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Boy, 12, raped six-year-old sister ‘to recreate Grand Theft Auto scene’, court told

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OtepotiLilliane42 · 28/02/2019 07:47

This is horrific, and I found it hard to read, especially the part where "the boy’s mother told the court he was “doing really well” and hoped her family could one day reconcile.

“We just want to make things right and do what's best for the safety of the children,” she added.

“My daughter used to be very sad about it all because she worried this was her fault, but she’s come on leaps and bounds, she’s a very strong girl and there’s not an ounce of sadness in her now, I’m so proud of her.” (My emphasis).

Pertinent questions for me are why this boy was permitted to play an R18 game unsupervised, and why his sister could not tell her parents what was going on, but felt that what was happening to was her fault! At age 6!

And shouldn't a 12 year old know, without being told, that what he did
to his sister was dreadfully wrong? At least it seems as if the boy and his sister are getting the therapy they both need, but it's a story that makes one despair at how even young girls will feel responsible for male behaviour.

www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/crime/rape-boy-sister-gta-sex-scene-swindon-court-a8799261.html

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GerryblewuptheER · 28/02/2019 08:10

I do think that if a child is so influenced by something that is clearly fake like a game or a TV show then that is a massive problem.also.

I used to read horror stories as a child and sneakily watch horror films . I did not attempt to slash people with knives or chainsaws.

Something besides a computer game went very wrong here.

Poor girl

Knicknackpaddyflak · 28/02/2019 08:09

There's 'not an ounce of sadness in her now'.

Bloody hell. Like the girl left with 'no lasting harm' stamped on her by a judge as he dismissed all charges against her male abuser. Her teens, her own sexual development are inevitably going to be seriously affected, until this female is around her thirties she won't be able to say with any real knowledge whether she just walked away from it or if it messed up her life.

And the establishment stand around going ooh I wonder why girls in fast numbers are desperate not to have to grow up female in our society?

Sunhill4 · 28/02/2019 08:09

There are age restrictions on games, dvds etc for a reason!!!

RockyFlintstone · 28/02/2019 08:09

My brother has always played GTA and watched porn from an early age, as have I, and he has not gone and raped me or anyone else.

What? What do you mean 'an early age'?

MamaDane · 28/02/2019 08:05

My brother has always played GTA and watched porn from an early age, as have I, and he has not gone and raped me or anyone else.

Honestly, I'd say there's an issue in the family or with the boy, because just like seeing someone kill on TV doesn't make people kill. It just gives inspiration to those who already contemplate it.

I'd take a long hard look at the family and the boy, not external factors. There's a chance the boy has been abused himself.

VikingVolva · 28/02/2019 07:59

I'm uneasy about this, because much as I deplore many aspects of GTA, it is actually possible to play it without any of the sexual content. And although court was told that the acts were related to GTA they have not actually (as the article decided was worth noting) tasted which scenario they actually mean.

Unsupervised playing of GTA (especially if modded to enable I have if the sexual violence content) is of course a deeply worrying issue, and I suspect other inappropriate context was readily available in the family home too. And I think that's the source of my unease - demonising the game (and using that one element of the trial for the headline) is a distraction.

I think the real issue is what was going on in that family and why. Inappropriate screen time choices may well be only a tip of the iceberg symptom (I echo the point above of the 6yo not having an adult to rely on)

Sarahjconnor · 28/02/2019 07:56

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InsomniaTho · 28/02/2019 07:50

Also says he’d been watching porn... The mind boggles.

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