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Bloke in the Disney store...

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CaptainMarvelBunting · 10/03/2019 16:06

I was in the Disney store, gazing longingly at the most gorgeous Captain Marvel hoodie that I simply can't afford. It was a thing of beauty.

Man next to me says "I'm still debating whether to see it."

Me, full of enthusiasm, "Oh, do, it's really good!"

Man replies, "Oh right, I was expecting a boring female and lots of SJW preaching. I think superhero movies need less of this feminist rubbish."

Me, mindful of it being the Disney store, and that loud swears are not the way to go, "Its not that difficult to see women as heroes, too, is it?"

He, eyebrows lifted at a woman actually forming a sentence of reply, "Oh, you're one of them are you?"

Me, sweetly smiling while taking the hoodie off the rail, "Why yes, yes I am."

And I walked away, feeling like I was wearing the damn thing.Grin

Left it on another peg full of them elsewhere, though. I'm not made of fecking money.

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Bebstar123 · 11/03/2019 12:36

CaptainMarvelBunting I loved that bit, me and the niece had a good snigger at that.

ArcheryAnnie · 11/03/2019 12:29

And I walked away, feeling like I was wearing the damn thing.

< wild applause >

NellieEllie · 11/03/2019 10:56

@CaptainMarvelBunting. I thought that bit was great too! “Cmon, prove to me you can do it without the shiny weapons!”
Pause. Bam! Blast of shiny weapons!
“ I don’t have to prove anything to you” (paraphrased) Loved it.
Went with DD, DS, their friends and DH. Great success.

planespotting · 10/03/2019 18:24

Just wear a plain hoodie. You need no more #yourwordsareyourcape 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻

GoldenWonderwall · 10/03/2019 18:17

I’ve seen it and it was great! Loved it! Sick to the back teeth of whiny fan boys who can’t cope if the hero does not have a penis. Men may be stronger than women on average, but when we’re talking mythical beings, radioactive accidents, aliens etc all bets can and should be off.

The trailers I saw were for avengers endgame, shazzam and the new Spider-Man movie. Plenty of willies for your Disney shop man to get his teeth into.

CaptainMarvelBunting · 10/03/2019 18:07

CourageCalls, yes, you're not wrong. Even my preteen boy co-viewer noticed. It was a bit relentless at one point.

There's a bit in the movie where Captain Marvel is challenged by the bad guy who begins a grand spiel about her 'proving' herself in hand to hand combat, you know the type of monologuing willy-wanging speech? And she stops him mid sentence with a blast of energy from her hand and says "I don't have to prove anything." I kind of felt a bit like that today. So many times before I may have just nodded meekly and let the man spout unopposed opinions.

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FermatsTheorem · 10/03/2019 17:43

And I walked away, feeling like I was wearing the damn thing.grin

Too right! Well done.

CourageCalls · 10/03/2019 17:40

It was also disturbing that they were all rated 16 or 18 for a 12a film!

CourageCalls · 10/03/2019 17:39

I went yesterday to see CM and the adverts before were all gaming advertisements rated 16 or over. Most to all were violent shooting, fighting all male characters. I said to my DH at the time if the demographic for this type of movie is buying these games (probably sitting in dark rooms on their own) it's no wonder so many of them have trouble with a female hero. It was really eye opening.

hdh747 · 10/03/2019 17:33

Well he wasn't being at all goady was he?
Handled beautifully.

MillytantForceit · 10/03/2019 16:09

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