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What the actually fucking fuck?

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ByGrabtharsHammarWhatASaving · 15/04/2019 20:05

www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-london-47934685

"I only wanted to pretend to shoot her and her new partner - it was an accident."

What the actual fuck is wrong with men? Why? Every day it's another horrific story like this.

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Popchyk · 15/04/2019 20:59

This man already had a restraining order against him, banning him from contacting his children.

So a history of unreasonable and controlling behaviour at the absolute minimum - I'd be surprised if there was no violence by the perpetrator prior to the murder.

Luke and Ryan Hart on Twitter. Luke and Ryan suffered the loss of their mother and sister, who were killed by their father.

"The law isn't designed for women and children. It was designed to protect men's rights to their private lives, which meant control over 'their' resources including women and children, and continues to do so"

twitter.com/CoCoAwareness/status/1116971719149932545

They were not talking about this case. But it seems apt.

BettyDuMonde · 15/04/2019 20:58

The accident story might’ve been slightly more believable if she hadn’t been hit in the ‘abdomen’.

Sana was 8 months pregnant. Her ‘abdomen’ was pretty much all baby bump.

unflushable · 15/04/2019 20:57

And some people still deny that there's an issue with male violence.

This is a juvenile oversimplification of the issue. These are two people who were in an arranged marriage, who should never ever have been together. It's a problem of culture and consent; the idea that it's acceptable to force two people to get married against their will. This type of violence is normalised in ultra-conservative cultures in which these types of marriages are the norm.

AssassinatedBeauty · 15/04/2019 20:50

It's not surprising that these incidents get confused for each other, as they are so frequent and similarly violent.

TopBitchoftheWitches · 15/04/2019 20:48

Oops wrong story, I thought this was the one from yesterday. Where a man killed two of his children, his partner and the man he thought she was having an affair with. He let his youngest survive as that child was more like him.

TopBitchoftheWitches · 15/04/2019 20:46

Six posts in for the namalt !

Poor woman and her all children.

AssassinatedBeauty · 15/04/2019 20:46

Oh fgs. Really? On this thread?

Men are not a race. Yes there is an issue with male violence, which is not the same as saying that every man is violent. Obviously.

Sana Muhammad should have been enjoying her new baby, but instead an appalling act of violence was committed against her and her unborn baby. By a man who thought he had the right to do what he wanted with her and her baby.

GenderFreeAdultHumanFemale · 15/04/2019 20:46

And may he go to hell. He has deprived his own children of their mother too. Scum.

Erythronium · 15/04/2019 20:45

When they go to war there's a hell of a lot of them doing the killing.

Sisterlove · 15/04/2019 20:41

some people still deny that there's an issue with male violence.

Of course some men are violent, but not the entire male race. That would be grossly generalising and unfair.

Erythronium · 15/04/2019 20:40

Horrifying - armed with two crossbows and a knife.

Rest in peace, Sana Muhammad.

AssassinatedBeauty · 15/04/2019 20:38

It's a patent nonsense. Hiding out in their shed overnight? Yeah, just meant to scare her, obviously.

The problem is that as horrific as this is, there are so many men who behave like this. It's horrific. And some people still deny that there's an issue with male violence.

BackOnceAgainWithABurnerEmail · 15/04/2019 20:25

What a fucking liar. That poor poor woman and her poor children.

No prizes for guessing why he wasn’t allowed to see his kids and had a restraining order against him.

stillathing · 15/04/2019 20:20

I wish we could find a way to completely stop the idea that women are the property of men.

Badgerthebodger · 15/04/2019 20:12

Absolutely fucking horrifying. That poor, poor woman. And the baby, I’m so pleased he’s alive but oh that poor wee scrap Sad