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Trans women and periods

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MhairiV · 08/03/2019 17:02

I'm just going to throw it out there - few things make me more angry than reading about trans women and their 'periods'. Now I know I've had them my whole adolescent/adult life and I know plenty about how they work (and how they impact your life when they're not straightforward, god I know about that) but where does this trans period bollocks come from?

Without a uterus or ovaries or eggs or uterine lining or any of that stuff, where does any sort of cycle come from? Do they take oestrogen on an artificial cycle with progesterone or something? Or am I basically affording way too much time and thinking to something which makes zero sense in the first place and should just ignore it altogether? 🤨

Even if there is some element of truth in "sore breasts and dreadful moodswings" I'm still going to be angry anyway, I guess. That's not a period. That's sore boobs and a moodswing.

Help me o wise ones.

Trans women and periods
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JessicaWakefieldSVH · 08/03/2019 20:52

MhairiV that is so funny! Brilliance

JessicaWakefieldSVH · 08/03/2019 20:49

TurboTeddy hormone hell runs in my family! My mum had awful periods her whole life, I mean real bad, she somehow just kept going. I honestly don’t know how. She was a farmer, then looked after her elderly mother and 4 kids by herself. I can’t imagine. She had a hysterectomy in her early 40’s and says after that life got much better. I don’t want to have to do that, I think I’m coping ok, but I have hypothyroidism and tricky adrenals too. The pain I manage ok, if I take bladderwhack regularly it reduces that, as does exercise- when I’m not profusely bleeding! I’m extremely fortunate that I can do a bit of work I need to from home, and my DH works & takes care of me a lot. But I can’t believe the attitudes from medical professionals. It’s been so awful I get anxiety and shakes if I have to go to the doctor now, I usually avoid it if I can. Gosh, I shouldn’t really complain about my c** privilege huh Confused I just find this whole sick yearning to experience and fake menstruation, like it’s a fad or lifestyle, to be utterly insulting.

PreseaCombatir · 08/03/2019 20:44

MhairiV
Oh my god, that’s amazing! 😂

PreseaCombatir · 08/03/2019 20:43

My mum had a hysterectomy.
She had not yet been through the menopause.
She still had the same hormones. But, can you guess what happened to her periods?
They stopped. I know. Amazing!

MhairiV · 08/03/2019 20:37

Oh wait. This. This is...well, just go see. And have your sound on. 😄

twitter.com/tranimegirl/status/1050455491531264000?s=21

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MhairiV · 08/03/2019 20:35

The point about misinformation (and plain lies, I suppose) causing problems for young people who think they're trans seems really valid. I always thought of it as transwomen mostly performing what they believe to be feminine gender roles but makes sense if it's also about performing what they understand to be trans roles too. I can't accept that this much delusion is healthy.

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PreseaCombatir · 08/03/2019 20:33

‘hormones are what causes a period’

Yes, the hormones have an effect on your uterus.
You dont have a uterus.

Idiots 🤦‍♀️

Scatobrain · 08/03/2019 20:29

There’s a fine line between a beer belly and a phantom pregnancy.

AssassinatedBeauty · 08/03/2019 20:27

These fools know less than nothing about female reproductive biology. No womb, no ovaries, no Fallopian tubes, no vagina, no hormone cycle. Nothing about what they may or may not be experiencing is any kind of period.

It's embarrassing sad appropriation. And I really do believe that in a lot of cases it's fetishistic.

TurboTeddy · 08/03/2019 20:26

It was many years ago when I was easily intimidated by the medical profession, I'm sure they would find me easier to deal with if I was still.
I could write a book about the rubbish that's been said to me along the way and I'm quite sure I'm not alone.
Jessica I do hope things ease up for you soon so you can get back to having a life.
I'm assuming you were referring to gender neutral total bastards 😁 cos yes they really are sometimes.

JessicaWakefieldSVH · 08/03/2019 19:58

My favourite dismissal was "everyone who reads the daily mail thinks they have endometriosis"

Are you serious? You should complain. That is fucking outrageous. Total bastards.

Ereshkigal · 08/03/2019 19:44

think ‘transwo men’ could catch on...

Seen that before Grin also happy with putting a space in "trans misogyny" as it's clear that "trans" is an adjective, and suggests the direction the misogyny is coming from.

Katvonfelttipeyebrows · 08/03/2019 19:41

betty Grin

Honestly though. I have the coil, I'm a person with a womb (you might remember when that was a woman) but I don't have periods. And the really funny thing is because I don't have womb lining to shed, I don't have any symptoms. Nothing. Nadda.

Crazy people

OVAgroundWOMBlingfree · 08/03/2019 19:34

mobile.twitter.com/viviwizardshark/status/1104042069964873728

PiebaldHamster · 08/03/2019 19:18

Y chromosome = male
XX (or X0) = female

Blokes do not have periods. The end.

TurboTeddy · 08/03/2019 19:16

Jessica they are falling over themselves to give me whatever I want now. It's piss poor compensation for the years of suffering but I dictated another gyn referral letter for my GP 😀 (and he let me!) a few weeks ago and have another appt in April. This time I will be asking why they haven't mentioned uterine artery embolization as a treatment option. My favourite dismissal was "everyone who reads the daily mail thinks they have endometriosis", so offended at being taken for a DM reader 😁.

I can recommend a tens machine though, not brilliant but does give some relief.

EcclesThePeacock · 08/03/2019 19:11

They 'get everything else'? Confused they don't have a clue about dysmenorrhea, do they? It's simply not something you can imagine if you've never had a womb, in the same way that women have no idea what being kicked in the balls feels like.

NeurotrashWarrior · 08/03/2019 19:09

I have the most innocuous cycle and have never had bloating or cramps (sorry) and have always fallen pregnant easily when I want to so it's a pile of bullshit.

I notice when I'm ovulating; I get a bit hot (in many ways) but that's the progesterone,

The pill made me put on weight and made me need more thyroxine and made me quite loony.

It's just synthetic hormones. Fucking up your systems.

Lymphy · 08/03/2019 19:03

This really pisses me off! They don’t have periods nor a frigging cycle. I dish out synthetic hormones in the form of contraception every sodding day, funny how they cease menstruation for the vast majority of women 😡. I suspect I’ve just peaked.

Cyborgseadog · 08/03/2019 18:59

On my period atm, and this gives me the rage!

Those cockwombles are appropriating something they have no chance in hell of experiencing. Ever.

I had one of my ovaries (plus the corresponding fallopian tube) removed a few months ago, because a cyst the size of a FIFA ball developed in/on it, and completely obliterated it. Because of my monthly cycle. I looked 7 months pregnant.

Try and fetishise that.

JessicaWakefieldSVH · 08/03/2019 18:50

I mean, this person is just stupid. This isn’t complicated. You don’t just take hormones and experience menstruation without the blood you foolish fetishist. Their ignorance is an embarrassment.

JessicaWakefieldSVH · 08/03/2019 18:48

TurboTeddy I am so sorry for what you’ve experienced. I find it too upsetting to even repeat some of the things my doctor has said to me when I’ve asked for help, tests etc I really feel for you having to rely on such a heavy painkiller.

MillytantForceit · 08/03/2019 18:34

Trans WUMming.

viques · 08/03/2019 18:32

I will believe in transwo men (Thankyou for my new word) menstruation when I see that the Sanpro aisles in tescos and boots have shelves of scented penis pads (in three absorbencies of course) alongside nicely decorated boxes of arse tampons.

Until then I shall simply judge, smirk and raise my eyebrows.

10IAR · 08/03/2019 18:31

NO THEY FUCKING DON'T.

That feels better.

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