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Women's Hour features interviews with Professor Alex Sharpe and Professor Rosa Freedman as part of 'Sex & Gender' series **Thread title edited at OP's request**

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kesstrel · 25/11/2018 19:39

The topic is "The law on sex and gender".

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Funkyfunkybeat12 · 28/11/2018 14:21

Do you think that the worse the TRAs come across, the more these women will rush to defend them? Rosa clearly came across better than Alex, from whatever viewpoint you look at it. But it is now that all these women are coming out to assert their cisness. Just seems a bit odd.

arranbubonicplague · 28/11/2018 13:43

We had a thread on 'Why it's important to talk to 'Handmaids'':

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/3384429-Why-its-important-to-talk-to-Handmaids

Melamin · 28/11/2018 13:16

There is a huge psychological payoff for women who acquiesce to the cult

You are right. This needs more thought and understanding. No one ever thinks they are a 'handmaid' and it backs them into a corner. A better way of helping them understand the implications of what they are doing and an escape route are needed.

FloralBunting · 28/11/2018 12:01

There is a huge psychological payoff for women who acquiesce to the cult. It shouldn't be underestimated and may give an insight into why these women are doing it - which may help GC people develop compassion when these women eventually break free from it and find themselves backtracking.

Knicknackpaddyflak · 28/11/2018 11:38

How utterly sickening that women have rushed to assert that they're good girls who accept the label they've had coercively assigned to them, and embrace their inferiority and subjugation. In a gesture to appease and soothe the ruffled feathers of Alex in Alex's trampling of women and their rights.

I'll 'assert my cisness' over my cold dead body. If you need me to show solidarity and stroke your ego for your identity to comfortably exist, you have a very big problem that is nothing whatsoever to do with me.

Bubonicpanic · 28/11/2018 11:09

Interesting that Norway's equalities legislation seems to be as much of a mess as the UK's.

Yes. Same everywhere. Ill thought out mess.

some of the people ruling on the case thought that the woman was guilty of harrassment is appalling.

This is the mindset of the people responsible for the ill thought out mess.

OldCrone · 27/11/2018 22:04

That report from Norway is horrifying. The verdict was in favour of the woman, but the fact that some of the people ruling on the case thought that the woman was guilty of harrassment is appalling.

And I wonder if this is actually true in Norway:
Women who are trans experience harassment and violence from men at a much higher rate than women who are cis, and have the same need for a changing room where they can feel safe.

Nowhere in that report was any consideration shown for a woman who did not want to share a communal shower with a transwoman with a penis.

The remark that “she is provoked by seeing a penis in the changing room” can be interpreted as being directed at B and not the changing room set up. It’s a remark that could be considered offensive.

So a transwoman can be offended by someone being offended by her penis, but a woman is not supposed to be offended by the presence of said penis in the women's changing room.

Interesting that Norway's equalities legislation seems to be as much of a mess as the UK's.

Use of changing rooms for persons who have changed legal sex is a question which has not been given a legal clarification.

OnTheDarkSideOfTheSpoon · 27/11/2018 21:25

Must’ve missed that bit

Women's Hour features interviews with Professor Alex Sharpe and Professor Rosa Freedman as part of 'Sex & Gender' series **Thread title edited at OP's request**
Bubonicpanic · 27/11/2018 21:17

That report form Norway is very interesting.

arranbubonicplague · 27/11/2018 21:07

Dropping in information from women in Norway about their experience post the introduction of Self-ID:

There was no debate before the law was implemented in Norway. Now we're seeing the consequences but women are afraid to speak up, many fear loosing jobs etc. Climate similar to the UK in terms of TRA threats and intimidation.
womenwhosayno.blogspot.com/2018/10/norway-woman-is-accused-of-harassment.html

twitter.com/kajsa_skog/status/1067226921963016192

Iused2BanOptimist · 27/11/2018 09:47

Just got to listen to it today and haven't rtwt but three cheers to Jane Garvey. The best WH I've listened to for a while, including Joan Collins, I hated her in the Dynasty days but she is truly a national treasure. I assume most of this was prerecorded, so Alex didn't get to meet Joan. I really think there should be a sequel with Joan debating interviewing Alex. GrinGrin

arranbubonicplague · 26/11/2018 22:01

Once you allow a man into your sexed bathroom, you're giving him leeway to get into your shelter, your rape crisis centre.

Irischild's poem comes to mind:

what if I am in your space?
would you say it to my face?

what if all the legal courts
say I can be in your sports?

what if laws are made for me
stopping you from stopping me?

what if a panel all agreed
gave me the paper I said I need?

I do not like to make a fuss
but you do not belong with us
and when my sisters tell you no
the thing for you to do is go

The whole poem is worth reading.

deepwatersolo · 26/11/2018 22:00

We also need someone to act as Plague Doctor

That would be Dr. Harrop, I guess?

arranbubonicplague · 26/11/2018 21:56

little snuffly creatures with bucky teeth, quite cute really but they don't half squeak a lot.

We also need someone to act as Plague Doctor - with one of these masks (didn't realise MN could add their tag into an Amazon link, it's not mine):

www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B07F913VJT?tag=mumsnetforum-21

Paging Sandy Draws Badly

Ereshkigal · 26/11/2018 21:53

I wish women would take back the toilets. The argument that 'men in wigs' have always been in women's bathrooms needs to be challenged, ALWAYS. Once you allow a man into your sexed bathroom, you're giving him leeway to get into your shelter, your rape crisis centre.

Totally agree. No males in female single sex spaces.

theOtherPamAyres · 26/11/2018 21:47

I liked the way that Jane Garvey mentioned time and time and time again that the first interviewee avoided the debate. I liked that her first question to AS was "why won't you debate?" AS said that it was necessary to get key points across to listeners.

I really liked the way that Jane Garvey ended by referring to the number of twitter enquiries from people wanting to know what 'cis' meant. AS had been niggled when JG had pulled them up on 'cis' at the very start of the interview and wasn't best pleased at being made to repeat an explanation.

There was an inference that listeners had not heard the points that AS intended to put across, because they were hung up on the 'cis' nonsense at the very start. Fail!

Oh, comedy gold Grin

BubonicBudgie · 26/11/2018 21:34

Yes I thought the gendercrits sound like nasty little creatures.
Now I've got Debbie Harry running around my head singing
Bubonic Grin

AncientLights · 26/11/2018 21:33

Rosa was great, as ever. One thing she raised that caught my attention was the April Ashley case of the 1970s and the judge ruling that sex is defined by chromosomes. And that remains, it seems. I'm surprised the TransTaliban haven't tried to get that overturned.

Annandale · 26/11/2018 21:06

I'm not going to challenge anyone in a toilet. The fact is, I'm female. If someone male kicks off at me, I am weaker than they are. That's the point of sex segregated spaces and that's why 'oh thousands of us have been violating that boundary for ages love' isn't an argument, it's a provocation.

EmpressAdultHumanFemale · 26/11/2018 21:06

little snuffly creatures with bucky teeth, quite cute really but they don't half squeak a lot.

Beware their weaponised vaginas.

hackmum · 26/11/2018 21:00

Bit like something out of the Gruffalo, Anchor.

AnchorMum · 26/11/2018 20:43

I keep picturing these 'gendercrits' that Alex seems obsessed with:

little snuffly creatures with bucky teeth, quite cute really but they don't half squeak a lot.

Best kept behind bars as they carry the bubonic plague.

arranbubonicplague · 26/11/2018 20:39

Jane Harris:

One third of us women will be burning at the stake while a third of us will be standing around asking each other: 'What does "cis" mean again?" And the final third will be gathering logs and adding them to the flames. womenshour

twitter.com/blablafishcakes/status/1067031569418895361

arranbubonicplague · 26/11/2018 20:29

Maybe Alex means anthrax? Did you mean anthrax, Alex?

I think Alex means we hang out with rats and fleas and stuff

If only there were some way that Alex might have clarified matters. Something like, I dunno, participating in a respected radio programme with a diverse and interested audience, where you respected the interviewer and the other participant and the audience? Maybe opting to communicate your ideas clearly and choosing your similes/metaphors with care?

If only Alex had been gifted an opportunity like that, eh?

HouseMouseQueen1969 · 26/11/2018 20:23

I wish women would take back the toilets. The argument that 'men in wigs' have always been in women's bathrooms needs to be challenged, ALWAYS. Once you allow a man into your sexed bathroom, you're giving him leeway to get into your shelter, your rape crisis centre.

It disappoints me when I hear women give up that crucial argument.

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