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"Sex games gone wrong" that result in women's death.

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RubberTreePlant · 11/04/2019 21:31

Never men's death.

In the need again today.

This is a poisonous notion isn't it?

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ILoveMaxiBondi · 11/04/2019 22:17

in my memory in the past it seems to have been mostly men that died during solo experimentation?

Same here.

There has been a huge increase in recent years, to my knowledge/awareness, of women dying due to asphyxiation, and it’s never solo/self inflicted.

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RubberTreePlant · 11/04/2019 22:16

Thanks @ItsAllGoingToBeFine

I think I might leave it until tomorrow but I'll have a look.

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ItsAllGoingToBeFine · 11/04/2019 22:10

There has been a website set up collating these:

wecantconsenttothis.uk

Be warned, it is very grim reading, and will make you very angry.

Hearhere · 11/04/2019 22:05

Sex games involving asphyxiation have long been making news because they resulted in death, in my memory in the past it seems to have been mostly men that died during solo experimentation?

I agree that this is horrific and we need to be warning women as well as educating men

ILoveMaxiBondi · 11/04/2019 22:03

It’s made to appear so fucking mainstream that no-one blinks at hearing another woman has died during a “sex game”

On social media reports of the death of the British woman in today’s news people are calling others vanilla for not being interested in asphyxiation. Hmm

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RubberTreePlant · 11/04/2019 22:00

“she was well into it - look we did it all these times before consentually so there is no reason for you to believe she didn’t consent to me strangling her this time”

Thank you for articulating it so clearly. That's exactly what's bothering me.

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ILoveMaxiBondi · 11/04/2019 21:53

Absolutely. Choking women during sex = practice. There seeing exactly how hard and for how long they need to do it for.

Also very handy when they are successful in killing her “she was well into it - look we did it all these times before consentually so there is no reason for you to believe she didn’t consent to me strangling her this time”

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RubberTreePlant · 11/04/2019 21:52

Urgh, to me it's akin to the spate of men denying rapes and using bdsm as an excuse. Lying, GUILTY men.

Yes, exactly.

There's another human in the room DOING SOMETHING that results in death. Either by omission or commission. A sex game isn't an independent entity.

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RubberTreePlant · 11/04/2019 21:50

MILKING themselves @LordProfFekkoThePenguinPhD ?!

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UserMuser098 · 11/04/2019 21:43

Urgh, to me it's akin to the spate of men denying rapes and using bdsm as an excuse. Lying, GUILTY men.

LordProfFekkoThePenguinPhD · 11/04/2019 21:42

There have been plenty of men who end up milking themselves though (kinky games).

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RubberTreePlant · 11/04/2019 21:41

I'm trying to pin down when it became a common tripe in the justice system/MSM.

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