is a member of the UK judiciary, and he also seems to have had a clear bias towards or pity for the the murderer. Shouldn’t we be equally concerned about that? Or even more concerned...?? The whole thing’s fucking appalling frankly, but I think this thread is chucking all the shit at The Times and the Coroner’s getting off much too lightly.

Sagradafamiliar · 10/05/2019 17:39

Loopy and yet they don't. Media and CJS are closely related.
Now I'm so glad to hear that most of the people you've come across are on it, unfortunately in my role I've been left saddened by the attitudes of some of those in the same sectors but that's another thread. But more than that, it's at an institution level, not individual level. The culture needs to change. I agree with your post.

Nowisthemonthofmaying · 10/05/2019 16:16

Bit late but I've finally emailed a complaint about this.

I'm really disappointed at the lack of response so far from anyone involved, particularly the journalist.

@sagradafamiliar I agree with you about the justice system - having said that, most of the people I work with in court (police officers, prosecutors and magistrates) are shit-hot on DV and very keen to prosecute and punish abusers. The problem is that a lot of good prosecutors don't do public work as the pay is shit, there's no money in the system so trials keep collapsing due to paperwork falling down the cracks and the police being overstretched, defendants opt for CC hearings if they can as they know juries are more sympathetic than magistrates to sexual and domestic crimes, and quite often complainants and witnesses change their minds about prosecuting and just don't turn up to court. It's very depressing.

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ColdFingered · 10/05/2019 13:16

Hmm! I guess he's given up finding out any more information about her. Sad

Having Googled, the poor woman was from Venezuela, her children were born there, but they and her husband had Portuguese citizenship. They'd only been here a year, so perhaps she was quite isolated.

Yes, you don't need detailed knowledge of the victim to condemn the perpetrator.

Loopytiles · 10/05/2019 13:11

The media it not “only holding up a mirror”: articles could easily focus on the crimes, the victim and the broader problem of domestic violence. as PPs have highlighted there are guidelines for journalists - not hard.

WeepingWillowWeepingWino · 10/05/2019 13:02

stupid prick.

thelastgoldeneagle · 10/05/2019 13:00

ColdFingered - 'Journalist' David Brown has removed the tweet you posted, and all replies! Hmm

Sagradafamiliar · 10/05/2019 11:20

The media is only holding up a mirror to the entire patriarchal criminal justice system. This is an institutional problem. I don't know how it can be tackled when the police, coroners, judges, prosecution, politicians, newspaper editors, etc are all geared towards finding reasons and justifications for males raping and killing women (I'm generalising now, not just speaking about this case) and victim blaming.

truthisarevolutionaryact · 10/05/2019 10:12

Awful awful article minimising murder. Just in case this hasn't already been posted, here's how to complain about articles in the Times:

www.thetimes.co.uk/article/editorial-complaints-tm6hndxr5s3?shareToken=bd1379f1f267917e34de38248745d48e

ColdFingered · 10/05/2019 10:00

Yes, it's like a tick-box exercise. Remove old tweet, and replace it with one suggesting he has an interest in the victim - but without any true intent...

thelastgoldeneagle · 10/05/2019 09:57

Yeah. Bonkers way to go about getting info.

ColdFingered · 10/05/2019 09:19

The journalist tweeted someone, I'm assuming Venezuelan press, earlier today, asking for more info on Laura.
That's interesting. I'm not on twitter, but he's put a gap between the @ sign and the name of the account he's tweeting. Does that mean that it won't actually be seen by the person??? So won't get any relevant replies???
See twitter.com/DavidhBrown
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WTF Times: 'schoolboys die in cliff fall'
thelastgoldeneagle · 10/05/2019 09:18

This article has more info: www.mylondon.news/news/west-london-news/twickenham-dad-drugged-family-murdered-16243701

The killer's suicide notes read

*'I’m so sorry. I cannot let my children live any more in a world of despair, endless pain and suffering'.

"There is no hope in this life. I cannot find God to get faith and hope."*

'I cannot let'? That's telling.

And the corner also said: "He was a family man, but there’s something clearly on his mind at that time in relation to the letter that he wrote to family, that he had become very disillusioned with his outlook on life and potentially so there was no fall back, no hope and I say presumably, that pushed him down this path where the actions that he took were clearly wholly and grossly wrong but it’s quite hard.

"I think he could not see a way forward."

But 'it's quite hard'?? WTF was 'quite hard'? Incredible that so much sympathy is being shown to him.

Loopytiles · 10/05/2019 08:54

It was the police officer and coroner quoted who said that. Their quotes are a concern too, focusing on the perpetrator’s motivation and concerns.

LangCleg · 10/05/2019 08:52

He couldn’t see a way forward

I'll fix that.

He couldn’t see a way forward and so, because he was a violent, controlling abuser who felt his wife and children were his property, not people in their own right, murdered them before he killed himself so that they could not live after he was dead.

There you go, The Times. They call it coercive control leading to family annihilation, dontchaknow. It's against the law, dontchaknow.

Loopytiles · 10/05/2019 06:45

I’m wondering about complaining to or about the coroner too. But first need more info.

staydazzling · 10/05/2019 02:12

wow there are no words, God rest there souls AngrySad

Oliversmumsarmy · 10/05/2019 02:07

He couldn’t see a way forward

Well f**k off then and leave don’t start making your mind up for other people.

Maybe he couldn’t find God because he thought he was God taking away other peoples lives

ScottishDoll · 10/05/2019 02:00

It's worse than inaccurate, it seeks to excuse murder

managedmis · 10/05/2019 01:41

So the dad murdered the kids and stabbed the mother?

Why is the info so badly presented?

Why isn't it factual?

ScottishDoll · 10/05/2019 01:38

Abused family drugged and violently murdered in sustained and vicious calculated attack by cowardly vindictive father.

Disgusting article. How dare this drivel pass as Times standard reporting? Speak for victims not their fucked up murderers.

HumberElla · 10/05/2019 01:02

Awful, awful reporting and perpetuating the lie that men who kill are simply misguided souls who believe they are doing right by their families.

This was murder. Thoroughly planned, highly organised and committed in cold blood by a nasty controlling piece of shit.

notawidow2020 · 10/05/2019 01:00

There were many comments under the article (saying about the same as what's said here) and then they disappeared, without any amendment to the article or its title (which were written by different people). Is this the sort of thing that the Press Gazette covers? Or Private Eye? "Down the memory hole" used to be about articles, but now it's whole comment threads too.

YouBumder · 10/05/2019 00:45

That is just absolutely fucking disgusting. I’m absolutely appalled.

pallisers · 10/05/2019 00:41

It's a the ultimate outcome of domestic violence. The result of misogyny. If they started recording DV and men's murders of their female partners and children as hate crimes, the statistics on hate crime would go through the roof. That's why they are left unanalysed because It wouldn't do to see how much women are hated in our world.

I'm inclined to agree with this.

In an ideal world I also think the words "wife" or "partner" or "children" shouldn't be used in these headlines. "Man kills woman and two children" captures exactly what happened. No need to make their existence referential to his.

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