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#MothersOnMarriageCerts - legislation finally through Parliament!

41 replies

nameequality · 15/03/2019 19:23

Some of you may remember my campaign calling for Mother's Names to be allowed on Marriage Certificates alongside Father's Names. (Also see article in the Telegraph.

I was forced into when the papers reported as such claimed 'victory' on this campaign in August 2014 when David Cameron remember him announced that this would change. The problem has been that the Government would not allocate parliamentary time for a bill to resolve this.....

Over 4 and a half years later one of several private members bills covering this topic has finally despite Brexit issues made it through Parliament and will be signed by Royal Assent in the next few weeks.

The bill is a private member's bill by Tim Loughton (Conservative) and also contains provision to allow for opposite sex civil partnerships (should probably be worth a separate thread) and provisions to alter the way stillbirths are recorded (apologies I am not at all up on the detail of that aspect of the bill). Well done Tim Loughton for getting this through!

You can see a video of Tim talking about the bill on his twitter feed.

I'm delighted that this matter is finally going to be fixed!

Thank you to my family (and especially my lovely Mum Flowers) for support and encouragement with this campaign. Smile. Thank you to all the MNers who supported this - and without the FWR board I'd probably have never noticed and decided it was something to campaign about!

Special thanks to Caroline Lucus and her staff for all their support at the beginning of my campaign and for raising the profile of this in the HoC via various early day motions. Also thanks to Caroline Spelman who had a crucial role 'negotiating' between the Government and the Church of England.

OP posts:
OhamIreally · 17/03/2019 07:46

Well done! Thank you so much for your hard work on this. I remember having to give my father's name for my marriage certificate- a man who left when I was a baby, and my own mother, who had raised me single handed was invisible. It really rankled. Now I'm raising my own child single-handedly and if she marries then at least my name will be recorded. Thank you again, you wonderful woman.

Badgerthebodger · 15/03/2019 21:51

Just brilliant! Well done you wonderful, tenacious, fantastic woman StarWineCakeFlowers what amazing, uplifting news Smile

truthisarevolutionaryact · 15/03/2019 21:47

What an achievement! Good news seems hard to come by sometimes but this is brilliant.

Well done Flowers Flowers Flowers

ChattyLion · 15/03/2019 21:27

Fabulous! Star

LumpySpacedPrincess · 15/03/2019 21:13

This is amazing news! I remember when it was dropped but I didn't know you were slogging away behind the scenes. Well done love, bloody well done.

happydappy2 · 15/03/2019 20:48

congratulations-a fight worth pursuing

SurelyYoureJokingMrFeynman · 15/03/2019 20:45

Oh that is just brilliant, nameequality!

And what have you done?! What have you done?!

You realise your name will be praised for ever more by England & Wales family historians?

Really and truly, you have done more than change a few bits of paper. You have given women their rightful place in their own family dynasties for the first time ever in E&W.

This needs Wine and a fancy Cake and the whole place decked out in GlitterballGlitterballGlitterball.

You wonderful, wonderful, wonderful woman! ThanksThanksThanks

Howzaboutye · 15/03/2019 20:34

Brilliant news!
Well done you!
Thank you from me and everyone coming after us

WisdomOfCrowds · 15/03/2019 20:22

This has honestly made my day. You bloody rock!!!!

BorsetshireBlew · 15/03/2019 20:18

Well done!
Tim is my MP. He's a proper Tory and I don't agree on a lot but he can be good on family and children's issues.

S1naidSucks · 15/03/2019 20:17

I’m going to say something to bump this, as it’s too important to disappear.

Bumpity bump!

S1naidSucks · 15/03/2019 20:16

*of not if!

S1naidSucks · 15/03/2019 20:16

That’s shocking! I never knew about that, OP. Congratulations. You have removed another brick from the wall if misogyny. 💐

Rufusthebewilderedreindeer · 15/03/2019 20:10

Very very well done!!

OhHolyJesus · 15/03/2019 19:28

Brilliant OP, another step in the right direction. Makes me want to get married all over again now! Well done!

redexpat · 15/03/2019 19:25

Hurrah!