It is important to recognise that in this case, Alison Goulding was told by her surgeon that the reconstructive surgery was a possible option and the importance knowing this played as she dealt with the gruelling cancer treatments:
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"The only alternative option was a DIEP Flap reconstruction, which involves taking muscle, fat and skin from the abdomen and using it to form a new breast. This, Alison’s surgeon explained would be a much bigger operation, with a longer recovery period, but would be less risky and greatly reduce the risk of her needing further surgery.
Reassured, the shop-worker from Essex underwent her mastectomy in May 2018. “I remember looking down and seeing a dip where my left breast used to be. I felt sad but kept reminding myself of the bigger picture, and that I wouldn’t always look that way.”
Chemotherapy hell
Four weeks later Alison began chemotherapy – which she describes as the worst experience of her life. “I’m quite a strong person and usually just get on with things,” she said. “But this was just awful. It was like death, that’s the only way I can describe it. “I had six sessions of chemotherapy every three weeks, and it really took its toll on me. I was in bed for four days straight each time and couldn’t do anything. “My daughters and friends were wonderful and helped with the cleaning, cooking and brought me cups of tea and kept me company. I don’t know what I’d have done without them.”
During her treatment, Alison also developed an agonising deep vein thrombosis and blood clots in her arm and jugular vein. Her husband, Roy, had to give her injections in her stomach every day for three months to break the clots down. And despite wearing a special cap during chemotherapy, her hair fell out too. “It came out in clumps in August and, while I didn’t think it would bother me that much, it did. It’s hard losing your hair as a woman. It feels like losing a bit of your femininity.”
Next came a three-week course of radiotherapy, after which Alison was ready for reconstructive surgery. “I couldn’t wait to have it,” she said. “I’d had to wear a prosthetic breast in my bra which was so uncomfortable and didn’t look good. After going through so much I just wanted to feel and look normal again.” (continues)