DH logged onto twitter the other day and saw a random tweet about something completely unconnected to trans issues by Hadley
He then saw the replies and was utterly shocked about how she was being attacked and 'bullied' (his word) by TRA trolls. He's not taken what I'd said seriously about how militant they were and he was stunned to just bump into it on his own.
He's more relaxed about the subject than me, but his response to the attacks on Hadley were to be sympathetic to her and be really very angry and annoyed with the attacks.
He could not understand why she had merited such comments for what he saw as no reason at all.
Oh and he liked the article Hadley had written and thought she was smart and interesting to read.
So if you do read this Hadley, thats whats coming across to others who aren't in the midst of this crap.