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Have you ever thought maybe you are misunderstandign the 'ideology' (ie being trans)?

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Terrycotta · 13/02/2019 09:27

Some of you who aren't total haters come across as sheep who are yourselves repressed trans individuals worried about coming out and being liberated.

You say you don't conform to Gendered stereotypes but you are also afraid to discard them and truly be free of 'sex' altogether, it makes no sense.
It's funny and confusing to see you go around in circles with your wrong and confusing logic, "I'm a woman but i don't like pink and have short hair", sorry to break it to you but this isn't the words of a woman, you are a repressed transgender person, you are a man!

Woman wouldn't say half the stuff that is said here, look at yourselves, most, if not all of you are probably male brained.

It's nothing to be scared of, you are special and brave to admit it rather than constantly assume it's bad and to try.

Ask yourselves this, would actual women plot the destruction of a small minority group like you people are?

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Terrycotta · 13/02/2019 09:49

What makes no sense is that you're equating sex and gender. They are not the same thing.

Sex is not important anymore, humans are evolving beyond the need for things to be classed by sex.

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NotBadConsidering · 13/02/2019 09:49

Hi JaxintheBlue 👋!

CuriousaboutSamphire · 13/02/2019 09:48

Well, it's all a bit garbled, but I'll give it a go!

Some of you who aren't total haters come across as sheep who are yourselves repressed trans individuals worried about coming out and being liberated. So those who don't flat out hate trans people ar sheep? OK! As a GC woman I am a reprseed transman? OK, how do you plan on freeing me from my repression?

You say you don't conform to Gendered stereotypes but you are also afraid to discard them and truly be free of 'sex' altogether, it makes no sense. I don't conform, trousers, short hair, no make up today! I can't be free of my sex, it is literally (in the true sense of that word) written into every atom of my being!

It's funny and confusing to see you go around in circles with your wrong and confusing logic, Syas someone who wrote this confuddled OP

"I'm a woman but i don't like pink and have short hair", sorry to break it to you but this isn't the words of a woman, you are a repressed transgender person, you are a man! Ah! You got me, I did indeed just type that! Again I ask you, how do you intend to free me frm my repressor?

Woman wouldn't say half the stuff that is said here, look at yourselves, most, if not all of you are probably male brained. Oooh! Can I ask my boss for a raise, demand he ignores my tits and cunt? Oh! is HE my opressor?

It's nothing to be scared of, you are special and brave to admit it rather than constantly assume it's bad and to try. If it ain't bad and scary why are so many transwomen tryng so hard to avoid being a man?

Ask yourselves this, would actual women plot the destruction of a small minority group like you people are? Wha? You lost me there... Destruction = obliteration, dismantling. You know, like TRAs are doning with words like Lesbian and Woman. Not sure who/what it is that 'us people' have destroyed. Given that some of us are transmen and women that would be a bit self destructive.

As an 'actual woman' I have given it my best shot. As an actual whatever could yu try an hinest discussion? A proper discourse that incudes you listening as well as proselytising!

Lysistrataknowsherstuff · 13/02/2019 09:47

You do realise that not so long ago (60s/70s/80s) there wasn't this massive influx of pink in a "girls'" section? There were just children's clothes. I had my brother's hand me downs, nothing unusual about that. He had a pink tea-set that he chose, nothing unusual about that. A bit further back little boys were all wearing dresses and had long hair: doesn't mean that my dad was actually trans.

But, just for you, I'll let my mum know that she's actually married to a woman, I'm sure SIL will be surprised to learn that she's been married to a woman all these years, and DH will be shocked to find out that he's actually gay as he's married to a trans man 🤷‍♀️

Terrycotta · 13/02/2019 09:47

Op doesn't understand what men and women are

My understanding seems to be above yours, if you think it's just a binary choice.

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Terrycotta · 13/02/2019 09:46

If you are actually an advocate for trans rights you have massively shot yourself in the foot. So gender identity really does just come down to pink and sparkles?

No it's how you feel about yourself inside who you connect with on an inner level. you don't fit in with girls and women, you are more drawn to male appearance, deep down you must realize this.

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littlbrowndog · 13/02/2019 09:46

It’s half term in Scotland

UtterlyUnimaginativeUsername · 13/02/2019 09:45

You say you don't conform to Gendered stereotypes but you are also afraid to discard them and truly be free of 'sex' altogether, it makes no sense.
What makes no sense is that you're equating sex and gender. They are not the same thing.

Debaser12 · 13/02/2019 09:43

Op doesn't understand what men and women are

CallMeWoman · 13/02/2019 09:43

Poor effort.

You really ought to ask around for feedback from your mates before attempting to pass such drivel as rigorous thought.

But I'm thinking you already did? 🤔

BlooperReel · 13/02/2019 09:42

Nil pois.

Thestral · 13/02/2019 09:42

Posting purely to see what the deletion message says...

Tolleshunt · 13/02/2019 09:42

This is hilarious!

Lifeinthelastlane · 13/02/2019 09:42

If you are actually an advocate for trans rights you have massively shot yourself in the foot. So gender identity really does just come down to pink and sparkles?

ignatiusjreilly · 13/02/2019 09:42

Thank you, OP, we didn't realise! It all makes perfect sense now. We've been men all along.

I'm so excited that I'll finally be thought of as special and brave, instead of invisible as a middle-aged woman.

DeathBySnuSnu · 13/02/2019 09:40

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Datun · 13/02/2019 09:40

You say you don't conform to Gendered stereotypes but you are also afraid to discard them and truly be free of 'sex' altogether, it makes no sense

Indeed it doesn't.

titchy · 13/02/2019 09:40

Very droll OP...

StrangeLookingParasite · 13/02/2019 09:39

It's been proven time and time again that girls and women, even as babies are drawn towards these things

No, it definitely hasn't.

YippeeKayakOtherBuckets · 13/02/2019 09:39

Ah. I get it now. As you were.

StrangeLookingParasite · 13/02/2019 09:39

Woman wouldn't say half the stuff that is said here

Why are your gender roles so rigid (and I think you mean women, plural, not woman, singular)?

MagicMix · 13/02/2019 09:38

Hahahaha. Good one.

Terrycotta · 13/02/2019 09:38

I definitely don’t do pink and sparkles and I do have short hair

It's been proven time and time again that girls and women, even as babies are drawn towards these things, how can you feel you belong to a group when you aren't?

Are you honestly saying that even though you have more in common with men you still think you are a woman?

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CatandtheFiddle · 13/02/2019 09:38

sorry to break it to you but this isn't the words of a woman, you are a repressed transgender person, you are a man!

Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha

Is it half-term already?

Sheelala · 13/02/2019 09:37

you are a man

Shock Better tell my husband he's homosexual, news to him I bet. Could anyone help me word that ?

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