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Cissexual Vagphobia

114 replies

Katvonblackdeath · 26/11/2018 20:18

Dear plague spreading sisters!

Look! Here's another new thing for people to be. Yep. Vagphobic.

From the twitter feed Vagphobia is mainly suffered by gay men who have a weird sexual desire towards other people with penises.

Although I suppose females could be Vagphobic too although.
ARRGHHH what is that in my pants.

Cissexual Vagphobia
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Thestral · 26/11/2018 20:45

Bonkers. Just...bonkers.

What happened to enthusiastic consent? So much of this smacks of coercion.

Don't like dick/vag? You're such a transphobe! Try it, or I'll have you arrested for a hate crime. Hot.

Bicyclethief · 26/11/2018 20:39

What times we are living in. I've scoffed at people saying it's the end of civilisation but I'm now starting to think they have something.

Carrotsandcauliflower · 26/11/2018 20:37

Sorry- penny has just dropped. And it’s still bonkers.

LangCleg · 26/11/2018 20:35

It's bonkers, isn't it? You have 90% of the male sex who potentially would be interested in you, so you decide to try to guilt trip the 10% who will never be interested in you into some sort of a pity shag. All in the name of validating your identity.

It's tooth-grindingly STUPID.

AspieAndProud · 26/11/2018 20:33

Maybe you should point your vag in Doctor Haddock’s direction.

He’s very big on demanding gay people be open to the genitalia of the opposite sex so he can’t possibly turn you down.

RedToothBrush · 26/11/2018 20:33

My. What desparate homophobia.

Are they trying to force men into a shag to cure them of the gay?

Carrotsandcauliflower · 26/11/2018 20:33

That’s bonkers. Isn’t that poster a woman? Is she saying she has a phobia of her own vagina or other vaginas? Is she trying to bag women, who turn out to not want her bits? My head hurts.

FermatsTheorem · 26/11/2018 20:31

It's bonkers, isn't it? You have 90% of the male sex who potentially would be interested in you, so you decide to try to guilt trip the 10% who will never be interested in you into some sort of a pity shag. All in the name of validating your identity.

It's not a good look.

AngryAttackKittens · 26/11/2018 20:29

The word you're looking for to describe those men is "gay", love.

WombOfOnesOwn · 26/11/2018 20:29

Imagine! Saying "I want out of the category of people with vaginas" doesn't make anyone decide vaginas are more desirable.

HomeStar · 26/11/2018 20:28

It feels like nothing has really changed sometimes. You have a vagina, you get treated like garbage.

How incredibly revealing. I feel bad for this person, a little bit. Only a little bit though - they're not actually entitled to sex with gay men.

Budgieinaberet · 26/11/2018 20:26

I'm still struggling to get my head round cissexual, though I appreciate the bubonic name changes. Bit like the Christmas ones, but more deadly Grin

FermatsTheorem · 26/11/2018 20:25

"You have a vagina, you get treated like garbage."

That young person is soooo close to a lightbulb moment, but it's just out of their grasp.

The answer (as always) is more feminism, not less.

(Oh, and Viz-style top tip - you have a vag, you fancy people with penises - have you considered relationships with straight men? The ones I've had relationships with love vaginas and vulvas...)

HamiltonCork · 26/11/2018 20:24

Guilt tripping people into shagging usually never works.
People desiring you is not a human right.