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And then they came for the heterosexual men

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EweSurname · 15/02/2019 04:40

I Asked My Crushes Why They Won't Sleep with Me

When a straight guy says he is not into me, nor other trans women, I feel butthurt–emotionally and, unfortunately, not physically.

broadly.vice.com/en_us/article/3kgvab/transgender-sex-chasers-cisgender-men

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Njordsgrrrl · 15/02/2019 07:11

I liked the article below as well. They feel that porn misrepresents them. Aww. Ya think? You and half the human race luv.

Rogueaccountant · 15/02/2019 07:07

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Mummyoflittledragon · 15/02/2019 05:45

These trans women think they have created the perfect woman. Because that’s what their male gaze deems them to be. Basically they’ve kind of split off and have a male and female persona. The male persona idolises the female and believe all straight men or lesbians should also believe they have created a perfect woman.

When lesbians and straight men don’t, it is seen as the ultimate rejection and they cannot cope with the cognitive dissonance that they’re not actually seen as a woman by the wider public. After all they’re just perfect women. Rather than admit they’re wrong they make it the fault of the lesbians and straight men.

The reason they desire lesbians and men only formerly attracted to natal women is because to bed these people is confirmation they have made it as a woman. Anything else is too difficult to bear.

On rejection they become very angry as the male persona is defending their woman. This transwoman seems more in touch with their feminine side and is perhaps more wounded more than angry. It doesn’t make their behaviour any more appropriate though.

I cannot imagine as a natal woman begging a man to fuck me in this way, can you?? It’s gross. Bless. 🤮

disneyspendingmoney · 15/02/2019 05:04

I've just read the vice opinion piece and I think I gave a better understanding as I have taken a stance/opinion on this issue at all

donajimena you are absolutely right, the authors self centered "me me me" entitlement with a side order of "It's not fair" was too much for me. If this is stereotypical, then I'm saddened and now do understand the stance often taken here about this issue.

OP thank you for finding and posting that article, for me personally, it's been very informative

DryHeave · 15/02/2019 04:59

What is a “punchable smile”?

donajimena · 15/02/2019 04:48

Oh FFS. The entitlement is staggering.

EweSurname · 15/02/2019 04:45

Although the entitlement is breathtaking, the conclusions drawn aren’t actually too unreasonable. It’s far more generous to the men than others have been towards lesbians (although it goes without saying that no one has to justify their sexuality, which makes the whole premise of this article awful)

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EweSurname · 15/02/2019 04:41

broadly.vice.com/en_us/article/3kgvab/transgender-sex-chasers-cisgender-men

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