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WHAT THE FUCK

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thebluearsefly · 29/04/2019 21:04

Hayden has turned up on Caroline Fs doorstop to serve an anti harassment junction?! Is this true????

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BertrandRussell · 30/04/2019 10:38

Mind you, it’s a fantastic way to get loads of support for Caroline from mumsnetters, who famously think that knocking on your best friend’s door at 4.30 in the afternoon hoping for a cup of tea without a week’s notice is an unwarranted intrusion...

BuzzPeakWankBobbly · 30/04/2019 10:36

If a crowdfunder is set up, even if you can only afford £1, please do so.

  1. It is a pound more than before.
  2. It sends a signal that more people support Caroline than SH and their bunch of bullies.
vivariumvivariumsvivaria · 30/04/2019 10:29

Will throw money at a crowdfunder.

Women must be heard.

Women is an adult human female.

LizzieSiddal · 30/04/2019 10:25

If you want to help Caroline, the very best course of action would be to make a simple offer to support a legal fee crowdfunder and then step away from the attention whoring from the dangerous narc.

This is extremely serious and I am asking all the brilliant women of MN FWR not to keep handing power to someone by giving them the attention that is fuelling their behaviour.

I agree Flora.

Imnobody4 · 30/04/2019 10:15

Caroline I'm more than happy to support a crowd funder.

JessicaWakefieldSV · 30/04/2019 10:14

Caro Flowers

Agree that we should limit any attention given to this narcissistic bully. Remember that the intention here is to get us to stop talking about things, so when relevant we should. But this persons entire criminal history is now very very public so no sense repeating what many people now know, Kiwi Farms + the name will give anyone not familiar everything they need to know.

I do think it’s time to connect all the vexatious litigation though, by my count there is definitely grounds to send a spreadsheet for the attorney general to consider.

BoreOfWhabylon · 30/04/2019 10:11

YY Floral

I think Caroline and I would disagree on many issues, but on this one I am right behind her and will put my money where my mouth is to support her.

DancingRaven · 30/04/2019 10:09

Another woman silenced by Hayden using the courts

FloralBunting · 30/04/2019 10:06

Ok.

I am totally on Caroline's side.

But can I please issue a very, very stern word of caution to everyone - this is a situation where someone involved is a dangerous narcissist, and will be practically ecstatic that there are many frightened women discussing them.

If you want to help Caroline, the very best course of action would be to make a simple offer to support a legal fee crowdfunder and then step away from the attention whoring from the dangerous narc.

This is extremely serious and I am asking all the brilliant women of MN FWR not to keep handing power to someone by giving them the attention that is fuelling their behaviour.

Otterseatpuffinsdontthey · 30/04/2019 10:06

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doubleshotespresso · 30/04/2019 10:05

My good God this is insane

Redshoeblueshoe · 30/04/2019 10:01

Glad to see this back up

beagadorsrock · 30/04/2019 09:59

I am totally not on Caroline's side on lots of issues, but on this I'll stump up for legal costs if needed.

HebeMumsnet · 30/04/2019 09:46

Morning, everyone. Apologies for this thread going off-air briefly. We felt it was best to err on the side of caution until we knew more.

We've put it back now (as you can see) but just wanted to remind everyone to think carefully about what they post, ensure they aren't posting anything that could be seen as speculation and to stick to our Talk Guidelines, as always.

Thanks!

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BernardBlacksWineIcelolly · 29/04/2019 21:30

god knows I don't agree with much of Caroline's politics, but if she wants money to deal with this shit show I will certainly stump up, and consider it money well spent

littlbrowndog · 29/04/2019 21:29

Mumsnet took down Caro support thread. She may have aske£ them

Kiwi farms have all the details

KatvonHostileExtremist · 29/04/2019 21:21

So she's banned from tweeting about SH, but they carry on retweeting posts that look like they are aimed at Caro.

Same group of obsessed bullies.

How on earth is that fair?

BettyFloop · 29/04/2019 21:20

I was looking for her support thread. Why on earth has that been taken down (unless Caro specifically asked for that to happen)?

Caro said the papers forbid her from talking about this on social media.
The agenda is as clear as day though.

LizzieSiddal · 29/04/2019 21:20

I hope Caroline has a Shit Hot Lawyer. They will wipe the floor with Hayden.

EweSurname · 29/04/2019 21:20

Ms Hayden said she left the order on her doorstep and had taken a photo of it to demonstrate an effort had been made to deliver the order.

It's so transparent as to be laughable, although not for Caro who's having to go through all of this. Solidarity with you Flowers

SophoclesTheFox · 29/04/2019 21:19

It’s utterly chilling.

Proves that it’s a nonsense that Hayden is afraid of Caroline or thinks Hayden is being harmed by Caroline in any way, because turning up on the doorstep of someone you’re afraid of and want to stop harassing you is Not A Thing. Everyone with eyes and a functioning brain knows that’s not what you do.

People who turn up uninvited on other people’s doorsteps to intimidate and frighten them are the aggressors, not the victims.

Redshoeblueshoe · 29/04/2019 21:17

This has also been on the Harrop thread
Caro Flowers

NotTerfNorCis · 29/04/2019 21:16

If this isn't harassment I don't know what is. We all know who'd be facing the police questions in a sane world.

PenguindreamsofDraco · 29/04/2019 21:15

I was looking for her support thread. Why on earth has that been taken down (unless Caro specifically asked for that to happen)?

Lord I hope she lawyers up and skins the pair of them to the bone.