Really disappointed in Tea Leonie's response to this. I had always quite liked her.
I can barely read this story, as it brings back the memories of this exact thing happening to my friend. This was a man who also swore "he had never harmed a child" - well, 1) I don't know if we can ever be sure of that, and 2) he certainly watched real children being harmed for his sexual kicks.
My friend left him. She did not stand by her man - her 'man' was not the man she had thought he was. She went through hell divorcing him, and extricating herself & her dc from him and his family (who did stand by him).
Hers was the braver choice, in my humble opinion. It is not brave to stand by a man who gets on the abuse of children. It is braver to take your children, and go it alone.
When the police raided her house at 6am one morning, the police liaison told her that about half the wives stand by their husbands in this situation. I was surprised it was so high - I could never even look at a man who had done this.
I doubt my friend will be writing any self-congratulatory "one woman plays" about her own 'bravery' any time soon.