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BBC "top story": How I came out as non-binary to my parents

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ByGrabtharsHammarWhatASavings · 03/04/2019 21:06

www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/articles/4zw5Wg0F6czNqqQqPFmQzft/how-i-came-out-as-non-binary-to-my-parents

*"I had to think about how I was going to talk to mum and dad about it. I thought about how much I would have to explain, how many questions I still had unanswered about myself, and how dumb I was going to sound.

As luck would have it, almost at that very moment I got a podcast about my gender identity called NB commissioned. So I made all my insecurities and all my questions into a series. "*

Uh huh.

I do hope Caitlin will have another podcast commissioned in 10 years time when they're too old to look cool in silly glasses. After they've had a few kids and suddenly become invisible to society, and all their free time is spent being the default parent while their uber-woke partner continues to insist they're too special to stay home and help with the baby, and everyone is endlessly asking how they balance career and motherhood, judging them for staying home or using childcare, judging how they feed their baby, dismissing their opinions as a "silly mum". Or maybe they won't have children and will face all the discrimination and prejudice that comes with choosing not to use their female reproductive organs. And I do hope they'll use that podcast to update us all on just how silly the whole concept of sexual dimorphism turned out to be.

I'm old now, aren't I? This is what it feels like to be old.

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BixBeiderbecke · 03/04/2019 22:23

I heard the trailer for this podcast. I knew that I’d probably want to break everything in sight if I listened to it so haven’t so far.

Cannot believe BBC is cutting funding to Radio 4 etc for this bollocks.

RepealTheGRA · 03/04/2019 22:20

Actually is that article not a spoof? Is that one she’s pictured with not a spoof?

wrongsideofhistorymyarse · 03/04/2019 22:19

Kids these days, eh.

ChattyLion · 03/04/2019 22:15

That’s nice dear. Now what shall we have for tea?

Lettera · 03/04/2019 22:15

Budge up on the oldies' bench.

'Now, it seems like I was making a big deal out of nothing, frankly.'

Grin
BesmirchingMotherhood · 03/04/2019 22:09

Can’t they just wear too much eyeliner and smoke weed instead?

RepealTheGRA · 03/04/2019 22:03

I mean what goes through the journos head when they write this shit up? Are they all earnest or are they pissing themselves?

ByGrabtharsHammarWhatASavings · 03/04/2019 21:40

RepealTheGRA I'm pretty sure Mumsnet is that support group. And thank god for it.

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ByGrabtharsHammarWhatASavings · 03/04/2019 21:39

Yup, it'd be hilarious if it wasn't informing actually policy and medical practice...

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RepealTheGRA · 03/04/2019 21:38

Is there a support group for the parents of people who come out as narcissists?

I too am old.

CottonDuvet · 03/04/2019 21:32

The sad and scary thing is that identifying as non-binary is not a neutral act. A double mastectomy and a light dose of testosterone is the "affirming" treatment indicated for young women like this. Men identifying as non-binary seem to escape with blue hair and some make up. Funny that.

OhHolyJesus · 03/04/2019 21:27

"When I came out to myself"

I wonder how Caitlin responded when Caitlin told Caitlin she was non-binary Confused

StephsCaddy · 03/04/2019 21:23

Perhaps the BBC could also tell us where to buy the best blue hair dye?

ByGrabtharsHammarWhatASavings · 03/04/2019 21:22

Yup, with a look of extreme gravitas and a dramatic pause between each name.

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zanahoria · 03/04/2019 21:20

They need to read out the names of everyone who has come out as non-binary as the lead item on the ten o'clock news every night

Melroses · 03/04/2019 21:16

It reminds me of the response of the father of someone who came out as a Lesbian. Grin

StephsCaddy · 03/04/2019 21:08

I would really struggle to keep a straight face if my nearly adult children came out with this attention seeking guff. On second thoughts the “that’s nice dear” would be the perfect response.

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