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Are there identifiable causes for being trans?

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T1meForDebate · 11/04/2019 10:21

Fionne is sharing some heartbreaking testimonies on Twitter from transwomen who were manipulated by their mothers - I do wonder if sometimes women project 'I wish you had been a girl' so strongly that the impressionable child starts to try to please?

Then there's the three year old boy who said he was a girl - only when given time to talk did it come out that his parents had a younger daughter with many special needs including extra time and attention. Little boy can only conclude they love girls more - so he insists he's a girl.

Debbie, the transman who transitioned at 44 (when menopause hit, maybe?) - and 15 years later bitterly regrets it because she's come to terms with the fact that it was triggered by her father's sexual abuse

The whole feeling lowest of the low if you're a lesbian or gay teen - but suddenly fashionably fascinating if you say you're trans

Irresponsible magazine calling a school the coolest in the country because so many children say they're trans - who wouldn't want to join the latest craze and get called cool in print?

Autistic children who find dealing with the world so difficult, suddenly also having to cope with new bits that look, feel, smell and behave differently, including hurting, and attracting wierd unwanted attention, reactions and touching

Kids whose interests, behaviour and dress don't fit the prescribed pink and blue approval lists being ushered through the 'you're clearly trans' door

Adults (including parents) who are so committed to wanting children kept in a pre adolescent form for longer than is natural that they develop, prescribe, promote and lobby for puberty blockers (what's that about?)

Charming, articulate and cute transmen publishing chirpy polished how-to videos on Instagram flourishing binders, mastectomy and phalloplasty scars to community cooing response - what a lovely welcoming sense of belonging endorphins that must trigger

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ByGrabtharsHammarWhatASaving · 11/04/2019 12:02

Nope, it's this, obvs. Totes biology and nothing else. Even though citing any other biological basis for sex differences (like chromosomes) is "biological essentialism" and reductionist and evil. And the fact that this groundbreaking discovery somehow hasn't won anybody the nobel prize or entered any scientific literature or translated into a reliable diagnostic test that can be used before hacking up small children. But yah, it's defs a 100% scientific fact and not a lot of blindingly obvious social causes.

Are there identifiable causes for being trans?
SarahTancredi · 11/04/2019 12:00

I think it's a combination of all the things mentioned.

Utterly heart breaking

So many children are bullied and lonely and struggling with who they are. The someone online promises them an entire family and makes them.feel special. What choice do people who have been told that no one else understands or can be trusted, have but to follow through with everything when this family and support network doesnt want to know when you ask questions.

I wish we could find out just what's happening with this Inquest into the extreme rise in girls identifying as boys.

Thingybob · 11/04/2019 11:48

I'll add to your list the influence and rejection of a homophomic, bullying father as a 'cause' for many transwomen.

Barracker · 11/04/2019 11:01

The causes are social, environmental in my opinion.
Although there may be a susceptibility, a propensity in one's innate makeup that makes one more vulnerable to those outside influences.

"The suggestibility gene".
"The lack of critical thinking gene"

Not that these exist, but if you are prone to being easily influenced and do not possess a strong ability to reason logically, you are more prone to fall for circular reasoning and emotional manipulation.

Derren Brown screens candidates for his subjects. Some people are much more suggestible than others, some more resilient to manipulation.

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T1meForDebate · 11/04/2019 10:25

Jammi.dodger over at Instagram

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