One bit that I noticed was this:
We also accept exemptions where in things such as refuges, shortlists and sports one on one assessment is made and we can be excluded.
I think that's a recognition that there are places and situations where they shouldn't be. Wasn't there a transwoman athlete who said they accepted that one price they paid was self-excluding themself from women's competitions?
In my mind, that's the difference. I could respect any transwoman who respected women, and women's needs for safe spaces. That's most probably how it's worked in the past. I don't know if I've ever met a transwoman in the past; possibly, but that would most likely have been a transwoman who wasn't the kind of bully that we're now seeing.
I don't blame those transwomen for not speaking up in the current situation. We are "terfs" but there's thousands of us terfy women. They, on the other hand, are "traitors" and there's not so many of them.