To be honest, fox, you're not the best communicator in the world and I'm still relatively unclear over your overall position in the trans debate. Because you muddy the waters with nonsense about sucking strapons.
I think you're simplistic and overly sure of things. The spiritual cock only came into it to illustrate variety aka "nonsense". People chose to focus on what they found ridiculous instead of the salient point. The salient point is that lesbians aren't a block vote who agree with you and plenty of them don't see any inconsistency in sleeping with trans women. And large numbers of lesbians, including ones who are very unlikely to sleep with anyone of the sex class that produces sperm, object profoundly to your beliefs and to you citing them as victims in your arguments.
I know you like facts, well, that last point is a fact, and if people had been willing to acknowledge it they might have been able to get back to their thread. I've argued with a LOT of believers and cult types: Creationists, Flat Earthers, Seventh Day Corbynites, NRAs, climate change deniers, Trump and Brexit fantasists. They often seem to have trouble comprehending quite basic sentences and understanding that people who are not mad, bad, ignorant, or indeed in a cult, could possibly disagree with them.
So it's possible that I'm "not the best communicator" and all the supposedly excellent answers I've ever written were read or marked by idiots or telepaths, it's quite possible I've gone downhill since then and I could certainly do with an Edit function on here. But it's also possible that some of you could do with a bit of self-awareness when it comes to your dire warnings about cult thinkers. Like you (plural), they're convinced they're shrewd observers of reality and everyone who disagrees is talking nonsense, like you they seem to consider their obsession to be the most pressing issue in any sphere that intersects with it, and like you they tend to have their own little phrasebooks of insults like "waffle" "pomo" and "TRA" to throw at you when they just can't understand why you might have a different opinion.