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Drag queens pose in bond age gear for calendar in aid of Mermaids

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JoanSummers · 14/01/2019 01:13

I'm not sure if this has been posted?

"A local drag community in Newcastle have come together in style to create a one-of-a-kind 2019 calendar, with all proceeds going to charity to support transgender children and young people across the UK."

The February and March photos are attached.

www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-6577301/Drag-queens-pose-glamorous-calendar.html

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JoanSummers · 16/01/2019 18:59

It's bringing the sex factor back in, basically. Use kids to make people/institutions to believe it's all non-threatening and safe, then throw the doors open to the men who get off on making their fetishes public.

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EJennings · 16/01/2019 18:58

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JoanSummers · 16/01/2019 18:54

An earlier poster said something about drag being used as a wedge to make visible male fetishism more socially acceptable? Something like that?

I see Mermaids as doing exactly this. I dont believe the funding and other support they recieve and the influence they have is in proportion to the families they allegedly support. 'Trans kids' are used as a wedge to take the sex out of the public's perception of male transitioners, a plan openly stated since at least 2010, as seen in this interview with TRA Autumn Sandeen:

Miranda Yardley wrote about this here:
mirandayardley.com/en/suffer-the-children-how-children-became-the-collateral-damage-of-transgender-ideology/

In this light, this calendar incident looks like the (currently) successful wedge of trans kids (via Mermaids) being used in turn as a wedge to make a more obviously sexualised group (the men in drag fetish wear) seem more everyday/normal/wherever.

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FloralBunting · 16/01/2019 18:35

EJennings, no, it's not. I didn't suggest it was, and I don't disagree that there is a fuckton of misogyny in drag. That's my position personally.

I was attempting to answer the question you posed about if another view in defence of drag as not necessarily misogynistic was possible, because I find it useful to approach my own views from different angles.

But given that we're on a thread discussing the odious S. Green's bizarre and inappropriate use of adult gay cross dressing culture to raise cash for her charity dedicated to confusing children and young people, the inevitable backlash against LGB because of it is on topic.

EJennings · 16/01/2019 18:22

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FlyingOink · 16/01/2019 17:43

ChewyLouie that link is really interesting thanks.

JoanSummers · 16/01/2019 17:39

Where is the promotion of tolerance and equality for women in these school visits by drag queens? I only see the opposite.

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ChewyLouie · 16/01/2019 17:26

Flying www.bristolpost.co.uk/news/bristol-news/reading-sessions-children-hosted-drag-117022
In Bristol they were using a drag queen called Miss Beaver. No comment.

JoanSummers · 16/01/2019 17:25

Susie Green should be under investigation from several angles imo. I cannot believe what she has apparently gotten away with. And I can't believe people are censored on the net and questioned by police off it for talking about what she has done when she is a public figure at the head of a children's charity.

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JoanSummers · 16/01/2019 17:23

But I still don't want them to face a right wing backlash because of Susie Green's ego.

No, I can see both of your concerns about this. Likewise a backlash on the L & G from trans overstretching. But I think it's nearly inevitable now, if LGB orgs don't make a public break with the T. And even then, I don't know. I see feminists getting a lot of blame for TRA craziness in comments sections and forums across the Web and feminists have been almost alone in standing up to it for a long time. The backlash will be on women's rights too. I don't know how to escape it because they have colonised our movements all so thoroughly.

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FlyingOink · 16/01/2019 17:19

But I still don't want them to face a right wing backlash because of Susie Green's ego.
Yep, especially as Susie Green won't suffer at all when it happens

FlyingOink · 16/01/2019 17:17

JoanSummers
Fair points. We might be talking about different things here, though.
I mean, a fella in a dress and makeup miming to "I Am What I Am" isn't satirising women in a nasty way. You might find it an offensive caricature and I might not. The more risqué outfits - Katie Price made a living out of dressing like that, and I've never seen a drag act that suggested that's how women should look or do look.
However, you might be right about some of this new stuff. I don't know what kind of drag queen is going into schools and reading to kids. Could be some game-for-a-laugh gay bloke who is a popular entertainer in his local bars, or it could be some scary pervert who wants access to children.
A: I don't know enough about who does it to hazard a guess and B: I don't think drag queens should be reading stories to kids anyway.

FloralBunting · 16/01/2019 17:13

I'm not defending the conflation between trans and drag. Earlier in the thread I pointed out how stupid and contradictory that is, coming from Mermaids.

I'm just trying to head off some of the inevitable homophobic backlash that seems to be building, by pointing out that drag as a gay culture thing isn't automatically associated with every bad thing, and there is a little more nuance to it.

I have these conversations with my eldest kids a lot as they like DragRace, and I spent a lot of time in my youth on the scene and I'm aware of how misogynistic some gay men can be. But I still don't want them to face a right wing backlash because of Susie Green's ego.

JoanSummers · 16/01/2019 17:02

I mean where is the satire in this calendar? I just see men performing fetish.

A big problem also with what you are saying, floral and flyingoink, is that culturally the distinction between drag and transsexual has eroded as transgender has taken hold. Hence people who support trans ideology supporting also drag queens in schools and very young kids being invited to drag performances. And LGBT+ orgs including drag under their acceptance without exception banners even though their purpose originally was to support people with marginalised sexualities.

If politicians, charities, schools etc are not making distinctionss between drag and trans then criticism is even more importance imo.

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JoanSummers · 16/01/2019 16:56

Are you saying that dressing as an offensive caricature of women is a form of male bonding by a group who are often discriminated against by other men? Treating negative stereotypes about women as a comedy costume to make other men laugh, in a nutshell? Even if that is true that doesn't make it less misogynist, or acceptable.

In my experience there are quite a few men who do drag who are also heterosexual. Is it worse when they do it?

Drag also often has 'played' with racialised gender stereotypes. This has lessened as it is seen as more and more unacceptably racist. Why has that become more unacceptable but mocking women is still fair game?

People keep saying it's about a form of gay male culture, but doesn't drag performance have origins in critical satire? It seems to have degenerated into fetish, celebration of consumerist excess, and crass entertainment.

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FlyingOink · 16/01/2019 16:56

Also drag (queens but also kings) is a very knowing and overt way of playing on gender rules, hence why it's a "gay institution".
I don't think drag queens look like actual women, and I don't think they're supposed to. Also there are often in-jokes about the drag queen really being a man.
It's not the same as an AGP insistence on being called a woman, or fetishistic porn sickness etc.
Although as a pp mentioned perhaps there now are drag queens who are exhibitionist transwomen, instead of performing gay men.
I can only go by what I've experienced Confused

FlyingOink · 16/01/2019 16:51

FloralBunting
I share your views on drag, I won't quote the whole post but yes, I see it that way too.

FlyingOink · 16/01/2019 16:48

It then has a line about helping some many people in the LGBTQI+ community but surely if mermaids are dealing with kids that should be the focus rather than the wider community
This is a good point. This is about children rather than about alphabet soup. I don't consider children as LGBTBBQ members, they are children.
Gay kids need to be supported, I was one once, I know there are issues.
But "gay kid" to me means a child who may grow up to be gay. I don't support adults assigning a sexuality to children, ever. The children themselves, they can think of themselves as anything they want to. But we shouldn't reinforce that by giving them alphabet soup "membership".
Sexualities are not for children, kids should enjoy the freedom from sex that childhood offers, and adults looking for personal validation should not compromise that.
I'd have loved to be acknowledged as a fully fledged lesbian when I was 13; I wasn't and I'm fine!
Preventing bullying is worthwhile, maybe the odd youth group. Subsuming children into the alphabet soup is, OTOH, questionable.

FloralBunting · 16/01/2019 16:45

EJennings, I don't disagree, but for sake of rounding out ideas, I might suggest that drag rides on slightly different rails by showing males apeing hyper-sexualized femininity as a means of mocking, not women, but homophobic men.

I don't for a second deny there are misogynistic elements to it, much as there are in the gay male community more widely, but the core target of the joke doesn't seem to be women, but rather men who would scorn homosexuality as deviant and unmanly and then be presented by a fantasy attractive feminine creature that is actually a man.

Now, the fact that these are caricatures and sometimes unpleasant ones is undoubted, but I think women are rather incidental to drag rather than the focus, ironically, although that is fairly misogynistic in itself.

Just rolling some thoughts around.

EJennings · 16/01/2019 16:34

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Theswaggyotter · 16/01/2019 15:00

I just checked the page on calendar with mermaids logo and it’s full of typos ‘gender disphoria’ and ‘proffessional’ 2 obvious ones. You’d think they would at least do a spell check before putting their name to such a tacky calendar. It then has a line about helping some many people in the LGBTQI+ community but surely if mermaids are dealing with kids that should be the focus rather than the wider community (esp the + which is all about sex/ fetish etc and nothing to do with kids who are confused about gender stereotypes.)

JoanSummers · 16/01/2019 14:58

Jeanette doesn't seem like nice people. The rest of the family seem like they're doing their best to keep their heads down and not draw her attention.

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FloralBunting · 16/01/2019 14:56

I get so annoyed with this definition of 'love' though. Not having a pop at you Beer, but while I would agree that there seems to be plenty of affectionate feeling in the family, love as I understand it is always wanting the best for the person loved.
I can't even get close to believing that sterilizing and all the rest because Jazz was a feminine child is the best for Jazz, and I've always thought, that like Susie Green, the decisions taken were bad and in the service of the parent's prejudices, and I don't think that's love at all.

Beerflavourednipples · 16/01/2019 14:47

Oh God poor Jazz's grandad in that clip! He looks like he just wanted to ground to open and swallow him up!

The thing is, Jazz and her family actually seem like nice people and its obvious that they love Jazz very much and are trying to do the best for her. Whether this road is the right one for Jazz I guess time will tell.

The older Jazz gets the more obvious it becomes that Jazz is male. I guess facial feminisation surgery will be next on the cards.

justasking111 · 16/01/2019 14:38

Interesting you cannot comment on the daily mail article. Has pressure been brought to bear, if so, by whom??

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