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I am brave and stunning.

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JellySlice · 01/02/2019 17:38

I am a woman.

Sometimes I'm soft and pliant, sometimes I'm assertive, sometimes I'm aggressive.

Sometimes I wear men's clothes.
Sometimes I yank on the Spanx and shimmy in a wiggle dress.

I don't shave my legs. Sometimes I trim my pits. Makeup? Excuse me while I cross my legs and laugh.

I've squeezed a few awesome human beings out of my body. I bear the scars and lifelong consequences of doing so with a mixture of pride, acceptance and distress.

I reclaim 'brave and stunning'.

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JellySlice · 01/02/2019 20:05

Yes, manicmagpie is definitely brave and stunning. Braver than me and more stunning.

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JellySlice · 01/02/2019 20:04

I am brave because I survive in a misogynistic world, where I try not to allow patriarchal stereotypes to dictate how I behave. I am brave because I do my best to support other women to do this, too. I am brave because I do my best to bring up my children, girls and boys, to do likewise.

I am stunning because I am beautiful as a woman without wedging myself into society's dictates of how I should distort my looks to fit a stereotype.

I am brave and stunning because I am doing this without expecting anyone to reward me or admire me for it.

I am brave and stunning because I'm just a nobody, doing what I can like every other bugger for the last few millennia.

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GoulashSoup · 01/02/2019 19:52

Brave and stunning just makes me think of the magnificent @manicmagpie

Good luck tomorrow you awesome WOMAN from a lurker.

I am brave and stunning.
BigGoat · 01/02/2019 19:26

Darn. How much does an ad campaign cost?

I LOVE the idea of reclaiming brave and stunning. Our teenage daughters clearly need us to.

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WhoWants2Know · 01/02/2019 18:14

I'm neither brave, nor stunning. I'm just a nobody, doing what I can like every other bugger for the last few millennia.

MarshaBradyo · 01/02/2019 18:07

Ok
What is the point behind this post?

Bowlofbabelfish · 01/02/2019 18:04

Brave and stunning always makes me think of those researchers who drop out of helicopters to tranq dart polar bears...Grin

Brave? Check.
Stunning? Literally Grin

terryleather · 01/02/2019 17:48

I don't know about the brave bit, but I'm most certainly stunning what with the two tissues stuck up my nose to stop me drowning in mucus from my head cold...

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