I have been in a situation like Posie, Venice & others were in, when suddenly you get shocked and attacked by someone you thought was a friend and done in a way to cause the most damage. It’s really deeply hurtful. I found the timing of and contents of Jeans post very disappointing. I disagreed with her take on the situation and once I saw posts and videos I was even more disappointed. That didn’t however, stop me from donating that week, because the work Jean does is still valid and worthwhile- and extremely important to those of us affected by DV. That’s how I know of Jean, through her amazing rides.
Infighting does happen and it’s not unique to feminists. It is counter-productive and a time-waster though. I’m tired of the left v right nonsense, it’s so moronic and stupid to divide people into political camps like that. I personally think it’s unintelligent. I kind of got a vibe from one of the comments here that we should be listening more to academic feminists... I don’t care if you have a degree or not, if you’re a professor or a waste collector. I’m listening to what you say, equally. Some of these academics just don’t sound too clever right now.