Miley Cyrus is heterosexual

I am not into reading about so called "slebs", but when I see rubbish like that, I just think what a narcissistic twonk

Although... i have to admit. I don't really understand what queer means? Is it anyone who isn't heterosexual??

From what I can ascertain, it’s anyone who doesn’t have sex once a year in the missionary position with the lights off.

I think she is free to label herself and her sexuality any way she wants, as we all are, but it's a step too far to say that she is 'redefining' heterosexual marriage in having had relationships with both men and women.

Human sexuality has always been fluid, sometimes of necessity. In our homophobic past, it was very difficult for LGB people to openly live in a way that matched with their sexuality so it was common enough for people who would nowadays be openly gay to live in a straight marriage for the purposes of 'respectability'.

I'm a boring old heterosexual so what would I know but if I were gay, I would be mighty pissed off at any blue-haired 20-something with notions about how edgy they are appropriating the term 'queer' to pretend they are interesting based on a one-month fling they had in college with someone of the same sex. Kind of insulting.

You know, I'm quite gutted about the blue hair thing. I quite fancied a lovely royal blue myself.

I did once nearly have my eyebrow pierced but I bottled it after my friend told me scary stories about catching nerves and paralyzing your face so that you looked permanently surprised. I wanted to be a bit wild, not look like post extensive surgery Barry Manilow, so I passed.

Agreed Floral.

But I must take issue. Not all queers have blue hair. Some of them do have pierced tongues. So yanno, maybe you should educate yourself, hmmm?

I really don't like the 'reclaiming' of queer by a generation that by and large knows fuck all about how horrible it is to have it spat at you in hatred, and then grabs it greedily like a handful of sweeties and defines it as all the funky trendy blue hairs being edgy and emotionally spiritual.

I suppose all labels are about the context in which they are used. "I am pansexual" on a tinder profile - totally appropriate. "I am pansexual" said in a loud voice to wee Jean on her way to the Bingo on the Number 23 bus- virtue signalling.

I take your point @RhymingRabbit but I still find the “pan” label more about virtue signalling than anything else.

I dunno really
Shag who you want just don’t make up,fancy names for it

I know what your saying @Haworthia .. but by that logic no one has any sexuality until they have sex?

Although... i have to admit. I don't really understand what queer means? Is it anyone who isn't heterosexual??

I wonder if there’s anyone born before 1990 who defines as “pansexual”. I also wonder whether there’s anyone who defines as “pansexual” who can actually say they’ve had sex with a men and women, trans or not. Because it all seems rather... theoretical to me.

No no, I’m not bi, I’m pan. Well I haven’t slept with a trans person, but I really need you all to know that I definitely would because I’m so woke”.

@Luggsays 🤣

As a bisexual woman married to a man I'm nothing more than that really. I'm not "queer" or redefining anything!

In short DH I think gets a pervy kick off my old sex stories with ex partners who are women and probably. ecretly fantasises about them, but would never tell me that. He probably has burried in the back of his brain somewhere some wild fantasy that were going to go dogging or suddenly become swingers or something, but again wouldn't dare bring it up because he knows the response he'd get. 😂

I always just preferred dating men in the long term, and personally often found women too difficult to date. I'd mainly just used to shag them or have short flings with women, that's about it really?! Hardly radical!!

I know hetero serial monogamist women who call themselves "queer" without irony.

Tbf though, the fastest way to stop all this nonsense would be if all us middle aged heterosexual women stared to call ourselves queer etc. Nothing cools the proverbial quivering loins of the Special Brigade than your mum joining in.

I think it's right to be on the FWR board.
We need woke twattery from the likes of Miley to cheer us up from all the heavy shit.

I'm not sure I could cope with having the delectable Chris Hemsworth as my BiL....

I know hetero serial monogamist women who call themselves "queer" without irony.

I do too. I cringe for them and literally have Katy Perry’s ‘I Kissed A Girl’ going though my head..

Oops xpost.

Took me too long to look up the figures.

It’s amazing how many bi/pan sexual individuals end up in straight relationships. Hugely more than 50%. All the “bisexual” women I knew from my youth ended up married to men

Yes, but that’s simple probability isn’t it. The U.K. population is around 6% gay/bi. There is simply a hell of a lot more available straight men than gay women. Even without other social pressures I was always more likely to settle with a male thn a female. Despite the fact that I have no preference for male over female partners.

That Guardian article!! I can't believe it's not from The Onion. It reads like pure satire. But then I remember I know hetero serial monogamist women who call themselves "queer" without irony. Oh how I miss the old Guardian. And the old reality 😣

@HermioneWeasley it really shouldn’t be surprising, from a statistical standpoint. There are far more straight men in the world than there are queer women, therefore if you’re into both it’s more likely that you’ll end up with a straight man.

I always found her to be a bit too desperate.

She's making a comeback. She is just trying to appeal to everyone.