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Egard Watches Respond to Gillette Advert

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Iambackbamc · 22/01/2019 19:55

So it’s the story that never ends. The Gillette Ad. A watch company that I had never heard of have responded to the Gillette advert with their own ‘what is a man’ advert. It seems to have gone viral too with over 2 million views and mentions in the press. Be keen to hear people’s thoughts. I think it will go down well and boost their sales. m.youtube.com/watch?v=x_HL0wiK4Zc

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tellmewhenthespaceshiplands · 24/01/2019 12:05

Marguerita thanks for that link. Pretty powerful stuff, it made me feel a bit teary at the end to hear a man say all that.

Mide with respect I think you need to rewatch them the difference is quite clear.

MargueritaPink · 23/01/2019 23:48

A lot of the issues in this ad are related to the theme of the Gillette

The striking difference is the Gillette advert recognised most violence is caused by men. The answer to solving most violence is for men to stop being violent.

In the other advert it emphasised that more men than women are victims of violence. I don't doubt that's true but it ignores the fact the vast majority of the perpetrators of violence against men are men.


Mide7 · 23/01/2019 22:40

I don’t see the problem if I’m honest. In fact it feels to me just like a continuation of the Gillette ad. A lot of the issues in this ad are related to the theme of the Gillette.

MargueritaPink · 23/01/2019 22:28

Well this man isn't afraid to recognise the problem.

noblegiraffe · 23/01/2019 22:01

Well, a very small % of women get murdered

And one in five women are the victims of a sexual offence. And pretty much all of them have been on the receiving end of the sort of behaviour referenced in the Gillette ad.

But yeah, assault on character is way worse.

NottonightJosepheen · 23/01/2019 21:41

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picklemepopcorn · 23/01/2019 21:39

Lots of the issues raised in that ad are within the man's control or influence.

Oxytocindeficient · 23/01/2019 21:38

NewYearNewName111

Are you fucking kidding? Men have it worse because they have to listen to an ‘assault on their character’. Only a few women get murdered? What about those assaulted abused harassed and raped? Oops no, that’s nothing compared to having to hear about how bad the rapists are.

Ffs would the MRA’s just leave us alone

NewYearNewName111 · 23/01/2019 21:36

Not downplaying the issue (my previous post want intended as blunt as it sounded).

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Oxytocindeficient · 23/01/2019 21:17

But we really should stop calling out bad behaviour because it’s just boring/depressing now? Is that the message from this?

That is pretty much what the maker of the ad actually said ( I linked his egotistical statement earlier )

Oxytocindeficient · 23/01/2019 21:16

People always say this but I don't understand how it's relevant to the victim.

In order to tackle an issue, you have to know the cause. You have to identify it. The point of the Gillette ad was to confront men’s behaviours and enabling of violence conducted by other men around them. It, as far as I can recall, was focused on the behaviour of the perpetrators. Not the identity of the victims. I would of thought that was a positive thing, to address the problem. To respond with an ad that focussed on men as victims, is to diminish responsibility. The maker of the ad said as much. He wants to focus on good things men do, since speaking about the bad stuff makes him feel bad ☹️

noblegiraffe · 23/01/2019 21:15

I don’t get this whole ‘men are fed up with this endless war on men’ narrative. Apparently the worst thing about the metoo movement was that it made men feel bad about themselves Hmm

Women are fed up that they are being murdered, raped, assaulted or just generally objectified. But we really should stop calling out bad behaviour because it’s just boring/depressing now? Is that the message from this?

Oxytocindeficient · 23/01/2019 21:12

NewYearNewName111

There was an interesting discussion the other day re suicide stats. Women suffer more depression and anxiety and make more attempts at suicide than men. Some theories on why the attempts are unsuccessful exist but not studied, theories include that women choose less violent methods.

SonicVersusGynaephobia · 23/01/2019 20:35

People always say this but I don't understand how it's relevant to the victim.

How is it not relevant to the victims if the perpetrators of an epidemic of the most violent crimes are, 98% of the time, Men? How do we address it if we can't name the problem? It would be pointless to target half of the funding for tackling it at women, when it's all men doing it, wouldn't it. As that would mean more victims of both sexes.

tellmewhenthespaceshiplands · 23/01/2019 20:05

It's of huge relevance to me that there are a fair few men about who would wish harm on me or my daughter or DH. I think if one sex makes up such a significant number of perpetrators they need to step up and address that.

tellmewhenthespaceshiplands · 23/01/2019 20:02

Forgot to say at least he's "owned it" as the kids might say, and put his name and face to it.

NewYearNewName111 · 23/01/2019 20:02

97% of homicide victims are men. Going to bet that a HUGE % of the perpetrators are other men.

People always say this but I don't understand how it's relevant to the victim. Imagine the outrage if women were the main victims (we already hear more about the 'two women a week' than about the eight men murdered or the 80 who commit suicide).

tellmewhenthespaceshiplands · 23/01/2019 19:41

Just very very depressing. I can't actually remember the first ad using the phrase "toxic masculinity " however I'll admit the backlash has mightily pissed me off so I may have developed blinkers Wink No one can deny though that some aspects of masculinity are toxic and responsible for harming women and men.

When people like this man become known to me for actually calling this out and making a bloody difference and women and men become safer as s result I will happily sit down and listen to what he has to say. Until then jog on fella.

Oxytocindeficient · 23/01/2019 19:10

Response to my complaint via email

Ilan has been vocal about these issues for years on a personal level. He has also supported many women's issues.

His mother escaped Bahgdad Iraq as a young lady. He has been very vocal on world affairs and treatment of women internationally.

Thank you for your response.

Have a wonderful day

Oxytocindeficient · 23/01/2019 19:00

www.westernjournal.com/ceo-risked-everything-stand-gillettes-ad/

He’s apparently done with making men accountable for their actions...

Oxytocindeficient · 23/01/2019 18:42

Wankers. They’re making a ton of money out of this, as they knew they would. Is it really surprising that people are responding like this to the minimisation of Male violence? That’s what responding to Gillette like this is actually doing.

Honestly, the world is shit for women.

sillage · 23/01/2019 18:26

People still buy watches?

newtlover · 23/01/2019 18:16

they lost me at visitation rights- they showed their true colours there
suicide, dangerous working conditions, mental health- yes all valid issues of concern for men
but men are never denied 'visitation rights' for no reason