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Another day, another friend insisting that THIS video will change minds and hearts

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emerencealwayshopeful · 21/04/2019 13:46

I watched it. I was doing washing up as well, so it wasn't focussed attention, but I don't recommend others force themselves through it. The production values are nice though, if you appreciate such things.

I'm just feeling lost again, turning on social media after a couple of days away and finding this shared a few times over with words explaining that nobody could be 'swayed by so-called gender-critical arguments' after seeing this all the way though.

How do intelligent women not understand that none of this has anything to do with denying the existence of people who are clearly here and all of it has to do with the fact that this ideology is a threat to women and girls?

This, the Ogre's piece denouncing JY (And the other articles about that vile human) and I need to avoid social media - except that I also have a social life that is barely real so need to go there sometimes to prove to myself I still exist.

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Trousering · 24/04/2019 00:28

mirandayardley.com/en/the-colonisation-of-the-boyhood-of-pre-gay-children-by-heterosexual-transgender-activists-interview-with-blanchardphd/

Bore off! Did you ever manage to get a date with your crush Jimmy Davidson?

LassOfFyvie · 24/04/2019 00:24

I don't think of Blaire as a woman

I'm not sure she does. She has said she is a transwoman, not a woman.

LassOfFyvie · 24/04/2019 00:21

Oh bore off Trousering. Blanchard was being put forward as some sort of authority. It's hardly unreasonable to ask who he is.

I don't use Twitter.

Trousering · 24/04/2019 00:17

Who is Blanchard and why should I care

Huh?

Anyone asking that question:
A. Google and read
B. Follow him on twitter, he answers question.

Ereshkigal · 23/04/2019 23:57

I like Blaire. I don't think of Blaire as a woman but I have a lot of time for Blaire.

LassOfFyvie · 23/04/2019 23:32

Ok thanks. Blaire White has said she was a gay teenager and she had suffered from dysphoria . She did not transition until she was in her late teens. She now sees herself as heterosexual and has a male partner.

She is very open about her dysphoria being a disorder. There is a video of her showing her partner photographs of herself pre- transition becoming more and more feminine in appearance. It's quite funny. She is very vain about her appearance but capable of laughing at herself too.

Ereshkigal · 23/04/2019 22:54

Lass

Blanchard's typology is basically that there are two types of MTF trans people:

Homosexual transsexuals - gender dysphoria since childhood, gay

Autogynephiles - generally later transitioning, attracted to the thought of themselves as a woman sexually, more likely to be heterosexual or bisexual

Ereshkigal · 23/04/2019 22:44

I had no idea the bar was so low for intellectual thought, we are all Nobel standard geniuses here on mumset in that case. I had to look up the plural of genius by the way.

Grin
LassOfFyvie · 23/04/2019 20:29

(Blaire is also HSTS, in Blanchard’s theory)

Who is Blanchard and why should I care what his or her theory is in relation to Blaire White as opposed to just listening to and coming to my own conclusion about White is saying?

BeansandRice · 23/04/2019 20:20

Gosh, what was wrong with my post? I just commented on the lack of intellectual depth in the video in the OP

Trousering · 23/04/2019 19:55

🏆 & million 💷 on the way hipsterfun.

hipsterfun · 23/04/2019 19:23

Recognition at last.

[awaits call from Sweden]

Trousering · 23/04/2019 19:17

So allowing a little bit of straight forward fairly non controversial understanding of socialisation to leak out is intellectual.

I had no idea the bar was so low for intellectual thought, we are all Nobel standard geniuses here on mumset in that case. I had to look up the plural of genius by the way.

InionEile · 23/04/2019 18:53

I think the empathy is the bit where she admits that trans women grow up and are socialised with male privilege. She is actually getting flak for that and being called ‘truscum’ by TRAs. Even though anyone sane could see that of course trans women have a different socialisation to adult human females.

Trousering · 23/04/2019 17:49

Oh blimey that thread Erishkigal

Apparently Contrapoints does intellectual empathy. That's what the video is demonstrating.

Is that another way of describing sneering?

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hipsterfun · 23/04/2019 14:17

Yeah, I know Smile

tempytemp · 23/04/2019 13:54

Me too hipster, I was just trying to think of the opposite of performed femininity. Sorry!

hipsterfun · 23/04/2019 13:25

I am using masculine presenting women as shorthand for women who don't do high heels, nails, makeup etc.

I wish you wouldn’t. I’m not masculine-presenting, I’m just an unadorned adult female mammal Grin

Ereshkigal · 23/04/2019 12:52

Yes I've seen the Blaire White debate as well and I agree, Betty.

tempytemp · 23/04/2019 12:38

I just watched the video in the OP. I managed about 10 mins, CP raises common gender critical arguments, then completely fails to properly answer them.

E.g. regarding presentation CP admits they choose their look because being called "sir" would ruin their day, but expects more masculine presenting women to have some solidarity with that.

There is no understanding that masculine presenting women want to be recognised as perfectly fine women despite not following stereotypical femininity.

It's the exact opposite experience and CP fails to explain why gender critical feminists should support the idea that lots of makeup indicates woman.

I am using masculine presenting women as shorthand for women who don't do high heels, nails, makeup etc.

BettyDuMonde · 23/04/2019 12:29

Oh, and here is Contrapoints ‘debating’ fellow YouTuber transwoman, Blaire White, a couple of years ago.

This is why Contra would never dare do a live chat with an actual GC feminist - Blaire wiped the floor with Contra’s wig.

m.youtube.com/watch?v=-SeCD8tJUhU

(Blaire is also HSTS, in Blanchard’s theory)

BettyDuMonde · 23/04/2019 12:24

The Contrapoints Autogynephilia video is a particularly good example of the uselessness of Contrapoints’ arguments.

They claim to debunk the theory, but actually do nothing of the kind, finishing with nothing but a ‘yeah, so, some transwomen are probabably AGPs, but so fucking what?’ Conclusion.

In fact, if you want to see an excellent illustration of the Blanchard AGP/HSTS typography, just look at Contrapoints’ friend (partner?) Theryn.

I haven’t watched this whole video, I just skipped to about 40 mins in, assuming that by then that they are both settled in and being themselves - it happens to be a point where they are talking about Michael Bailey (author of the Man who would be Queen) and Jordan Peterson, so I might actually watch it.

Anyway, this video is Blanchard’s typology in action - guess which one is the AGP?

m.youtube.com/watch?v=xedSSsQeGL0

(I used to quite like some of CP’s pretransition stuff, but once you’ve seen Natalie strawmanning an argument that you know is a complete misrepresentation or failing to make even a disingenuous argument against a topic, whilst pretending to have ‘debunked’ it, it’s impossible to continue to watch in good faith)

furrytoebean · 23/04/2019 10:48

Urgh that twitter feed.

None of those people were terfs.

They were just transphobes.

The man saying that older lesbians hate the fact that some of their friends transition because it means they were with men all along and never had safe spaces. I mean wtf? Literally gleeful at the thought of those bitter old lesbians being tricked all along.

Heartbreaking.

Ereshkigal · 23/04/2019 10:43

I didn't see any that said they used to be against puberty blockers and breast binding on children, but think its ok now.

Precisely.

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