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Unrealistic age of female actors

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MoltenLasagne · 10/01/2019 09:26

I know this is a petty issue, but lately I've been noticing and becoming increasingly annoyed at the unrealistic age of female actors in films and tv shows.

It's not so much the creepiness of having extremely young love interests for much older men (although obviously that gets repetitive and gross) but there have been a number of times lately where the woman playing the mother is so young compared to her adult children that it makes me question the plot.

The most recent example was in The Last Kingdom, where Eliza Butterworth (25) plays the mother of Aethelfled played by Millie Brady (25). I honestly spent time trying to figure out whether I'd missed some kind of step-mother related plot point.

Is it getting worse, or is it just me? And why on earth do casting / directors do this?! (I think I know the answer to that...)

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TinselAngel · 10/01/2019 12:32

They turned Lagertha's hair white over night in the season break of the current season, but nobody referred to it! And it doesn't make her look any older anyway.

JSmitty · 10/01/2019 12:32

I'd flag up the 2014 film "Lessons In Love" in which Pierce Brosnan (61) is having a mid-life crisis, cheating on his 'young' wife Salma Hayek (48) with his undergraduate student Jessica Alba (33).

If everyone was fifteen years younger, it mught just work.

deydododatdodontdeydo · 10/01/2019 12:15

@Tinsel, yes! Lagertha looks amazing for her age. Bjorn was a baby a few seasons ago, now he looks older than his own mother!

arranbubonicplague · 10/01/2019 12:15

I loathe it when I think I recognise an actor or they remind me of someone and then realise that they've had so much cosmetic surgery that this is why I'm not recognising them (and, sometimes, not just the surgery but they've not aged in accordance with my expectation of my memory, IYSWIM).

TinselAngel · 10/01/2019 11:39

I agree with you in general Molten, however this will be a problem in any series which covers a long period of time, but which the producers don't initially know how many series they will be commissioned for.

They're not going to cast an older actor than the part requires in season 1, just to make sure they'll be older than their future child in a hypothetical season 4.

My pet hate is how they age the male actors in The Vikings (by giving them ever longer beards), but the female actors aren't aged at all.

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MoltenLasagne · 10/01/2019 11:31

Fair enough Tinsel - I did come in from the second series so hadn't realised that. But all the male actors are in their mid-30s making that age gap look slightly more realistic. I just get so frustrated that not only are the vast majority of characters in any film/show male, but that the few female characters that do appear are consistently played by young women in their twenties even when it doesn't make sense for the plot.

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TinselAngel · 10/01/2019 11:19

To be fair in The Last Kingdom example, Aethelfled was a baby in Series 1, so they would have had to swap her mother (and everyone else in it) for other actors as she grew up if they were going to make the age gap realistic.

AntiSocialInjusticePacifist · 10/01/2019 10:58

I’m inclined to agree there are a tonne of female actresses I grew up watching, and it’s a shame you don’t see them as much.

MoltenLasagne · 10/01/2019 10:57

A 25 year old mother of a 25 year old? That is the most ridiculous example of the phenomenon I've ever seen.

Yes, I was so confused and cross about it I was half watching the programme, half on google trying to figure out the age of the actors. Even back in 800 AD there needed to be at least a 14 year age gap between mother and daughter!

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MagicMix · 10/01/2019 10:55

This thread also reminds me of the episode of 30 Rock where a man scams Tracy Jordan by pretending to be his son. The actor playing the 'son' is only 11 years younger than the 'father'. But that was the essence of the joke. I suspect Tina Fey was taking a subtle dig at exactly this sort of nonsense that goes on with the casting of female actors.

Fantasisa · 10/01/2019 10:51

The Greatest Showman - Hugh Jackman’s character grew up as the same age as his wife and yet he is in his 50s and she is in her 30s! Figure that one out!

MagicMix · 10/01/2019 10:48

A 25 year old mother of a 25 year old? That is the most ridiculous example of the phenomenon I've ever seen. Usually they at least make the actor playing the mother 5-10 years older (which is still absurd obviously).

They also often have teenagers played by women who are in their 20s. I assume this is partly because it is easier to employ adults with regard to labour laws, but my theory is that it is also to make male audiences feel OK about being sexually attracted to a depiction of a school child and to feed the myth that teenage girls are mature, basically adults and therefore 'fair game'.

deydododatdodontdeydo · 10/01/2019 10:48

Yeah, something needs doing about this. It's down to casting directors.
Sometimes there are reasons - in Outlander, Claire (and Jamie) is supposed to have aged 20 or more years, but now doesn't look all that much older than her daughter.
The only case I can think of this in men is Crispin Glover as George McFly in Back to the Future, who was supposed to be Michael J Fox' da, but is three year's younger.

Popchyk · 10/01/2019 10:00

It is not petty at all.

Demonstrates the patriarchy perfectly.

Men can have long careers in starring roles. Women can only have short careers in starring roles. And they usually have to be beautiful to start with, of course.

www.vanityfair.com/hollywood/2017/05/hollywood-ageism-women

"In 2015, actress Maggie Gyllenhaal said, at 37, she was told she was too old to play the love interest of a 55-year-old man".

And interesting that the roles are always "love interests". Love interest of whom exactly? Why men of course. Who get to have actual characters of their own, instead of being defined solely by someone's sexual interest in them.

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