Would you still cut your long hair short if your Husband/partner said NO!

I'm with Lego, if my DH even looked like he would say no then I would have it cropped. Not that i would ask him. I would maybe tell him. But mines short anyway.

Btw the idea that ‘men have anything about long hair’ has more to do with stereotype than anything else.
Go back to the 70s and it was normal for young girls to have short hair too if they wanted.
It was normal for women in the 90s to have their hair styled in lots of different way, not just long and straight (good forbid you have curly hair too).

You dint have to go with it.

Bear in mind your hairdresser will make significantly more money from a white blonde pixie cut. It will need a LOT of maintenance. So she has a horse in this race too.

FWIW, I did have a bob that DH quite liked and I grew it out because I wanted to. My hair is mine. I probably wouldn't do something he absolutely hated, although he wouldn't tell me what to do.

If my partner said "aww but I love your long hair please don't cut it", then I probably wouldn't. However, if he was nasty saying it, i would do what I want.

But, do YOU want your hair that short? I had a pixie cut a long time ago, and it wasn't low maintenance, I didn't look good if I didn't have make up on, which I rarely do, and I had to cut it every month or so and growing it out was a pain. (And when I look at my pictures I wonder what I was thinking)

I recently cut my waist long hair because like you it was always in a poney tail. But I did the new straight bob cut (like Dua Lipa) and it's cute, everyone says it suits me, and it's easy to maintain.

If my DH said no then I would be even more likely to go and get it cropped.

It's not his hair.

Your choice.
I’m sure he would hate you telling him what he can or can’t do with his body (beard for example).
And it’s just hair anyway. If really you don’t like, it will grow again.

It’s your hair, do as you please with it. If he loves you then it won’t be a problem, because he loves the person you are, not the hairstyle.

Is the hair on his head?

If yes, you may only cut it with his permission.
If no, then you may do with it as so please.

It's hair, it's not like you're getting a facial tattoo of another man's name, it will grow back if it doesn't suit you.

It's happened several times to me (and not just my then partner, also my mother and sister ...). The short answer is yes, they will get used to it and you will be true to yourself. It's also great for gym going and avoiding children pulling on your hair

Yes I would! Men have this thing about long hair but, honestly, when it is cut woman often look absolutely amazing. Their eyes and bone structure is seen clearly, they grow in confidence and everyone tells them how stunning they are. Hee hee, perhaps that's what men are afraid of.

Long hair is for girls. Real women emerge from a hair cut.

Not up to him. Anyway, hair always grows back.

Oh, I most certainly say to do what you want with your own hair. The phrase "I don't want my wife to..." is particularly grating.

Your husband is allowed to have feelings about what you look like, and to express them to you, but not to try and tell you what to do as a result.

Yes and I did. Stbxh told me he didn’t like it and said I looked like a lesbian, but I did it regardless.

It’s now long and I’m in a relationship with a woman. Just to warn you

If your DH decided to shave his head, grow a beard, or get a facial piercing would you want to be consulted about it first? If not then go for it. If yes then consider his advice and think of a compromise. It’s as simple as that really.

Meh. My (otherwise wonderful) DP thinks I look like a lesbian with short hair, and prefers it longer. I have it short.